Things we do for love

Hello everyone

Have you ever been hungry to the extent that you start to shake?😂, that happened this morning I postponed eating to quickly go some work for my mum cause I thought it won't take time, until I realized that any moment from now I might just fall down😂. Well I am good.

Let's get started.

I was talking with a friend about why people don't do things like wish people happy birthdays on their birthdays, and I'll explain what I mean.

It's not necessary, and there's nothing wrong with not wishing someone on their birthday, especially if you're not that close, but my point is that not receiving form of care from a very close friend makes you wonder why they don't want to celebrate you, and other things like that.

He said that wishing individuals happy birthday does not imply that you care. I completely agree, but if you don't show that you care in one area, the least you can do is show that you care in other areas. I've seen people who don't even talk to their very close friends on their birthdays, not because they're busy or anything, and I wonder if there's something wrong, is it pride, or just forming hard guy or what? What's the point of celebrating if the people you care about aren't feeling it? Aside from thanking God for life, the next thing you should think about is your family and really close friends, because they should be grateful for your existence and how far God has kept you.

Let's apply it to a different type of relationship, such as dating or marriage. There are times in a relationship when you must compromise for your spouse; you cannot simply say, "Because I am this way or this sort of person, he should understand," because it will not work; trust me, it will not work because what are you prepared to do for your partner? There are times you will have to go out of your way to make each other happy.

You must always reassure an over thinker that everything is alright, especially if you are dealing with one. I gave an example of things you do for love or to show that you care. Once you're in a relationship, there will be things you enjoy that your partner doesn't, and vice versa. You'll have to come to an agreement, sometimes one has to give up something for the other not forcefully but as a sign of love.

Like I said before its not compulsory to wish someone on their birthday but ensure to show up in other ways if that person is truly someone who is close to you.

In conclusion

Things works both ways you can't expect a one sided ship to work out, how will expect your friend or partner to be happy when you are not putting efforts into it, be it friendship or relationship or whatever ship it requires effort, constant care and support.

Thank you for reading.💚