It takes process

After watching episode seven of the movie “MANIFEST”, I decided to check through my phone. I remembered mom’s 60th birthday is tomorrow, and I realized that she hasn’t even started eating the fruit of her labor at 60. Tears rolled down my eyes, I couldn’t help but think about how my siblings are still trying to make something out of the little paycheck they get.
It was at this moment I know it takes process. We are going to have everything we wish we had someday, but it takes process, which requires time.
I know there are things on each and everyone’s desk that we wish we’ve acquired before now, but you are still waiting for that thing to manifest. I’m here to tell you, it takes process and do not give up! Do not think you’ve gotten to that last bus-stop where these dreams aren’t going to manifest. It just requires time.

There are times we are at our lowest. Especially this period in January. Everyone is going through one thing or the other, I’m one of those people myself. There are bad and good days. There are days I don’t feel like myself, days I feel like giving up, days I question myself about when all the good wishes is going to manifest... one thing I know is it take process, and we all going to live that life we want, if we can work towards it and with prayers.

There’s nothing I crave more than seeing my family and I living our dream life and being happy. The time money isn’t going to be an issue for any of us, and we are just going to be happy doing what we love. I wish that day arrive fast. It takes process for everything we dreamed of coming to pass. One thing I say to myself whenever I don’t feel okay, Is to tell myself everything is going to be fine, that it is just a stage, and I will pass through it.
The best thing to do whenever you are at your lowest, is to give yourself time to think, listen to your own voice, and accept the situation as it is, with the feeling that you going to pass through it.

One thing that makes me sad is because I know my mom deserves the best now, but I’m not just in the right position to give her the life she deserves. I believe one day all of these is going to be a story cos we will be living our best life then.
Whatever challenges you’re facing now, I just want you to believe it’s a process, and everything is going to be okay very soon.
A friend of mine came in this afternoon, and said she hadn’t been in her right mind for sometime. I asked if everything was okay with her, and she said she can’t even express herself. I made her calm, and told her I’ve been there too. It normal for things to go wrong at times, it’s normal for things not to go as planned, you don’t have to beat yourself to it, but trust the process, with time everything is going to be okay.

We are not where we want to be yet, but I believe we will be there if we don’t give up. Giving up should be your last option. It’s just a trial, a stage we all going to pass through. Do not get intimidated by what others have, believe it’s takes process and your time will come too.
My pastor once said “Choose where you want to belong by your attitude and commitment”. At first, I didn’t get that message until I pictured all the cross-over nights that I have witnessed. Few days before New year, we all got so excited about the things we want to do in the New year, we write down our resolutions, but we end up doing nothing or accomplishing all we want to achieve that year and it’s because we are so excited about what we want and not committed to it. A footballer is not only excited about his career, but committed to it. Ask God and be committed to every aspect of your life. This is the time to be happy about other people’s progress, and achievements, because it takes just little time for all your dreams to manifest. Be happy. And trust the process!