Decision making

Hey guys, how has your week been? Mine has been pretty stressful, I have not really had time for myself, but we will be fine.

To the topic I have been thinking of what to write then I made the decision to write about "decision making".

For me I find it hard in making decisions cause I am always particular on making the right decision.(sometimes I tend to make the wrong decision after a lot of thinking)

Course of study

Well I am currently studying quantity surveying, how I still picked this course is funny. I chose mechanical engineering (Thank God I changed sha😂) when result came out I knew I wasn't going to make it with that score, so my mum and I started thinking of what else I could study and I did not want to wait a year cause of it, I applied to bells university cause I wasn't so sure of unilag again, I have already gone through all the process, interview and all so I was just basically waiting for admission list, then my mum started asking people around what I can do, then a man suggested quantity surveying for my mum, then she called me it was through that call i made that decision, I didnt even bother to know what the course is about its later I went to read about it. Well its a good course assuming I got engineering only God that knows how my GP will look like😅.

Marriage

This one ehn, I know this is going to be one of the biggest decision's I am going to make and it takes God to help cause its a lifetime thing, sometimes I will be like I want to get married and another time I will be like I don't want to.(relationships and marriages are just difficult now, I feel our parents had it easy then.)

Food

I am very discriminating when it comes to food, I get weary of everything quickly, I just eat what is there when I don't have a choice, if you have observed when you ask a girl to pick what she wants, especially food, she finds it difficult. I'm not sure why, but I just go with whatever that person is eating to save myself the burden of pondering.

Dressing

Making a decision on what to wear sometimes is difficult, you would have heard people saying I don't have what to wear but when you check their closet its like a boutique. I would have picked what to wear already ,then I change my mind and just wear anything sometimes its due to insecurities.

I can go on and on about a lot of things like hair, it could even be in picking an elective course or a job but at every point in our life's we have to make a decision. A friend told me instead of thinking too much about it just count to 5 and decide, I have been trying that but for some delicate situations I still try to think it through.

Yeah I have made some bad decisions at some point in my life, I just feel we learn from them and I don't think we can always make the best decisions cause we ain't perfect but with God we don't have any worries.

Thank you😊