The other day I was talking to two guys about friendship with women, one guy is married and the other is single.
The single guy said he can’t be friends with women like the way he is friends with guys, he goes on to explain that when he meets a woman that he likes and finds attractive, he doesn’t think about being friends with her, he would tell her exactly how he feels about her and how he wants to be with her romantically, he feels like it goes in that direction with most women he talks to.
It’s hard for him to be friends with women cause he can’t be himself the way he is with his bro’s and that’s not the definition of friendship to him, he doesn’t want to pretend to be friends with someone he finds attractive. To him the people closest to him are; 1. Family, 2. His bro’s (brothers and male friends) 3. Acquaintances.
The second guy is married and has a female best friend, they have been friends since they were kids, they grew up knowing each other and have always been best friends for years and he also has other female friends. He said grew up around women so it’s easy for him to have a lot of friends that are women, he understands them and can relate to them easier. He doesn’t deal with all the issues his friend deals with.
I talked to another guy, he is in a relationship, he doesn’t have female friends now but he had a female best friend growing up. He said when they were younger they always spent time alone together and it always led to stealing kisses and touching each other sexually, at some point they were both in relationships with different people but when their partners were not around and they were spending time together alone as best friends, they would still have sex.
The other female friends he had also ended up as more than friends, some of them turned into a romantic relationship, or friends with benefits. He said men can’t be friends with women, especially if they like each other and spend a lot of time alone together.
What do you think?
Can men and women can be friends?
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It depends on the people involved and how well they can caution themselves.