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Why did you have to leave me? Replaced, struck and left This is for people like me who have learned to love Learn to stand Learn to fight. But ultimately unstoppable Unable to fight Injured victim. This is for people who exchange what they do not know For people who love, buy, hurt, leave Done plans to return. Worried that it might ever come back, I honestly don't want to hurt you. It's hard not to be with you, I want to find the reason And maybe I can find the right answer.…
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Bakit nga ba? Why? https://hellopoetry.com/poem/1501430/why/ Bakit ako nasasaktan? Alam ko naman na ako Ako ang dahilan kung bakit ako nasasaktan Sa dami dami dami ng pagkakataon ko Nakasabay kita sa pag uwi Nakasabay kita sa pagkain ng tanghalian Kaklase maghapon Kapwa leader ng mga group mates natin Sa dami dami dami dami dami dami Ng pagkakataon ko na masabi ang nararadaman ko Nanitili akong walang kibo. Kaya bakit ako masasaktan Kung sa una palang ako na ang may…
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Why? The Pain Of Leaving Someone You Love Being left by our love is painful, but what is more painful? Leaving your love knowingly and seeing him fight for you. That's the most painful. She knows it's her mistake. She knows she is giving him pain. She knows she can change it all but still can't and won't. She knows how empty she is without him. She loves him, but she can't express it. She has no one to express it to but her diary...
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Chief Sunset sky. Summer air. Tinctured with the smell of rotting fallen leaves. Lying supine. Canopied by the shadows of the leafless gigantic mahogany trees. Dying grass spreading out, A mixture of light brown, And Amber, And green. I close my eyes. Your fading smile, Flashes. Crisp laughter. Sweet angelic voice. Chief. I am almost over you. Almost. Or am I?
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Charcoal briquettes In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit. Look at charcoal gathered together in a barbecue as a metaphor for the importance of working each others. When the charcoal briquettes are gathered together they produce more intense heat, and the charcoals are red hot. If you separate one charcoal from…
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Illusion I was to learn later in life that we tend to meet any new situation by reorganizing; and a wonderful method it can be for creating the illusion of progress while producing confusion, inefficiency, and demoralization. If reorganization doesn't work, changing management is usually the next order of business, along with sending people to leadership training. When reorganization and management changes don't work, usually enough time has elapsed between changing the…
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Don't wish things were easier, wish you were better. When I look at the longevity of the redwood trees and bristlecone pines, I am grateful for the lessons they teach. As I have seen people consistently and persistently apply the individual zigzag path to growth, their natures are changed. They see growing pains as part of the process. They worry less, because they recognize that hard times won't last forever, and in the end they know they will grow and be better. They…
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Prayer And Meditation. I mentioned that both the bristlecone pines and redwood trees fight disease from within by the very make-up tree. So how do we create this barrier of protection from fires from without without and disease from within, Which Rob us of our time and focus to *be* more and not just *do* more? **We need to dedicate a portion of our time every day to strengthening our divine brains.** How do we do this? Recall the lesson from our three-part brains that we…
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Teamwork Defined A teamwork defined. Remember that in the oxen-pull contest, the winning combination is individual strength and teamwork. I would define the very best of teamwork as two or more people who each have gained great individual strength by the consistent and dominant use of their divine brains. Each team member is deliberate in the development of his or her own character. The members of the team may have different backgrounds, personalities, talents, and skills,…
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Mothers are sweet. Mothers are sweet. Motherhood is really neat. But all in all, I'm so glad when I grow up I'll be a dad/mom. Mother's do amazing things because of their diligence, vigilance, and consistency. Watching ordinary people do extraordinary things by being consistent is such a hopeful proposition. If they can do it, I can as well. The question is figuring out how these wonderful people are so consistent where others stall. We'll get to that. Again, one of the…
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Sun, Moon and Stars. When I consider the evidences all around me of the complexity, capability, and accomplishments of human beings as compared to mammals or reptiles, it is simply awesome. When I consider the sophistication of the human brain relative to the mammalian or reptilian brain, I would draw comparisons to the brightness of the stars, the moon, and the sun. In relative terms, the brightness of the stars is like the lizard brain. There is obviously intelligence…
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The Learning is a treasure. Learning is a treasure that will follow it's owner everywhere. Like combining other metals to gold to create a usable alloy, combining character with competence allows us to make significant contributions. As we have done with the previous allegories, let's take a look at the question this allegory is supposed to answer. **Question:** where and how do I start in my quest to develop my character? **Answer:** after establishing a strong desire to…
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Mind or body or relationships. No man can climb out beyond the limitations of his own character.” No matter how full a reservoir of maxims one may possess, and no matter how good one's sentiments may be, if one has not taken advantage of every concrete opportunity to act, one's character may remain entirely unaffected for the better. Some may consider the development of character as separate from the development of the mind or body or relationship. We disagree. Indeed they…
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Get sponsors. Hi! first of all thank you so much read.cash for this opportunity to get sponsors. I'm just trying to get anyone's attention about this article, Actually I didn't know if someone took time to read this, But i hope someone did. [sponsors] I write a different articles everyday maybe one or two times a day or more, and I didn't expected that I could get sponsors here. I'm not that good or a great writer but I am trying my best to do what's my best to make an…
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First time I received withdrawal from read.cash to coinsph How's the feeling when you receive the withdrawal from @read.cash? First of all thank you @read.cash for this opportunity to be part of your platform and to make me create an amazing and wonderful articles. It was a great feeling to know that this site is a real paying site, not just to earn but to enjoy reading and learn from what you've read. I may not a good writer but I'm trying my best to write a nice article's…
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Four seasons. If people knew how hard I worked to get my mastery, It wouldn't seem so wonderful at all. **Imagine** the four seasons: Winter, Spring, Summer, And autumn. They happen in a predictable sequence, And each season plays an important part in the ecosystem. Plants, Animals, And people alike respond to the rhythm of the seasons. Each season gives its distinctive beauty and feeling as well as bringing balance to the ecology. This allegory is connected to how we…
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Redefining The Time Management Challenge. I started this article with the sentence, ***“The reason why the mother's work is never done is because mother's work has been inaccurately defined.”*** So what is the more accurate description of our time-management challenge? As I was trying to organize the insights I have learned from my consulting work and the insights and the insights I have learned with my wife and many other moms, I wanted to organize the concepts in this…
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Foundational realities of time management. There are four foundational realities of time management to consider. These are critically important for two reasons :First, They involve fundamental shifts in our thinking. Remember when you got your driver's license and drove for the first time by yourself? The world looked different after that point, And you saw yourself differently as well. These four foundational principles will have the same effect if you haven't made these…
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Time is opportunity. **The beginning of wisdom is the definition of terms.** To gain wisdom, When it comes to time management it is important to define time. Instead of defining time as a duration, Interval, Or even as a series of events, Let's define time a different way. Time is opportunity. Time is measured in units of possibilities. Isn't this an exciting definition? Instead of thinking of time as a series of events that we are trying to manage through to-do lists and…
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Clark Kent superman Superman is the functional comic book superhero. He was discovered and raised by a kansas farmer and his wife, And known by the name of Clark Kent. When Clark discovered that he had superhuman abilities, He resolved to use his strengths for the benefit of all humanity. He hides his identity as superman by working as a *“Mild-mannered reporter.”* I remember watching the black and white television shows of Superman where he goes into a phone booth and…
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Inspired by getting upvotes. The first time In the morning, I woke up and found this upvotes in my article and I really had a great big smile from a small amount of upvotes but makes me feel motivated. Then the following hours not a day I received again an upvotes. Again and again and again. I felt really happy and this made my day really enjoyable. while I using this site and this platform? I always think a lot of contents to make. “But what should I make?” It's a big…
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The distance between heaven and hell. Comfortably seated on a business flight, I was watching people as they filed in. One passenger in a particular had a peculiar look of experiment. She sat next to me and after a few moments of chit-chat, I asked her where she was coming or headed to. She excitedly said that she just came from a retreat where she learned what she felt was the most important lesson she has ever learned. Curious, I asked her what the most important lesson…
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ALL-YOU-CAN-EAT versus selective neglect. There is an all-you-can-eat buffet to our home, And our family likes to go there from time to time. Everyone in our family enjoys going for different reasons. Some like to go because they don't have to cook or clean up afterwards. Some claim they are so hungry that they could eat everything. Others enjoy the unlimited deserts. Others love the salad bar, While some head straight for their favorite entrees. The options and combinations…
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Why most time-management tools don't work. **Why most time-management tools don't work** CHAPTER ONE. When introduced to my first time-management tool, I was resistant, Because I thought time planners are for nerds. I was perfectly content to go about my life without one. All of a sudden I found myself working for a company that was teaching time management to clients. I decided that I had better use one, So I would know what I was talking about. Surprisingly, The more I use…
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Skewed Towards One Role. People usually find that their planners are skewed towards one role—most often it is the work role. How do I use my time so that I can survive and ultimately thrive to meet my physical and financial needs? Our time management tool can be just a survival tool—how to survive at work and how to survive at home. Some planners have components to balance the different roles in their lives, But it seldom happens. The more time and effort that is spent to…
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Getting sponsors. At first, I didn't know how to add sponsor box on my publish articles or any of my content. And I really felt bad about it. Because I already tried it before but nothings happened. Then I decided to try and try until I get tired doing it by input the word [sponsors] at the end of my article. I feel useless. But I'm not a person that easily give up what I want to get, then I keep trying instead of getting mad or angry coz I didn't have that kind of box. I…
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Knowing me? Hi! my name is Sarah May gloria, I'm 24 years old and I live in barangay San ignacio San Pablo city laguna Philippines. I worked as a merchandiser at Pure gold Price Club Inc. I have a one child he is already 9 years old, I also have a lived-in partner for 11 years. I got pregnant when I was 14 years old. maybe you're laughing right now or feeling disappointed and starting to unlike me. But I have no regrets. “I have no regrets that we had THE baby early.” You…
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Focused Almost Exclusively On Tasks And Appointments. Another reason time-management tools can create imbalance for many people is because they are often focused almost exclusively on tasks and appointments. It is as if we have become human ***“doings”*** as opposed to human ***“beings.”*** More often than not, We pose the question of what to ***“do,”*** but seldom ask, What in the end, Will **“be”** as a result of all the doing. Accomplishing things and checking them of our…
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The Ant And The Bird Snobby. Bird was arrogant and snobbish. **“You can not do things that I can.”** He said. **“I can reach any place in the world.”** Ant was angry with bird. **“Bird was so arrogant. As if we didn't know many of them lost their lives because they knew how to fly.”** **“Yeah,”** The bee's agreed. The circle of life went on. Many animals liked bird because he could fly. Others liked ant because she was deligent. **“Look at ant. She's very industrious. She…
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If I'm Organized Enough, I Can Accomplish All Things—Not! Somewhere along the line we have entertained the notion that if we are Organized enough, Then we can accomplish all things. If we are Organized enough and really manage our time well, We can go to bed at night knowing that all things that can be accomplished, Have been accomplished, And the following day brings a whole new beginning. I can convince myself into thinking that if I'm Organized enough I can begin each day…
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I've got a total of $8.60 withdrawal. Hi everyone, I just wanted to share this app with you. I earned a total of $8.60 by simply doing task. I earned $7.20 from upload photos and $1.40 from surveys. There is two way to earn at this app. First, Search **“microwork”** from your Google play store or app store. Then download it. Then install it to your mobile phone. How to earn? Very simple, You just need to answer their survey and you can earn $0.10 in every surveys you take.…
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Finally, I've got a sponsor.! At first when I open my notification and see this, **(New sponsor).** I felt really happy and I click this New sponsor from my notification, To see who's person who likes and appreciate my articles, And noticed me. I didn't expect that someone would like my articles and willing to be my sponsor, **I was very happy right now,** I would like to thank you so much @scottcbusiness for giving me a chance to have a sponsor like you. I'm really happy…
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Zigzag Path to Growth. When we examined the redwood tree and bristlecone pines, We explored primarily their protection from fire and disease, Which helped them to achieve longevity. Let's shift from protection to actual growth. If prayer and meditation along with reading scriptures and inspiring literature Is my focus at the beginning and ending of each day, What should be my focus in between? What does it take for us to realize our potential and continue to grow and lead…
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Math Homework. I could just as easily have chosen any school subject, But I'll use math as an example, Because this is what happened in our home. I have an nine-year-old son, Ben, Who works very hard in his school work. He is a good student and does well on all of his school subjects. But on one particular day, he'd had enough of math. He couldn't understand the concepts, And he just sat there and wept. Over and over he would say, “I hate math. I hate math. I hate math.”…
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Figure 4: Zigzag Path to Growth. ***Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, Ambition inspired, And success achieved.*** Look at the individual zigzag Path to Growth another way as illustrated in Figure 4. With each cycle up the zigzag Path to Growth, We first go through growing pain. Deep down we know this, And simply acknowledging this reality is half the battle. Then other half of the…
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Not Designed For Life Balance Time management tools are usually not designed to define nor produce balance. In fact balance is usually left out of the equation. How do you define life balance? When someone says the word balance, What visual representation comes to mind? For most people it's a scale. Therfore, most of us conclude that life balance must be a series of scales where we measure time spent in each role, And then quality of life is evaluated accordingly. If I put…
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Relationships and values not part of the tool. Most people don't incorporate their relationships and their values or character traits into their time management planning process—even though if asked, They would say they want to prioritize those relationships and live by those values and character traits. Slowly and almost imperceptibly, You can lose focus on your values without even recognizing it until a lot of time has been lost. As we will examine in greater detail, The…
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The legend of THE PHILOSOPHY ***(SIPI OF THE PHILOSOPHY)*** Once upon a time, In a town there were people who had to obey their leader for fear of violating the existing law. Their leader named Abed regularly visits his staff to find out who needs them most. When Subekat noticed that the chief was spinning daily to give food to the poor, He immediately took a stone and threw it on the **stove.** He saw the cauldron with boiled stone. When he noticed this, The leader told…
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PILOT Time and time again as I get on commercial flights, I always marvel at how a plane gets off the ground. It takes a great deal of effort, Power, And know-how to achieve flight. Similarly, I am amazed as I watch so many people live their lives with great courage, Consistency, And diligence. For all your efforts, However, Have you ever felt at one time or another, As if your life seems to be in a holding pattern where you exert a great deal of effort, But in your heart of…
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Roadmap So far i have covered the purpose and backdrop for a different approach to time management. I've examined why it is that much, If not all, Of the current time-management philosophies don't work. I know the essence of this time-management article is to pilot our lives to a culture of being more and not just doing more. I have envisioned the weaving metaphor to help us redefine our time-management challenge and give us a picture of what we are trying to achieve. The…
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A Couple Of Realities Of Life. (Chapter four) Let's examine a couple of bedrock realities to build the foundation of being more and not just doing more. I call these two realities : ***°°° Three brains*** ***°°° The ugly duckling*** **THREE BRAINS** The neurologist Paul maclean has proposed in his article *The Triune Brain in Evolution,* That our skulls hold not one but three brains. You can look at them as three interconnected computers, Where each computer has its own…
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I've got a total of $6.20 withdrawal on readcash. THANK YOU READ.CASH Hi readcash and everyone ! I'm very happy right now because with your platform despite the changing policies, what's important is that it improves the platform. I just wanted to share why I'm happy and keep using this platform. Because of this it helps you be able to share what you want others to know through your article. Besides, it helps you earn. I am very grateful for this because I have already had…
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One Brain Will Dominate. McLean discovered something interesting about the interrelationships of our three brains, And that is what makes this topic relevant to time management. This interrelationships creates our view of the world. Our view of the world is important to consider, Because it reflects and affects our use of our time. The more we deepen our understanding of our worldview and the functioning of our three brains, The more we'll clarify what is truly important in…
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Be Divinative The best alternative is to make sure that the divine brain dominates our thinking. The more I thought about this the more I wanted to try and find the right word, The right adjective, To describe being or unmistakable and absolute in our resolve to have our divine brains be our dominant brains. I wanted a word that expresses confidence in the power of principles. I wanted to find the word that captures the very best that exists in each of us. I wanted to find a…
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Ugly Duckling. *The ugly duckling* is a famous fairy tale by Danish author Hans Christian Andersen. The tale begins with a mother duck waiting patiently for her eggs to hatch. One by one the eggs hatch until the last one, Which takes an unusually long time. When it finally hatches, The creature is large, Ugly, And peculiar. Perceived as homely, It endures a great deal of physical and verbal abuse-not just from the ducks, But other farm animals as well. Even the girl who had…
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Need A New Coach. Think of it another way, Remember how your children, Nieces and nephews or neighborhood kids would play sports year after year, Sometimes with the same friends and teammates. Over the years you get your share of mediocre coaches. Every now and then, However, You get an exceptional coach, And everything changes. The kids play with more skills and teamwork. They win more games and have a lot more fun. Remember, The players are still the same players. The…
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I've Got A New Sponsor. Every morning when I wake up, I am excited to open my notification. I was surprised by what I saw, I just said **"wow".** I was overjoyed by what I saw in my notification. I immediately opened it to find out who that person was. And this is it, @Dangerous_Fly **I want to thank you so much sir. because you noticed me and you chose me to sponsor. Thank you Sir for your support of my articles. I promise that I will continue to love making articles with…
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Making A Coaching Change. I love going on a morning run for my regular exercise, Because it gives me a chance to just think. Sometimes I go on a run with a specific challenge that I want to think through. Other times I don't have anything specific to think about, And thoughs just pop into my mind. On one particular run when I didn't have anything unique to consider, My mind wandered, Thinking about some rental property I had recently sold. It was in a different state than…
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You Can't Just Do The Opposite. Here is something else that I learned from that morning run. There are times when our lizard brains take over, And we want to compete, Content or conquer. These are all lizard-brain strategies. Sometimes our monkey brains take over, And we want to compare, Criticize, Or complain. These are common lizard and monkey brain tactics when we are feeling bad. We simply can't go from competing, Contending, And conquering to *not* competing, *Not*…
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Overview Of Six Allegories I have just set the foundation for this new time-management philosophy. As you master the following six allegories you will have the mind, Heart, And tools to pilot your life from a culture of doing more to a culture of being more. These allegories will also help you create the conditions for a happy family culture and a healthy team culture. A healthy team culture would apply as much at work, At church, At school, Or any organization where you…
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Allegory Of The Trees. “Bristlecone pine and redwood trees.” (ALLEGORY #1) The world's oldest continually standing tree is the bristlecone pine, Living nearly five thousand years, And having grown to about 60 feet high. The redwood tree, In contrast, Can reach over 350 feet in heights and can live more than two thousand years. A closer study of these trees reveals other interesting things that can teach us some very valuable lessons. The bristlecone lives where practically…
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Heart Transplant. By now you recognize that this article is not your typical time-management article. Most time-management articles and courses focus on **“Doing”** on the assumption that with greater efficiency the **“Being”** will somehow automatically happen. This article approaches time management from the opposite direction, Putting a greater focus on building the foundation of **“Being.”** We begin with the heart as well as the mind. The activities I've mentioned are…
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Sponsors and upvotes keeps me motivated and inspired. (I'm totally loved to write in this platform.) Hi everyone! Here I am again, making a thank you article for the new notification I received today. Actually, Every day I'm excited to open my notifications here, From when I wake up to before I go to work, this is what I do. Even at my lunch break, after I ate fast, I went straight to the article making. I often don't finish it but I keep doing it after I leave my work at…
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Oxen Pull. (ALLEGORY #2.) For thousands of years before the invention of tractors and other farm machinery, Oxen have been yoked together and used to pull out tree stumps to clear a field, To flow, And to do other work on farms. The oxen were an integral part of life for many farmers whose livelihood depended on the oxen for the heavy burdens of farming. Today the contribution of the oxen is celebrated with oxen-pull contest in different parts of the world. Two oxen, Yoked…
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My Late Entry. (contest for creating banner) sponsored by jwolf. I may be late for entry to your contest Mr @jwolf but I still want to share the banner I made, Because I worked hard to do this just to get past it. But unfortunately I didn't reach for it. Thank you so much again because many have been persuaded to do so. I had to download an application to create a banner besides I still had to learn and learn how to do it. I was just out of work so I didn't make an entry for…
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What Is All That Noise? At the start of the oxen Pull, The team will start to pull at the command of the trainer. Consider for a moment, The amount of noise that exist in these oxen-pull events. There is the noise that comes from other teams and trainers. There is the noise the come from the spectators with their ooh's and aah's. There are the noises that come from different distances. The noises themselves are all different. The oxen team, However, Cuts through all the…
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1976 part 1 Margaret Stanhope stood at the doors that opened onto the veranda, Her aristocratic features set into an icy mask as she watched her butler pass a tray of drinks to her grandchildren who had just returned for the summer holidays from their various private schools. Beyond the veranda, In the lush valley below, The city of ridgemont, pennsylvania, Was clearly visible with its winding, Tree-lined Streets; Manicured Park; Quaint shopping area; And, Off to the right,…