The life of a man depends on what he encounters in life. Our environment plays a very significant role in our life. But what normally prove to be a changing indices to our life is the way and manner issues are received. When I was young I find myself in an illiterate and backward environment where boys are exhibiting Ghetto Life of sleeping outside home, drinking recklessly and share fun with opposite sex with reckless abandon.

Many lives of boys and girls are not valued and they find delight in sensual life. Many did not value life. They engage in violent and thuggery activities to the detriment of others residing in the community. They are fondling of taking to fight one another on a flimsy excuses.

The influence of bad elders around the area did not help matters. They help gossips and other social vices to thrive just to acquire instant Recognition. They expose kids to danger by giving them tokens after sending them on illegal errands. These illegal errands range from asking kids to buy cigarettes and alcoholic drinks. When they deliver the errands well ,kids are remunerated for efficient delivery of errands. They are giving Tokens of money. This invariably contributes to ruining of decent life of some kids

Unfortunately , some of these kids turn bad as a result of bad immitation of these bad elders. My early days in life witness many distortions capable of derailing my life. Some streets kids then later turned boys within the environment. Some turned Terror within the environment to the extent that some carrying locally made weapons around to unleash mayhem in the community. When this happens security forces are invited to quench the self-inflicted riots on the environment. It will be recalled that many turn to be vagabonds with poverty-stricken life laced with no value.

Many of these elders prefer to ruin the life of many other children different from their own. They don't live by good examples , in that regards , I later see them as negative encouragers because they know the right direction to put younger ones but intentionally refused to do the right thing at the right time. Many heinous things in our society today may not be unconnected with negative encouragers . They give wrong advice to innocent kids just to fulfill their bad hearts desires. Some innocent girls are taking abroad by cajoling them of good and decent jobs abroad whereas it is all lies. After taking them abroad they now offer them to dogs to have fun with innocent girls. This is a greatest crime against humanity. This is not good for growth and progress of our Community and the nation and even bad for the whole World in general. This is negative effect of Negative encouragers on the society.

However , I must give gratitude to some few positive encouragers who took it upon themselves to put some of us in the right direction. Our Parents of blessed memory took it upon themselves to ensure that we weree separated from bad influencer people who are out to destroy Life of innocent kids. They showed us right moral attitude to life. They made us to understand that there is no alternative to good and decent behaviours anywhere in the World.

It is the right influence of Positive encouragers that made us to be alive today. They prevented us from encountering early and untimely deaths that had sent many ignorant kids to their early graves. To me ,one should exercise restraint from taking advice .

The good and decent positive encouragers made us to be educated and learned today. They gave encouragement to us to go to school to read. We must thank our stars for deeming it fit to attend school to receive education today. We are assets to our community today.

I read I the Newspaper this morning , June 10 2022 that the Government of Malawi had prevented South African dancer Zodwa Wabantu entry into Malawi . This is based on what the government perceived as bad because the dancer built her career and fame around morally degrading stage acts. This is a timely intervention from the government before innocent Youths start copying and immitating negative encouragers.

Let's us sends right signals to our younger ones so that the world would be a better place for all of us to live.

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