A one arm distance in any relationship is a must

A distance in any relationship is a must, so that you don't have to regret later. For a healthy relationship to continue, just maintain a distance where both of you are secure, safe and aound.

It so happens, when two thick friends or childhood friends try to cheat over the other, the pain is unbearable. So it is advisable to keep a one arm distance, no matter how close you are so that later you don't have to suffer the pain solely.

In any relationships where spouses are involved, when one is hurt it reflects very badly on the other. Such is the strength of this relationship. But then there is a flip side to this story as well. When one cheats over the other, the intensity of pain is intolerable. There is no distance in this relationship so either of them should suffer when something unexpected befalls them. The same is applicable within the family members also.

Keeping a distance has its own benefits also

• You don't have to disclose everything to your intimate friend. Its better to remain silent rather than forcing yourself into trouble.

• Never interfere in the privacy of a person, no matter how close he is to you.

• Do not focus on a particular friend. So that in case of any urgency or necessity you dont need to depend or take opinion from one such particular friend instead take the advice of one with whom you are comfortable.

• The relationship should entirely be based on a "hi" and "bye". Nothing more than that. So that you can have peaceful nights.

• Whenever your friend is in trouble, you can help him/her but keep your limitations. So that they never become dependent on you, each time when help is required.

• Some friends are such that they can never stay apart. But this again will ruin your inner strength making you worthless.

• A distance only strengthens and never ruins any relationship.

• You should be respected for what you are.

Keeping a distance never means drifting away from friends. It should be understood that you are always there for them, whenever required. A friend in need is a friend in deed.

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