Will Dreams come true?

When two opposite genders reunite to be one, their grows a beautiful family with lot of dreams ahead. But will all their dreams turn to realities? Or will it just remain as dreams.

All of us has the right to dream. Isn't it friends? While some dreams succeed, some dreams go to the extent of getting successful, but eventually fails due to uncertainties or unexpected happenings.

Getting exposed to big dreams by looking other elites is not a dream. It's just a fantasy which you and I know will never happen. So dream at your reach so that even if it fails you remain happy and contented and not sad and lost.

A man and woman before getting married, dream much about their future. About how it should be? Even before they tie the knot they finalize about their honeymoon trip, a big house, a car, children, their education, their future....the list is endless.

But once you are married your dreams are diverted by unexpected expenses. Because for any dreams to come true the base is finance. And when finance weakens ultimately your dream shatters.

Most of us dream to own a house and wait for the right time. More the finance, more will be the expectation for a home sweet home. Many fail to understand home is a basic need and they wait for the right time to built a mansion.

There are peoples who keep aside their dreams, to complete their responsibilities to fulfil their dreams. Not knowing the fact that each time you keep your dreams aside, responsibilities are only increasing gradually and not decreasing.

Here we can take the example of a middle class family who sometimes keeps aside his wish of eating good food inorder to compensate other expenses either the childs school fees or th other expenses like payment of rent, elecrricity, water supply, telephone bills etc. etc.

He is not aware of the growing demand, as each day passes by. Days turning to months and finally to years. By this time a portion of his responsibility is over and he might have invited several diseases like diabetes, pressure etc. and gets abstained from even tasting his favorite delicacies. This is a sad and true fact of many lovable parents.

In the long run to give happiness for their family, many parents - switch from their favorite careers for more income, avoid tasting their favorite foods, forget getting new clothes for themselves, suppress their dream of visiting their favorite places. etc.

Most of the parents to my knowledge keep their dreams aside, in other words, sacrifice their dreams and happiness for the sake of the growing needs of their children. They need to give the best to the children. And once the children acquire the best and placed in top positions, they get settled and go after their dreams, not knowing behind their success is the sweat of their parents.

Besides, the person who made them "What they are today"? are long forgotten.

A piece of advice: Children will grow with all their needs getting done on time. And once in their toes, they will go after their dreams and your dreams will remain just a "dream". So make sure you don't drift away from your dreams. Atleast make your small wishes come true. Because at one time we shouldn't repent or regret on what we failed to achieve. Life is only once so live to explore your dreams.