All things under the surface of the Earth have their own secrets. Professions, Careers , even Relationship has its own unique secrets which the partners must keep away from friends and other set of people to make the relationship to work to precision. There's no disputing the fact that partners must have things that they must hold dearly between themselves to make their relationship to work and which they must not share with anyone , with outsiders. It must be noted that those shared feelings if known to outsiders and those I may call the Intruders they may capitalize on this and give rooms for backbiting which may ultimately results in generation of ill-feelings between partners.

For relationship to last and stories to tell in the nearest future for generation yet unborn , you must have those core values that you hold in high esteem between yourself . It should be noted that affairs between Partners is not something that can be in the public domain for People to despise and treated with disdain. But they must have things they keep away so that intruders may not have field day.

The ability to make secrets to be secrets is what makes relationship to have firm roots and foundation that will make it to endure and withstand the test of time. Those secrets in relationships that must be kept sacrosanct between partners are as stated below.

• Finances. This is quite important and must be kept away from outsiders. You must not allow people to get know your financial standing. You must not share this with outsiders so that they will not capitalize on this to come in-between the two of you. Insinuations on this must not be tolerated. Some people are in the habit of holding wives as sources of extravagant spending. Possibly insinuating that they are still in rented apartment because of frivolous spending on things that are not important. They may be saying this because the wife might have divulged some secrets to some outsiders. It is very important not to share information to people on how money comes in and going out. Keep your financial worth to yourself.

• Intimacy. On this , mouths must be kept shut. This must not be shared to people. It must be kept between you and your partners. You must not forget that this shared feelings is one of the basis of your togetherness and wellbeing of your relationship. Intruders can use this avenue to bring division to set in. Whether your partner is good in bed or not is not the business of of your friends and what could have caused or brought discussion on such matter. Friends should not be brought into the knowing of how your partner performs in bed . This is a secret that must not be divulge or play with in the open for friends . You must guide against washing your dirt linens in the public. This is quite important as a secret to be kept away from the public.

• Future Plans : There is no disputing the fact that in a relationship there must be plans and strategies for future growth and development of a relationship. These plans are usually formulated and designed secretly between partners without anybody knowing. For such plans to work to precision it must be wrapped with secrecy and made it to be hidden from people. Plans and strategies of a union cannot and must not be made known to friends and associates even family members because future plans and strategies to achieve them are secret and be kept from the knowing of the people.

• Medical And Health Conditions Of Partners : In some relationship , Certain health conditions may be prevailing between the partners which can only be known by Medical Experts and between the partners. Do you know that a partner may be suffering from one chronic disease or the other ? In a relationship , a partner may be having a low sperm count that could hinder the second partner from getting pregnant and talkless of giving birth. Such Medical situation and information is a secret between those two 0artners hence it must be kept secret. No outsiders are allowed to be having inkling about this. There had been a situation in the past in which some partners were made to be object of ridicule and shame after their secret was revealed on getting to the hands of the outsiders. Therefore , Medical history of partners must not be made known to outsiders. It is a secret that must not be made known to outsiders either willingly or unintentionally.

• Boasting on a Number of Children giving birth to in the Public. It is a Taboo in some parts of the World to boast about a number of children born by partners in the public. It is not even a matter of boasting even it is forbidden to count the number of children born into a relationship. Any question related to children cannot and must not be disclosed. Any question related to it is carefully avoided. Children are not allowed to be paraded for any reason. It is an issue that must be kept sacrosanct. You cannot disclose and boast about it. It is forbidden.

• Private Discussion Between Partners In Relationship : This is a raw discussion between partners. Anything can be discussed between partners in relationship but either of the partners is not expected to divulge such to outsiders. The discussion remains between the two for life. There had been situation in the past in which either of the partners shares discussed issues with a friend and the friend turned around to use the issue to edge out her friend from her matrimonial house. Later on becomes the official wife just because the secrets of her friend is known and used against her.

• The Extent of Business and Financial Properties. These should not be joked with. No matter what you should not disclose the extent of your business and Financial Properties to outsiders. If they know it , envy , backstabbing , jealousy , backbiting , Rivalry would set in and this may lead to untold external and domestic warfare. People should not know how rich or poor you are. It is dangerous to the stability of the relationship. By keeping secrets to be secrets the relationship would endure and last long. The Intruders and other related interference , if they are allowed , relationship would be badly affected. Therefore secrets must be kept secret between partners. Don't be loose in talking. It is dangerful. Keep your secrets away from friends and well wishers. It is good for you if you do that. Thanks greatly for Reading.

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