Who wrote these manuals?

Yesterday, I went through my WhatsApp status and came across this guy's status. The first thing he typed was, "You don't go to bed while showing your interest in her" I laughed and went to the next one. He also said "If she's mad at you for no reason, calm her down, hold her waist, place her hand on your chest and give her a heavy knock. It wasn't funny to me because girls have been ridiculed in so many ways just because they are easily accessible.

Why do young guys in their early 20s think this way? That made me really want to know who's giving these young guys relationship manuals? You are told not to fall in love because real men don't love, who told you that? Even when girls want to genuinely love them for who they are, they believe they are after their money and has nothing to offer them.

Some would say, If you go around, You'll experience new environment and you'll know it's a free world. Why should you send money to get a girl's attention or even have to pay to get laid? Some would say toasting a lady should be a stress-free thing. Who wrote this manual??

Most of us grew up with no love, and instead of us to embrace our softness, our vulnerability, We let the world harden us. Even when a guy is trying to let himself be in love, his friends would call him different names, like he is not supposed to be in love. Why let the society direct you? Why believe you are a fool if you fall in love?

Ladies are not supposed to request for money, else she's a gold digger. If the foundation of your relationship started with money, be ready to take it till the last day, without complaining. Guys will intentionally shower you with gifts to get a YES from you, and expect you not to get used to it. You are toasting a girl, you already got her the latest iPhone and you expect her not to be materialistic, after winning her heart with materials? If you had gone to her as a normal gentleman, who is managing his resources. if she'd date you, It will be for who you truly are.

I told a male friend of mine who said he asked his girlfriend for a break. I asked him why? He said he doesn't understand her anymore. It's okay to ask for a break but if it is because of money, there is no point. Let her go. Before you ask a girl out, get to know her first. Guys be promising the whole world when in talking stage with a girl, and end up saying she's materialistic.

If you know you don't want a woman who is going to be after your money, don't toast her with materials you won't be able to afford afterwards. Let the Love be mutual. Date someone of your standard. Date someone who has something doing and stop chasing the ones you can't afford their lifestyles.

A guy once told me, "Ask me whenever you need anything", but today if I remind him of that, he would say, "I was trying to get you then." I know there are some girls doing the most. You want a guy to fend for a lifestyle you can't afford. You want a guy to get everything for you, but It's not done that way. Stop making these guys talk to you out of disrespect. Stop making them think all girls are the same. There are good girls out there ready to grow with you. Girls who are ready to work for their money and ready to assist you. Not all girls are after your money or have nothing to render. Allow yourself to fall in love. Love is beautiful.

Nobody is supposed to settle for less. If you are not happy in your relationship, take a break. Always choose yourself first. You matter a lot, and do not allow anyone make you feel less of yourself. There is a quote that says, " At a certain point, self-respect has to overweigh feelings." Always remember that.

I've been away for few months. I've had my head low cos I wanted to learn new things, but I think I'm back now.