Self responsibility in Kids

As the title suggests its an article to bring self responsibility in children from a very young age. So that they become a self responsible man or woman in future. Every small things which we thought is unnecessary or should be ignored in life, must be taught with great care to our little ones. Some of the best ways are:

Make it compulsory to engage the kids in whatever we do. For little kids, we are their teachers. So we should be a bit cautious in whatever we do, especially in their presence. Cos its told that children are keen enough to grasp things in a very young age. Sometimes it so happens that we look into their mistakes rather than the efforts put by them. Infact we can teach them once, twice or more times if necessary, in order to motivate them. We should be their inspiration and strength. Because if any thing goes wrong they should not hesitate to ask us and also, they should understand that we are with them. Learn to appreciate whatever little things they do. A word of praise will energize their will power and determination.

Ignore their little mistakes. Kids often commit mistakes. Its easy to correct them in the young age. Once they are grown up, they never have have the patience to listen to us. So we have to keep some time for kids. Motivate them by telling repeatedly "you can do it" or " you are the only one" or "you will". When we keep pointing their mistakes, they will lose their will power and automatically their mind gets suppressed. And Out of which appears fear and finally they never attempt to give a try for something new.

When questioned by the kids never ever ignore. Children are always curious to know the answers for How, What, Why or When? When they happen to come across something new apart from their regular schedule several question arises. Make sure to be more specific in giving an answer.Now a days children are very smart. They know to use the smart phone better than us. Some of their questions are difficult for us to answer, though its simple. Though we cannot give an appropriate answer, to some extent we can relate the question with pictures and show them by visuals.

Talk to them frequently. So that they feel that they are also given importance in the family matters. In future, they will be confident enough to come and discuss any matter with us, in which our help is required. Such kids are the ones, who turn out to be bold enough to question anyone in public. Be it a male or female.

Keep away from Smart phones. When parents reach home after a hectic office schedule, most of them find solace in their mobile phones, unaware of the fact that a little one was waiting all through the day just to pour out his day's adventure. So make sure you give sone time for them, keeping the smart phones aside. A hug or a kiss or an enquiry makes them happy. Leave all your frustrations, if any, at the office doorsteps. Do not bring them home. You cannot be at peace. Let this be just family time.

There must be better parents in this platform than what I wrote here. This is just an awareness. So hope you all have a wonderful day. Thanks for reading!

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