If you have no friends

Making friends can be difficult, and keeping them can be even more difficult. While some people find it easy to do both, not everyone is so lucky.

You may not know what's keeping you from making friends, but the great news is there's always time to find out and fix it! The fact that you're reading this article shows that you're ready to take the next step. There are several reasons why you may not have friends. Understanding them can show you what you need to do to have real friends.

You think you are superior to others.

People like to be with people they feel comfortable with. Most people feel more comfortable when they are with people they know who act like them. If you act like you are superior to others, like you are on a different level than the people around you, they don't feel comfortable with you. If you guess that's something you should work on, try to be a little more down-to-earth. After all, we're all just people.

You're insecure.

Everyone has insecurity, no matter what anyone says, it's just that in some people it comes up rarely in certain situations, and in others, it becomes a constant feature of the person. Confidence is what attracts people, while insecurity is what people avoid. Although it will take time, try to see your best sides, remember them more often, and know that everyone has flaws.

If you're constantly complaining or thinking the worst and constantly sharing that negativity with others, it can be upsetting to your interlocutors. Stop seeing the bad in everything, look for the good, talk about the good, make jokes, and you will find it easier to communicate with others, which will attract more people who will want to meet and be friends with you.

You are selfish everyone needs to take care of themselves before they can truly take care of others as well. It is important to strike a balance between your needs and those of your friend. If you feel like you only take care of your own needs, people won't want to be around you. If you want to change, try to also take into account the needs of others. Try to do for them what they would do for you.

You create conflicts on nothing.

Friendships are definitely not conflict-free, but they don't have to be solidly conflicted either. If you are a person who often causes conflict in groups of friends, try to think about why that is. Try to reduce the drama in your life that you cause, and people will be more inclined to communicate with you.

You're trying too hard.

While you do need to make an effort to make friends, there is such a thing as trying too hard. You may think that the only way to make friends is to try to reach out to everyone, even if they aren't people you can really relate to. Pretending to be super cool just to get people to like you is not the best way to make friends. The best way to make friends is to just be yourself and find people who like the same things you do. The best friends are those who accept you anyway.

And, of course, if you spend all your free time at home, where do your friends fit in?

Most of the time you have to make an effort to get to know people and make friends with them. Although you may be shy or worried about what others may think of you, take risks and put yourself out there more. Talk to people in your class, at work, or in your neighborhood. Who knows, maybe one of them will become your best friend in the future.

In general, friendship takes effort. The fact that you may have some of the problems listed does not mean that you are a bad person, it just means that you have something to improve on, just like every person.

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  9.07.2022