Everyone has a friend.How to be friends?
Who is the first person you call when you are bored? Who's the shoulder to lean on when you're so sad? or the first person you want to tell when you receive news that will make you very happy. It could be someone from your family, it could be your spouse. But everyone has a friend more than a friend in life, like a brother... A friend with whom you share your life that you do not want to lose. Is it easy to make friends? Can we call all friends friends? It's a fine line.When you can't handle everything, a true friend will do you better than anything.
If you have found your real friend, it is the biggest surprise of your life. It takes and pulls you out of everything and everyone. He always wants you to be well, he wants to take care of you like a parent protects their child, he wants to share his joy in your happy days and his pain in his sad days. In other words, it is not your friend that you get along well, have a good time, laugh and have fun together. It can be your friend or close friend, but if you call it a friend, it is the person who knows and accepts your worst state. That's why one should not say that I have 3,5 friends.
What were we doing then, if we ascribed the adjective "friend" to everyone we had a good time with, to those with whom we had a good time, and to whom we spent the most time, and did we not pollute that pure concept. But it is necessary to look at it from this side, there is no such thing that it can take years to be friends with a person. You may meet a new person, maybe a week passes after meeting, but you can experience the friendship of years with that person. All the false friendships of people, friendships based on interest can be erased in a moment. You trust that person so much that you don't doubt him, you look for it in yourself, you trust him as much as you don't trust yourself, you share all your secrets, everything, your pain, your happiness with him. When you have a moment like this, when you fall into despair, another person appears in front of you in your bad times, he is always there for you, trying to take your burdens away from your troubles, and his only goal is to make you happy.
Even though you are not related by blood, he is always with you and calls you brother. It doesn't have to mean, in fact, if you ask why, a real brother is a compulsory brotherhood, but a friend is actually a chosen brotherhood. That's why we should know the concept of friend and brotherhood well, not every person can be called a friend, not every person can be trusted, you may have hundreds of friends, but the person you call a friend should be worth those hundreds of friends. Most importantly, where there is no trust, there is neither friendship nor brotherhood. A true friend cannot be given to every human being, and a person should know the value of this. So let's appreciate the friends we have.
