You Must Accept Me However I Am

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4 years ago
In community: Marriage and Relationship(4c4c)

A friend and her partner have been together for years, they love and trust each other and always communicate their feelings about everything.

He talked to her about how she has gained too much weight and she should do something about it. He explained to her how he cares about her and loves her and wants her to lose weight. She has gained 50kg in a few months, she says it’s hard to lose weight.

Some people have said that she should lose the weight others say she should leave him for telling her to lose weight.
What do you think she should do?


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if they love each other i think she shouldn't leave him...some people may not know how to love in every situation .. but their love is true... i think your friend should have a try for losing weight...but her partner also should help her....if things go like this i suggest not to leave

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User's avatar Tamanna21
4 years ago

Thanks for your advice, I think so too 😊

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User's avatar Shitcoincharter
4 years ago

if you love someone you can fight for any struggle no matter how hard is it.

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User's avatar iernam09
4 years ago

Love conquers all! Thanks for your contribution 😊

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User's avatar Shitcoincharter
4 years ago

It depends on how the message been delivered to her, So i guess she must lose weight first then after that she would come up with decisions on how to handle him.

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User's avatar Bink
4 years ago

Losing weight will be good for her too.

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User's avatar Shitcoincharter
4 years ago

In a relationship, it's better that the desicion must come from them (either of them two who are in a relationship). As you've said they both love each other. She gained a lot and told by her partner to lose weight, maybe it's out of concern. Not only physically I guess but to make his beloved healthy or live a healthy life.

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User's avatar eommaZel
4 years ago

you're right, they must decide how to move forward together. we all want our loved ones to be health and live a health life.

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User's avatar Shitcoincharter
4 years ago

love is all that matter.if you love someone you can accept who is she

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User's avatar shucks
4 years ago

Love is give and take. If you love someone accept him/her. If you love yourself, make an effort to stay fit.

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User's avatar blogging_owl
4 years ago

How can you love someone else when you can't love yourself?

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User's avatar Shitcoincharter
4 years ago

This is a good rhetorical question I always ask myself.

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User's avatar blogging_owl
4 years ago

Loving yourself means being your best self which includes living a healthy life.

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User's avatar Shitcoincharter
4 years ago

I definitely agree with you.

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User's avatar blogging_owl
4 years ago

I think if you truly love someone, you dont care about his/her physical appearance. .

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User's avatar Kris2310
4 years ago

So do you think she should leave him? Don’t you think he is telling her about it cause he really loves her and wants her to look good and be healthy? It probably wasn’t easy for him to tell her something like that but he had the courage to do it cause he really cares. If he didn’t say anything and just changed his attitude towards her won’t that be unfair? I care and love my partner and I won’t be happy if he is becoming overweight and I will tell him and he would do the same thing for me cause he feels the same way. When you care about someone you tell them the truth and tell them how their actions affects you especially if it is negatively.

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User's avatar Shitcoincharter
4 years ago

If he really cares! Its ok..But if he care only the looks it is different.

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User's avatar Kris2310
4 years ago

I think he really cares and loves her, He could have just left her and gone to be with someone else if he only cared about looks. Wanting your partner to look good isn’t a bad thing either, we all want that. How she looked when they met is definitely one of the things that attracted him to her, men cannot pretend to be sexually attracted to someone that they don’t find attractive. It’s worse if he didn’t say anything and telling a woman about her weight is not an easy thing to do cause you know she would not be happy to hear it. Being healthy makes you a happy human being in general, it boosts your self esteem, it boosts your mood and so on... I think we all want that for the people we love and care for.

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User's avatar Shitcoincharter
4 years ago

If the man's intention is to suggest a healthy lifestyle for her, i mean lose weight for her own good health, she shouldn't leave the man. Yes acceptance in a relationship is needed but being better for your own good is also important.

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User's avatar Charlotte
4 years ago

That’s what he wants, for her to be healthy for herself. If she is healthy and happy their relationship will also be good.

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User's avatar Shitcoincharter
4 years ago
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