You Always See Things You Want To See

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Stop explaining yourself. People who believes you, will always believe you and people who doesn’t believe you they don't need or deserve any clarification from your side. This is the fact.

So stop wasting energy by explaining and proving your love, accuracy,loyalty, and being a good person. Stop crying that you failed to prove yourself, you can prove yourself in a right place where you'll never need to cry, beg for mercy or love.

Many women try till the end to hold her relationship, they cry, they beg but hold on! Why you are doing so? Person who knows your worth, your priority, trust me he will never ever create situation that may hurt you, break you or make you cry.

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We all are seeing things we want to see and we want to believe. For example, a couple where husband loves her very much but the wife is cheating on him and any 3rd person let the husband know that his wife is a bad woman. The husband trust his wife and he just ignore them and keep loving his wife. The wife realize her mistake and will try to correct herself when she knows her husband loves her and trust her like a blind.

In this story, the husband saw things he wanted to see and his positive attitude changed his wife in a positive way.

One more story goes to discussion the issue. A couple where husband is a drug addict and wife is a religious woman. They are different, but the religious woman wants to see the goodness of her husband so she tries till the rest of her life to correct her husband and save him from addictions. The addicted husband often torture his wife physically and suspect her as the characterless woman but she is not. The addicted husband wanted to see this so he is seeing his wife bad.

So Its up to you that how you see things around you. Positive thinking and attitude will bring positivity and negative thinking and attitude will bring negativities or disasters. Choice is yours that how you want to see everything around you.

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The greatest commandments Jesus gave was love, When we love lean to love people around genuinely, you will definitely be loved too, especially when God is involved in whatsoever you found yourself into.

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2 years ago

Agree with your each and every words

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You are tight about knowing your self worth. One shouldn't have to beg to be loved, love yourself instead and love will find you

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2 years ago

Absolutely right, we need to love ourselves at first and then others.

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For us now, we more believe in rumors than we see in person that is why a lot of things unexpectedly happened.

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2 years ago

Absolutely, people go with the trend and hard to decide what is good or bad, Just watch and believe.

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2 years ago

Our mind visualise the exact thing what we think. We decide our own stories and perception about others.

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2 years ago

Well said, I agree with that, sometimes we write our stories and blame others.

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2 years ago

I do this alot, explaining myself too much because it just makes me sad when people think I'm lieing when I'm actually saying the truth. So explaining myself is a method I use to buy my way out which I know is not good but can't just imagine it when people thinks I'm lieing. I'm always scared of people thinking I'm lieing to them, but reading your article today, I learnt a lot and it gives me the confidence to be able to stand my ground. Thanks for this wonderful article. I really learned a lot.

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