Her thoughts are different

17th August 2022, Wednesday 

The number of people who spend four years of university life without being in a relationship with a girl is very low. Guys who don't move around or mingle with girls may have hormonal issues or are married. It is very difficult to go without friends in university life, especially any girl friends.

Many girls have entered my life but so far none have been permanent. But every girl was far from me, ie long distance relationship. But do you know what to tell the truth? In long distance relationship you will not get the real feelings of relationship. Having been in a long distance relationship for 2 years at university, I have not been able to relate well with any of the university girls. My girlfriend's eyes, far away, were like CCTV.

However, the long distance relationship did not last long. Then I wanted to make a varsity girl girlfriend, because she will be by my side and I can meet often. But attracting varsity girls is not an easy task. Especially when an ass like me doesn't have much money to spend on multiple girlfriends.

After much searching I found a girl who was willing to talk to me. But I never treated her as a girlfriend, talked to her as a friend. But as the saying goes "A boy and a girl can never be best friends, their best friend relationship turns into girlfriend sometime". So following this quote I started talking to the girl, started giving her time, tried to understand her. But at university level a girl doesn't get attracted to anyone very easily because they are at maturity level now. They don't value someone's love with emotions.

After talking for a while, I realized that the girl's thoughts and the girl I want are completely different. As she is a university girl she has many boy friends in university. When I asked her what kind of boy she likes as a life partner, I expected her to be answered

• They boy will be simple,

• The boy will give me a lot of time,

• The boy will be very loyal,

• Money and wealth cannot measure love so I Don't look at the boy's wealth and look at his heart.

But she turns my thought wrong. And said,

• The boy should be very rich,

• The boy should be healthy (since I am a thin boy, only 55kg haha),

• The boy should be very handsome,

• The boy's father should have a million dollar property,

• The boy should be able to take me to places like Switzerland or Maldives from time to time.

I thought to myself, maybe she is looking for a Hollywood hero. And I wanted to answer her "You first look at your face in the mirror."

But she is my friend, I can't insult her so I need to show respect on her desire. So I told her that, In Sha Allah, you will find someone you wish as a partner. Haha

Then I leave her....