Do not let your mind wander.....

Do not let your mind wander, keep it occupied- Whenever our mind is idle we are getting into thoughts that constantly disturb us. Even if we try to control our feelings, the thoughts flash our mind. Have you noticed 90% of the people sitting idle get into disturbing thoughts while 10% are least bothered. This 10% usually belongs to the present generation. So many things go across our mind. Both good and bad.

It is always better to keep ourself busy or occupied with something you are interested in. May be it will last only for few hours but that will definitely make your day by staying away from idle thoughts and evil doings.

Accept the reality in life - One of the most difficult task a man can't withstand is to accept the reality. For instance, from childhood some friends grow together. They might be thick friends. As time goes by, everyone will have a choice of their own which they will turn to, in future. Obviously, finding their satisfaction and happiness in it. Remember all our five fingers are not identical. Likewise all of us can never be similar in all aspects.

Not all will succeed. Few will stay back may be due to lack of interest or financial issues or personal reasons. While some of them keep moving ahead to reach their destination. Instead of appreciating them, the pain with which we accept them is taken into consideration. So never overlook into others life if you are contend with the small happiness in your life. Aceept life as it is and love your life. As life is the most natural beautiful thing a man can ever get.

Better not to interfere - This is something a man can never give up. Most peoples have this bad habit of interfering even if the matter is not connected to him. While some people interfere honestly to find a solution, sone interference is to show their leadership qualities which makes the matters even more worse. This kind of nature can create more hatred by others. So it is always better to stay away from isuues not concerned to them.

Never expect everybody to respect you when you are nothing in front of them - Some peoples may be respected within family circles or friends. And the same they expect from their office circles. The people who never like to be in a low profile.

This nature can never be changed over night but then they shouldn't expect the same wherever they are. Its an unreasonable act. It is sometimes difficult to understand and adjust with such people. A popular figure in the neighbourhood will be a stranger in a new place.

Though little learn to enjoy - Man's greed never ends. The more you get ultimately the greed also increases. Man's desires and wants are always never ending.

Better not to increase your needs. The increase in needs give rise to new problems. Consequently problems leads to pathetic situations in a man's life.

When you have an income to support your family and other miscellaneous expense, make sure not to expect more. So that your expense limit to income you receive.

The joy of giving can never be expressed in words - Some people find happines by sharing and caring. Precisely nobody has such a vast mind.

When you give something out of joy, the happiness you receive is something worth it. You are at peace, your mind and body works peacefully amid problems. These things cannot be told but it flashes in your face like a spark. Sometimes we receive a gesture say "God bless you". These small things can bring immense joy and happiness.

When we talk of human nature, everyone has some good and some bad in them. Not all are saints. But when you try to balance with these and move on for good then you are successful.