Here are some questions I got that I think it needs a deep weigh in the mind before one can answer these questions.
Not everyone is privileged or destined to be surrounded with friends that will impact your life in a positive way. And not everyone is destined to have a very close friend enough to lead one right. Few years past, I was holding on to friendship, I felt it's everyone that have friends so why won't I have one? So I tried everything possible to hold onto friendship even though things do not look good. I felt the fault was from myself so I danced to their tunes and did some things I didn't even want to do, somethings that does not even benefit me, somethings that I don't even like, but I realized that's not my way. I cannot beg myself to be loved or cherished. I can do better on my own, friends are meant to support each other and find better ways to progress. I didn't mean friends are not meant to be kept or cherished. I am just unlucky with the type of friends I had then.
In one of my previous articles, I noted that changes have to come in if one is looking for a different and better result. Who knows, those that resist change are not looking for a different or better ways of doing things. They have decided to stick to that old ways of doing things and maintain the status quo. Another reason I think many do not embrace change is that it's very difficult to change an habit. An usual and regular way of doing things or behaving, it's take a lot of determination to resist that constant habit and change them.
Trying something new makes one learn more, to be more creative, it's help one to be able to risk somethings too and benefit from it. As a fashion designer, I tried new designs and patterns on clothing materials and that has bring a lot of positive effects to me, at times it might be risky because I have never tried it before, but I have never regretted trying new things, It always comes out nice and once in a while if I don't get it, that failure gives me a new and better way of trying that same method in another way, fixing the mistakes and getting an amazing result. I can't really remember the last time I tried something new, but the latest one I remembered vividly was when I was sowing mum's cloth, there's a particular style I had in mind which I feel it will look nice on her, I haven't tried it before and I was a bit scared if I will get it right at first attempt but then I summoned courage and tried it out and it's better than the ones her previous designer had made for her while I was away, many people compliment the dress and even my mum couldn't even believe it's my first time of sewing that particular design.
Yes I believe it and it is true. There's a soul mate destined for every man and by God's divine arrangements they meets themselves and unite.
Thank you reading ♥️♥️♥️
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I will be sharing some of my thoughts about some other questions in my next article.
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