That's not who you are
Date: August 9, 2021 Author: Sequoia ***Who are you?*** ***If I am going to ask you to describe yourself in one word, what would it be?*** I can still recall some of my moments in primary and secondary school where teachers would ask us to describe ourselves using one word, animals or things. As far as I remember I would always describe myself as a tree. Well, it is very common but you can’t blame me for that. Trees are known for being strong and as a child, I wanted to show them that I am a strong person so that no one can bully me. Just kidding. Deep inside my heart, that description was a sort of declaration. The way I view myself when I was younger was a lot different than now. And I think, I am not the only one experiencing this thing. Most of the time, we tend to look at ourselves based on what we hear to other people and experiences in our lives. Admit it or not, we all have reached the point in our lives where we ask for man’s validation. We gave them the authority to label us and the sad part of it is we just keep on receiving it. We often forgot that we are not a sponge and we shouldn’t absorb everything we hear and see especially if it is about us. ________________________ **Rejected** **Failure** **Worthless** **Useless** **Loser** Those are the words that I constantly received from the people around me and whether I like or not, it really affects me and how I perceive myself. They put those labels in me and I just let them do it. And to be honest, it made me lost me. I lost my self-esteem, hope, passion, confidence and eagerness to live and enjoy my life to the fullest. For so long, I’ve been carrying those placards that they have hand in my chest as my label. However, everything changes when I encountered the Lord. He broke those chains that bind me and remove the labels that the other people and even I put to myself. It was like God was carrying a megaphone with His hand and keep on repeating to my ears the words **“that is not who you are!”** ________________________ Those six words change my life and I am writing this today to change how you view yourself as well. **THAT IS NOT WHO YOU ARE!** ***You are not rejected; you are accepted*** Always put in your mind that a man’s no is God’s way of protecting you. When He closes one door, He will open another one. ***You are not a failure; you successful*** Failure is part of success. You can never encounter successful people who never experience failure in their lives. ***You are not worthless; you are worth it*** Remember that your worth is more than rubies. God didn’t sacrifice Himself to make you worthy, He sacrifice Himself because you are worthy. ***You are not useless; you are created with a big purpose*** God never make a mistake. If He created you, then He definitely made you with a big purpose in life. ***You are not a loser; you are victorious*** Christ is victorious so you do you. Always remember that you can do all things with Christ who strengthens you. ________________________ **Closing thought** People will keep putting labels to you. You can’t stop them for doing that. What you can do is to never carry those labels and always focus your eyes and ears on what God is saying to you. He knows you better and you are fearfully and wonderfully made. ________________________ This is my entry for ma’am @JonicaBradley ‘s writing prompt about label. Thank you and God bless. Discalimer: The pictures isn't mine. It's from unsplash.com
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Truth. With God in our life labels came from people don't matters.
Exactly. What He says matters the most.
We only become what other people think of us when we allow ourselves to become what they say.
Amen! We should not let their opinion shape us.
This is powerful. Right, we should never permit those labels to consume us, we should only listen to Him.💗
Yes, let us focus our ears in His voice.
Amen for this, our Identity is in Christ!! We are not who we think we are!
Amen bal! We are more than what other people says.
I used to have rubber band as something that represents me when my teacher asked about it. And I would say 'because I'm flexible' to whatever situation life throws at me. Haha But yeah, we shouldn't believe in what the devils say what we are. We are what God says we are.💛
Wooow nice naman po ng rubber band. And tama pooo. Dapat kay Lord tayo mas makinig.
The label is the only thing that we can't change .. But the best thing to do is to ignore it. as long as we know by ourselves our real label..
That's true ateee. We know ourselves better than them
People mislabelled us and it's up to us if we accept it or not. But always remember what others may label you shouldn't affect how you see yourself. Prove them wrong and God knows who you really are.
That's true. Just let them think what they want. We know ourselves better.
Bakit narinig ko boses ni Moana everytime I read "this is not who you are".😅charoot lang◉‿◉ This is true sis. Kahit anong label man ang ibato ng mga tao sa'tin, it doesn't matter. What matters most is how God sees us.
Hahaha version 2.0 ako ni Moana sis eh hahaha.
Lahat ng tao na nagsasabi sakin ng ganyan tinatanong ko, "Sino ba kayo sa buhay ko para sabihan ako ng ganyan?" 😂 HAHAHA nako mas alam at mas kilala natin sarili natin. ignore lang natin ang mga taong tumatawag satin ng ganyan and prove to them na hindi tayo ganon 🥸💚
That's true mars. Hayaan lang natin sila. Keber ahhaha. Wala namn sila ambag sa buhy natin eh.
I agree with this and your words inspires me. But as for me, furious only occurred when I was still in elementary, but as I get older, I just don’t care, I do what I want without taking any judgements.
Same po haha. Nung bata pa ako, grabe akong naasar sa mga naririnig ko unlike ngayon.
Nicely put. Labels that bring us down should be thrown to the river. We are not what they see us. We are what we see ourselves.
Totoo po yan ate. Their opinion doesn't matter.
We gave them the authority to label us and the sad part of it is we just keep on receiving it. - This is so true. We allow other people to label us and we tend to forgot who we really are. That is why I rather choose to be unlabelled than mislabelled. However, everything changes when I encountered the Lord. - Very well said. It really hits different when God started to work for us. Well He really does from the start, it is just that sometimes we don't allow Him in us. But once we do, everything will be put into places. Kanindot ani na article nimo bebe Se. Makainspire. The best! 💗
Uwaaaah salamat sa pag appreciate ateee. I am glad kay nagustuhan nimo ni 🤗
You've given justice to the prompt label given by maam Jonica, I didn't write this prompt yet, I don't have ideas how I will write about it haha
Awww. Thank you 🤗. It took me a while before I decided to pull it off hihi.
The labels we receive from others are just words. It is and always will be ourselves who know us deep so we must listen to ourselves and not to others.
True mars. What matters the most is how we view ourselves.
the most important 👌
Progressive. That's how I want to describe myself in one word. We are not perfect. We all have failures. We should learn from all that and grow.
Progressive ❤. I love it. Indeed, we are all in a progress.
We should always look at the people we surround ourselves with. If they are people who are sick with fears, frustrations and ungrateful, those will be the feelings they will have in their hearts and that is the only thing they will know how to tell the world. Take a good look at who you surround yourself with and don't let them minimize you. I describe myself as a star in the sky.
You are definitely a star in the sky @gertu13 . You shine so bright.
Thank you for your words. I didn't mean it because of the shine for me but because I am always giving advice. Or rather giving light to others. A hug.
True motivation and full of positive vibes getting from this article looking forward to see more like this!!!
Awww thank you so much for the aprreciation 🤗
Just let those labels pass by. We are knowledeable about our own selves so don't let those fools destroy your good character
Yeah. We know ourselves better than anyone else.
There is power in the tongue, that is why self declaration of positive things is good. No matter what people say or do. I know who i am. I know who God says i am. So man's opinion doesn't matter.
That's true. What matter the most is what God says who we are.
<Always put in your mind that a man’s no is God’s way of protecting you. When He closes one door, He will open another one.> Indeed.. He opens 10 doors more after just closing 1.
That's true. Our God is faithful.
Failing means winning. At least fail because you tried, not fail because you did not try.
Tama po ateee. Atleast we try.
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