Become an Interesting Person

We must have a friend whose presence is always awaited by everyone because after all he always attracts attention. Granted, maybe not everyone is born with the ability to liven things up. There are also those who naturally have their own charm and then maybe some of us wonder, how to be an attractive person in a circle of friends or work?

Many people can do, the main thing is to add insight. Some may strive for that by reading more books, checking the news on social media, trying to talk and make friends with more people, or maybe watching more movies and series. The goal is that more material can be discussed when meeting with other people, both those we already know and those we don't know.

Then the next question is what does it mean to be an attractive person in society?

Some may interpret it as an individual who has lots of interesting facts or funny stories to share. There are also those who will understand him as someone who can always read the atmosphere in the group. You are free to have your own understanding of being an attractive person. Anxiety that usually accompanies is whether we continue to be ourselves or even force ourselves to be a human figure who will be considered attractive to others.

Basically everyone is interesting in their own way. Sometimes we don't even realize that we may actually be attractive to others without having to force ourselves to like things we don't really want. When a person really likes a game, for example, he or she will voluntarily find out every detail in the game world. Of course when talking to people who have the same interests, he will be considered more attractive.

When you may find yourself unattractive or it may be difficult to fit into the group. It could be that all this time you have been too focused on being someone you think will be more accepted by others. In fact, by being honest with yourself, and starting to dare to express what you like more, you will eventually meet a group that may be more accepting of you.

If you are currently experiencing anxiety about feeling unattractive to the people around you, and trying your best to become someone else to be more accepted, remember that this is a very tiring path.

When the time comes, we will surely find a place where we can be accepted and considered with the things we basically like. Until now, don't worry too much about trying to be someone else, keep trying to be honest with yourself while continuing to explore the potential that has actually been entrusted to us.

Hopefully we can be given an environment that can make us believe that we are attractive with different colors..