Don't Jump Any Step, Don't Skip any Part

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Date : 22 February 2022

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I hope you will be fine. Sara is here again, with a new writing. Today we are going to discuss an important topic. The topic will explain the thoughts of new young generations, that are so much worried about their future, and they don't know from where they should start their journey to a successful life. Topic is for those who can't be consistent to one job. It is for those who are in stress because of unemployment,they don't have what they want. I'm going to discuss my personal thoughts, and my experiences of life. I hope you will read the whole content with full concentration, and i hope you will get the idea of this whole article. And don't forget to share your thoughts in comments.

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Let's Start.

The article has two major portions to be explained.

Don't skip any Part.
Don't Jump any step.

We will discuss both of these separately.

Don't Skip Any Part:

Many of the youngsters among us are so much worried about their future. And they have different fearful thoughts in their mind in form of several questions like.

(Source) by Gemma Evans

How they will achieve their goal of life?
How they will reach to their destination?
What if, they will get failed with and without their struggles?

They think about these three questions(mentioned above) so much, and fall into depression and anxiety. The matter becomes serious and uncomfortable.

What should be done in this situation? I have a suggestion for this kind of people.

Never get worried too much about your destination:

I want to clear one thing, worrying is of two types.

Positive.
Negative.

Now you may be thinking that, how it could be possible, a term(worrisome) is of two types at the same time. I will try to clear this concept.

Positive Worrying:

If you are not worried about anything, your behavior is kind of being careless. Then how you will perform your tasks if you are careless mind? For example, You are assigned a project that you will have to complete it in two days. If you will not think about doing work to complete your project. You will lose it, and get fail surely. Hence, here we can say that being worried about something, is sometimes positive in nature.

(Source) || Raphael Lovaski

Negative Worrying:

It clearly refers to over thinking. Yes!. If you are worried about any thing more than needed. You are doing wrong. By being too much anxious, and worried about your destination, will not make you able reach out to your destination, but it will mend you from your ways. And distract you in achieving goals for which you are working. Here worrying proves itself towards negativity.

(source) || Marija Zaric

Then what to do? If don't get worried?

Choose your destination.

Divide you whole Task(Destination /aim of life) in different steps/parts (sub tasks) .

Chose Your destination.

Many of us are not aware of what we want in real? What should be our future goal? We do not know what to do? What kind of studies or subjects we should choose,? We don't know even what is our interest of mind.

(Source) || Andrew Neel

Mostly our parents decide that what we will do in our life. The things they couldn't do in their own life, they want those things to be done by us(from their children). And sometimes their choices becomes very hard, or useless for their children, because these choices are against their interests. And they could not have a successful career in the field they don't have interests. Selecting your destination is most important and most hard step to start your journey towards your success. Be so much careful about this basic step.

Divide the whole task into Subtasks:

I want to clear this step with an example, because i am software engineer student, so i will try to simplify this complicated step with a simple example. In software engineering, when order is taken by the client, to make a software for client. This whole task of making a single software is divided into different units among the team members of a software house. If one will work on front end and lay out, the other one will work on design, and backend coding work will be the responsibility of a 3rd member of the team. And in this way, when all of the tasks are completed separately, they will be assembled at the and and these parts will make a single working unit software for the client.

Source || Tamanna Rumee

And in this way, divide your task into subtasks. And and work on these tasks step by step. Complete each task separately. Don't skip any task. For example you have divided your major tasks in 5 different subtasks. First, complete step number one, then 2, then three, fourth and at the end task number 5. Don't jump from. 1 to 3, or 1 to 4.

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Don't Jump Any Step:

In first part of the article i was thinking about the general steps in life to be followed. Buy here now in 2nd portion, i will discuss about specific steps, every person experiences in his life.

"I will explain 4 important steps to be achieved in a systematic way.

You can not skip any of these for steps.

You can't interchange their placement.

You can't alternate the sequence of these steps.

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Four Steps For a Successful Life

Education.
Career.
Love.
Marriage.

I will explain every step with full elaboration.

Step #1- Education.

Without education a person is referred yo as blind in this world these days, moreover world is moving towards meta-verse. And in this world of meta verse, how a person can survive? No!, its not possible for an illustrate person to survive in this modern world.

Source || MD Duran

Some children are lucky they have parents, and parents never think bad for their children. They educate their children in good educational institutions. But many other children that are orphans, and some with single mother usually experience hard time in their life. So the main reason to explain this is EDUCATION should be your first priority. Complete your studies first.

Step #2- Career.

All these steps are correlated to each other. If any of the step is left blank, thr whole system will be effected negatively. Career mostly based on education, at least basic education is necessary to run a business. Otherwise higher education is must necessary to have a suitable and valuable job. Career-making is hardest thing in this era of high competition. This article's centeral point is career making. With stress free feelings. I will write a detailed article on this topic. But today we are taking about it in general way. After completing Education, the hardest time of life that i am experiencing these days is (the time between end of degree and starting of new job. The empty duration is killing.

(source) || Ben White

Step #3- love:

This point is has special relationship with boys. Boys face the issue of unemployment mote than girls in Eastern countries. Situations may vary from Place to place, country to country or region to region. But, in mostly countries it is necessary for a boy to have a well settled business or a good job. If he has a good job, good business, bright career achievements he has a chance to reach hi love otherwise he can lose his love if he is not able marry her. My suggestion and also the 3rd step is move step forward to 3rd step(love) after the completion of first two steps.

Source || Travis Grossen

Step #4- Marriage:

The 4th and final step is marriage, when are completely settled in your life. You already completed educational studies, made a pleasant career, and already having a love affair. It's said that women needs successful men for marriage. And it is true to some extent. Man is a financial supporter here, and women is a hose wife in full form. Then which father will give his daughter to an unemployed person?, No one!

Source || Євгенія Височина

Marriage should be at the end, when yiu have done with all the possible hurdles in your way of successful life. If you will skip any of the previous steps, your next life will not be much comfortable to you.