February 14, 2022 || Valentine Day

Self loving is important to live a happy and positive life. When you can accept yourself as you are, this world also will accept you as you are. Why today I'm writing about this topic? Not because its a valentine day, its because to remind you about yourself. Treating oneself good is not selfish, many people got confuse between being selfish and having self love.

Selfish is like when we do harm others for self satisfaction but without doing any harm to others when we take care ourselves that is call self love and this is important now. Loyal love is rare and you are the one who knows oneself and we should love oneself, doesn’t matter how is our shape, how is our look, Almighty created us for specific reason so we all are precious or important. Our life and existence everything is important to this earth. When we'll be done, we will die. We are living means we are for purpose.

Almighty created us with care and love and its our responsibility to take care of oneself. People get upset and punish themselves mentally and sometimes physically too. Many people in this earth found commit suicide and this way they hurt them and kill them forever. A person who hurt himself/herself also hurt others because a unhappy soul can't bring happiness. Self love is important to be happy and blessed. Our Almighty wants to see us happy and blessed so why don't we work on it? We should take care of our physical and mental health.

A person who loves oneself can love others too. A person who burns in hell can't heal others so loving oneself is a must. There are many benefits of loving oneself. As I said, by loving oneself we can please our creator Almighty Allah. We can spread positive vibes around us. No one likes to see around people who hates themselves.

For example, a pregnant woman has a baby in her womb and she loves her baby inside her womb but she doesn’t eat well, drink well and take no self care, and its affect the health of the baby inside her womb. This was just an example, this way our family, friends, loved one all are connected to us and when they found us upset, broken, careless, it also hurt them and make them feel bad for us. But when we love ourselves and treat ourselves with the good, nothing could be better than this.

So today in this valentine day let's promise ourselves that we never stop loving oneself and will keep continue take care of oneself. Today I brought chocolates, toffees for myself and also shared with my roommate sister. We can love but after loving oneself. By hurting oneself we can't be able to love others. Be your own favourite, find out things you like in yourself and be happy forever.

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