Good morning,I woke up this morning and feel like writing on tips for taking care of children.....Children are the heritage of God as the Bible made us to understand that in Psalms 127:3 Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.
My take on taking care of children are:
1:I believe the first thing is love, firstly show them love them.Love is an essential part of growing and developing as a human being. As a parent your child should understand your love language to them cause they needs are important...
Love your child,love them all equal no partiality..Talk to them, appreciate your children and give your child that praise. Things like “you did a great job!” or “thank you for listening so well to Mommy and Daddy”... “thank you for washing off your plate and putting it in the dishwasher” or “you did a great job on your spelling test today; I’m so proud of you”. Words of praise are easy to incorporate into your day and a good way to focus on positive actions they do.Tell your children you love them on daily basisd“You can also say things like “I’m so proud of you” or “I’m so thankful the Lord brought you into our lives”. The important thing to remember is to focus on the each child as an individual. Sometimes this may be difficult if your child is exhibiting extreme behaviors, but it is crucial to explore the reason behind those behaviors and not specifically the behavior itself. This will enable you to focus on loving your child the more
Lastly through Physical Touch, I want to talk about the way to employ physical touch when disciplining your child. Gently placing your hand on your child’s arm or wrapping your arm around his or her shoulders when discussing something he or she may have done wrong is a great way to use physical touch to show love.Cause such child will feel loved.. This can be an opportune moment to build bonding and attachment with your adopted child. Using physical touch and being aware of your body language can show the child that even though he or she is being disciplined, he or she is still deeply loved and treasured by the entire family.
Children are learners, we should guide them in the way of truth, respect and love.