Not easy to please everyone if you're too good

Greetings and Warm wishes to all friends in read.cash. Was quite busy for few days. One reason being Ramadan month where I wish to spent more time on prayers and the other reason being my writings are going unnoticed by Rusty. Waiting in patience for his arrival. I feel that my writing interest is deteriorating but I have not lost my confidence.

Most often people take advantage of us when they find us weak. This very thing keeps rotating in our society. Empowering the weaker sections in the society should be fought against with more courage. The more you stoop, the more you are burdened.

It is not good to be too good.- Most of us inorder to keep our name and fame, decide to accept whatever comes our way, though we are not much aware of it. The reason being we cannot say an abrupt "no". It is not our sole job to satisfy other peoples necessities and desires, personally or officially. We have our freedom to say 'yes' or 'no'. For instance, Sometimes it so happens that the person happens to be your best friend. And if his work basically brings a huge loss to the concern should be stopped with immediate effect. In no way it should be encouraged. This is were one gets a chance to know the other better.

Sometimes its the security feeling of close and dear ones that forces us to accept, whatever is being told. Though we know we are doing something wrong that is acknowledged to us, with the negative feelings we are destined to do so. For the belief that we will lose someone who is very close to us. Or where the after effects are going to be ill fated. One becomes helpless not knowing what is right and what is wrong.

Never feel disheartened about what people have to say . This is another important indispensable factor of being too good. Each time we do something we have a second thought. Are we doing right? What will he/she think about me? Are we going in the right path? Is this really necessary? Oh! What will people say....For one moment we will forget everything and listen only to your inner self and their you get a fruitful response.

Life is full of learning new lessons, especially when you try something new. Sometimes we curse a person for being dishonest or for not doings as we please. But the moment you step into his shoes we will know why he did this. May be that was the right choice. Never under estimate a person for what he has done. May be it was done for a purpose. Though the fruitful result we may reap later.

Never risk yourself to please someone . It's human tendency to ask for help when in need. But sometimes the help is for saving himself meanwhile putting the other in trouble. Here it's the weak one who is at risk, who accepts and falls prey to there unscrupulous act. It becomes a habit for some people who are smart enough to make one believe with his estranged cooked stories. Further, blaming others for his own fault. If you are smart, you win smartly.

Never think you are at fault. Another human nature is we keep on doing things in the most perfect manner to please others. We give our best, with no loopholes for a complain or an unwanted talk. Maybe personal or professional. To be a better spouse we try to be perfect by completing each and every work at its best in no time. The same when it comes to official point of view, we try to complete the designated task within the assigned time. But despite the fact of being too perfect when others find fault in your hardwork or when one faces unexpected questions, we get shattered. And we think we are at fault.

Anything that is done with persistent hardwork never goes in vain. Though we have to wait long, the response will be fruitful for definite. When we are definite to do anything with determination we should also be confident to walk out, when things go out of your way. This way one will succeed in his/her life.

When we have a perfect layout of what we are going to do, there is no question of why or why not? So being too good is harmful for us while it benefits the other.

My sincere thanks @Lucifer01 and @Talecharm for renewing my sponsorship. These are real inspirations to keep one to continue writing in this platdorm. God bless you both abundantly. Kindly excuse as Iam late to thank you.

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