Asian Women Should Be Financially Independent
Lifestyle of each region is different to each other. As an Asian its my concern that women should be financially independent for their financial security and freedom. A girl child was ignored badly in the past even many parents didn’t send their girl child to the school and consider them as burden. Things changed with the time. Today many people talk about women rights, equal rights and so on but somewhere things are still remain as it was in the past.
How is a life of An Asian woman? Born in a family, father rule her life and take decisions on her behalf until she got married. After getting married her husband rule her and take her life decisions on her behalf. After getting old she ruled by her son or children and take her all decision on her behalf. Father, brother and son/child never ask what does she want or what is her wish? All the life she ruled by someone and this is the life of a woman mostly found in Asia.
Many family doesn’t treat woman in a good manner and always scold them by considering them useless as they can't make money. Once I saw a man didn’t allow her wife for education after getting married and she was busy with family and kids and her life was in a boundary, for each penny she needs to beg to her husband and the husband scold her for asking for money. When the woman become old, the man told her that she never tried for making money and the poor Asian woman cried because she was nip in bud when she had huge potentialities after completing study. So now you can understand why Asian woman should be financially independent.
Both men and women can contribute to personal and government finance. There are many working opportunities are open for women but they need to complete their study properly and break the chain of restrictions that can forcefully stop them to build their career. Asian women are mostly surrounded with a chain that hardly allow her to be independent. Woman who is financially independent can bear the family responsibilities like a man but most of the men doesn’t like woman working and being self dependent. Many men found jealous at their wife success in working field and this sometimes become reason of separation or divorce.
If Asian women become financially independent can take care of parents at their old age. What destiny will bring no one knows. For example, a woman who doesn’t work for making money and depend on husband’s income, if someday the husband got died and left 2-3 kids with no property or financial support, how the life will be of the woman? How she will bear her family with 2-3 kids? So men who support women working deserves a grand salute. A woman who works for family maintenance will always helpful to husband. If in a family both husband and wife work together and share family responsibilities then there will be no stress for a single person.
A woman loves to shopping, spend for family and love to decorate their house and she doesn’t like asking money from husband, from father or from their children all the time. She wants to make her own money which she can use with full freedom, there will be none to ask her where she spend money and how much she spent. Asian women are having less freedom comparatively to the women of other regions. So this is my concern that Asian women should be financially free and should get married after being financially independent.
Totally agree with you on this.... Majority of people in Asia doesn't like or want to see a women financial independent and then some restrictions of doing job/work after marriage etc is a thing which should be end
And let everyone live like how they've dreamt of being financially independent!