All journey is not planned and matter of pleasure. Some journey just because we need to do compromise in life. There is none who can say that he/she never compromised in life, doesn’t matter how rich and how wise a person is. Compromise is a must.
Sometimes thing we don't want to have in life and things we want to ignore but we can't, sometimes sake of religious restrictions or sometimes family pressure insist us to compromise. Specially women's life mostly found full of compromise.
Religious people don’t want to disappoint Almighty so sometimes things we don't like can't throw out from life. Reason is one, Almighty will get disappointed. So sometimes we do compromise and need to accept things are not right.
Many times ago girls forcefully need to adjust in husband’s house. She gets no consideration but she have to please everyone or else she may have suffer from physical and mental torture. But in those days they need to compromise their comfort and things that not goes fair she need to accept things. This way she become a good woman is society, doesn’t matter what was her will and wishes.
Today's generation is very caring about relationship but discrimination still found. Adjustment is also a kind of compromise specially when things are not in our hand or according to our will. Accept things and forcing to accept things are not same.
Well educated women now has bad name because they can't tolerate things silently and hardly get ready to compromise. Some choose to be happy in life even the so called society may scold her and some decide to compromise with the hope that one day everything will be all right. But the one day is uncertain.
Educated and none educated both suffer and compromise maybe more or less but none can say that he/she never compromised things in life, if anyone can say that he/ she never compromised is life, I must say he/she is luckiest person in this universe.
Compromise is not a bad thing and not always mean to lose things. But some compromise gives us pain that we bear for lifetime. For example, a girl was raped by a sick man in village and the justice of village decide to tie them. But how a girl can be happy with a rapist? This another punishment for her after being raped. So here she don't want to marry because she don't want to compromise but village women mostly compromise in such situation because the society make them more helpless.
Some compromise affect a person like broke completely him/her inside. Some compromise make us feel really very helpless. But we all need to be helpless in life in several unwanted situation.
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For good relation between husband and wife they have to over look many things and compromise. The point is without compromise the relation could not be last long so in most of the cases in between relationship this so called word compromise gives us good fruit.