Do you really very influenced by other's compliments or point of views? Don’t be. When you'll see from other's eyesight, your own eyesight will be disable and you can't see things according to you. Many years ago one of my friend told me to get married earlier or else there will be none at my old age. Who guaranteed that I'll stay alive till my old age and who guaranteed that my marriage will be long lasting and successful? There are many so called people will show concern when they don't have actually.

Those people who interfere in your personal life and try to point out what you should do and what you should not are mostly disturbed inside. They are not fine in their personal life. The friend I was talking about above was married and have a child. Her husband live abroad and she is living like a single mother in this country. But I didn’t said anything negative or point out anything that may hurt her. It was clear to me that she was not happy for being a single mother even her husband was alive and living in another country.

Actually upset people can't supply positive vibes and they mostly say negative to others to make them upset too. I didn’t mind that she had concern about my marriage and old age status but the way she told that tone was not sounds concern, it was like poking or pushing for something I was not ready at that time. Only physically ready is not enough, a proper plan or mindset needed to take the right decision for life. It would be late but choosing the right is important.

Playing chess is a good practice to sharpen our mind. So it also can be good to have a proper mind set to plan something really effective. There are many more activities can help us to be sharp on taking right decisions. Our life experiences also can help us on that but its not guaranteed that every decision and every steps will be perfect in life.

Whatever, our planning for future is good but being over concerned and over thinking about future can be dangerous. Our proper mind set never allow us to interfere other's personal life and will help us to take positive decision for future. Sometimes other's so called concern may hurt but we shouldn’t allow that to change our lifestyle. Better we don't share personal feelings and life stories with random people. I made this mistake many times and already learned the lesson.

Once if a street dog bark at me, I got scared and worried because I was fool and paid attention to those barking dog instead ignoring them right their. So try to avoid over concerned people around you, their intension to see you panic and worried about future. Your positive and proper mind set only can help you and its needed only to live a happy life. Many people around you will say that they can feel your pain but actually they don't because when you suffer only you know that how it feels like.

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