Lesson-1
Don't be upset if you don't get help from anyone. Look, the one who didn't talk to you for two minutes is talking to someone else for 2 hours. That doesn't mean the problem is not his. The problem is yours, because you may not be able to build a relationship like getting 2 minutes from someone.
Lesson-2
No matter how much sugar is poured under the neem tree, the leaves of the neem tree will never be sweet No matter how much sugar is added to the tamarind pickle, the tamarind will be sour. Some bad people will stay bad forever. Don't get hurt by someone's bad behavior Because he may not know how to behave well. It's his failure, not yours.
Lesson-3
Behave in such a way that even if your enemy openly slanders you, he wants to make his child or younger brother like you. Make yourself so that people don't block you but search all day long. Salt and sugar both look the same, the only difference is in the taste. The only difference between human beings and inhumans is in their behavior.
Lesson-4
You are happy. This is bad news for those who wanted you not to be happy. Fools answer with their mouths, wise men answer with their deeds. You don't have to pull anyone back to be the best, the rest will just fall behind if you go ahead.
Lesson-5
There is nothing to say about falling behind in life. Remember that even the last person standing in line for a ticket arrives at the counter and gets the ticket. Be patient and persevere until you get the desired success.
Lesson-6
Don't think of anyone as essential to life Don't think that your life is over without someone. The daughter of the mother who gave birth to a child after being 10 months pregnant also became a guest in her father's house after marriage. That is the rule. Your shadow does not stay with you in the dark. There is a person in Jinan who says - 'I am here. Don't make any tension '; Maybe at some point he will say goodbye with the biggest tension.
Lesson-7
Praise in front of everyone but make mistakes behind everyone. Don't be jealous of someone's success If you are jealous of someone's success, the loss will be yours. Because the more successful he is, the more you will suffer. If the person next to you succeeds, you will gain more Because if there is a successful person in front of the eyes, the energy increases. And that energy will make you successful too.
Lesson-8
The boy next door to you got a chance in medical science. If you are jealous of this, you think, there is no doctor in my house. If he is a doctor, we will go back But it is the biggest wrong decision. Remember, if someone you know is a doctor, it will benefit you for life. Because a person became your permanent for medical advice in the future.
Lesson-9
Most important part of this lesson is that
**Love yourself, love yourself, love yourself
Because?
If you don't love yourself, other people will play with you, play with your emotions. You will be ruined.
The moment you explain to the person in front of you that you have no speed without him, you love him with your life, you can do a lot for his happiness, from that very moment you handed over the responsibility and control of breaking you.
Maybe that person is your lover, friend or anyone. Always remember one thing, never prove yourself cheap, you have been caught.
If you really love someone more than your life, then brother, remember that. If you do not do as much as you do.
Even if someone breaks you, at least you are already so strong that you don't understand your breaking. He kept his mind in front of her. Because those who break it have fun with it, will break you even more. And that's only possible if you love yourself more than anyone else.
Last word-
Be Positive. No poison can kill a positive thinker & no medicine can save a negative thinker. No event is the cause of your happiness or sorrow. It doesn't even depend on what happens Rather, it will depend on how you view the situation, whether you are happy or unhappy. I'd love to know which lesson you like best here.
All the lessons are great but l agree with you that we should love ourselves otherwise will play with us like a toy. We should be positive also if we want to succeed in life.