Do everything with Love
I have seen other people influencing or controlling someone's life. The person who hasn't any goal in life doesn't know where he is going, or the course he is doing right now and doesn't know about its importance and impact on himself in the professional field. Then someone else starts controlling his life. He became only a listener and performer without listening to his inner voice about what we wanted to do.
The issue is spoon-feeding, since the day he was born, the elders don't allow him to make his decision. Let him take either right or wrong. Even though He chose the wrong path, definitely he will learn a lesson. Don't influence someone's life forcefully let people be more practical.
When you start listening to your heart and choose a field that you love to be in, you feel more energetic and never bored of performing your best in that specific career. Don't listen to people it's your life and you have to spend it. Listen to your heart and mind, and start performing with your best.
Yes, you take advice from your elders they have more experience than your life time, W proverb is famous in Punjabi;
" sonu sub di, kro apni"
listen to the advice of all people but do what you like to do in your life. You are the only person who is aware of your good and bad points. The change and advice received from the brain under the influence of the heart is the most effective one. You are the only person who knows about your circumstances, people advise according to what happening in society not what happens to you.
When you analyze your personality deeply, you can examine a potential that has only in you not any other person in the family, need to polish that talent. Your talent doesn't need to be unique, in most cases children what to be like their parents. Like if a father is a doctor his children may love to serve humanity by performing MBBS. It's a matter of interest that everyone likes to do.
In some cases, I have seen parents forcing their children to choose that specific field, Score good marks in exams but they failed because of a lack of interest in that field or because they love to perform in another field. Parents are not the enemies of children but they just want to see you on a big stage receiving a medal. But they should understand the interest of their children in what they love to do in their life and then polish that skill.
Follow your passion, this will make you successful one day. If the father of Cristiano Ronaldo told him to be a bright student in the class. Half of the brands will not able to sell their products and people can't able to see such an amazing footballer. So, listen to your inner voice and follow your passion and do what you love to do.
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28-05-2022
Even if I do mistakes or fail in something as long as it's my decision I feel fine but when I take someone's advice and end up on a different place, it feels so dull like I'm not living or enjoying my life. So listen to your heart but be sure to be on the right track.