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Your Nature is that innate ability of way of life and attitude. A basic inherent characters or features that make up yourself. We can simply say the basic character of an individual. It includes the person's way of thinking, feeling and interaction with others.

. Your Nature defines your interaction with others, different people with different attitudes and nature, for some people, their nature might be that of calmness and coolheadedness, they have no strength for any dangerous or harmful plays. They are always quiet and reserved, no temper or violence. While some people are of the outspoken nature, they get angry, fight and defend themselves where necessary and sometimes when they play with their friends. But everybodybody can manage their attitude well. The type of personality around you is necessary. There are some people who can manage their partners and friends attitude very well. They have lived with themselves and studied each other's behavior. They know when they are angry and when they are calm. They know what makes you angry and what makes you happy, they have come to understand themselves very much. As long as there are different people with different race, different upbringings and different background there will be different attitudes to a person.

I find it odd when friends or couple who have lived together for some times fight and argue each other over unnecessary things,humans have the tendency to adapt to each other's attitudes and behavior, people get angry over things that have happened over and over again. Your friend is an outspoken type and gregarious in nature, you shouldn't get angry if she speaks in a manner that's harsh or severe, that's her way of doing things. Besides, female friends especially do this a lot and we don't actually mean it. We pick up fight and abusive words with our friends just for fun or jokes sometimes. We do this to someone very close to us to the extent that we have understand each other. We shouldn't be surprised if our friends or partners do this to us jokingly, we should try and understand that that's their way of handling friendship.

Sometimes, when you are in a relationship with a new friend or you find yourself in a new company of friends, things happen, what happens when they misquote your dealings with them and they get angry easily. I'm a type that pick up fight with people jokingly just to lighten the mood but things gets extreme when the other party retaliate and takes it serious. Things I take with levity hands might be taken with such gravity with another person.

I was chatting with a friend sometimes ago, we just started talking not quite long, he is a type that goes to any extreme when it comes to cracking jokes, it goes to the extent of mockery sometimes but I take it as a joke, I have studied the guy and assumed that's how he relate with his pals. He made a joke one day, then I replied with a similar joke in the name of revenge, then he stopped talking to me. It's something I can say to someone else I know and no negative reaction will follow. Few weeks after I discovered this, I messaged him to ask him why has refused to reply my message, then he told me he has decided to set boundaries. Well, things like this are bound to happen when you have dealings with new people but that shouldn't stop you from making new friends.

What should be done when misunderstanding like this happens

Just be yourself. I don't believe in fake life or living a life of pretense just to suit your partner or friend. Over time that person will come to understand you better. If it gets to a point where the person draws your attention to the things he or she dislikes then you can do will to refrain from them. It's important for you both to understand each other if you want to maintain your friendship but it's quite disheartening when relationships and friendships split up because of misunderstanding or you guys do not suit each other.

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What similar occurrence have you experienced in the name of friendship or do you have one totally different from mine? Let's see that in the comment section.