People have trends now about fall in love so quick than usually but is that actually called love? No away, because love is not only a words some of you may know. Also love also does not mean to have relationship with the person love . But people now do not try to realized this thing which let them fall into different kinds of problem . From them especially they faced future life problem as they can not take proper decision about it or lost time more than they should lost. This is what had happened with me though i am able to recover it little bit but still i am in lose .. Let's talk about it today guys!
5 years ago when i was in high school grade, this is what happened with me. Around or near 2016 i start to use facebook as my family first time give me phone that time . I start to learn facebook in different ways and most of the time i spent my free as well study time on facebook as this is kinda like addiction for me that time . So one day i meet with one girl in facebook who is also same with me but little bit older than me around 3 years or 2 years . As we are from different country so we usually talk by English language and this lead us to do not express our feeling like we can express by our own language . This is how we kept talk and talk and one years later we fall under relationship . For me that was love i know but for her maybe that was relationship . I do not know why i am saying this but our love stayed up to 4 years meant till my first year in college . We end up when i entry on college due to our time problem maybe but the major reason were we can not meet with each other i think because i am from Bangladesh and She is from Indonesia . But when we were in relationship then we have planned a lot of thing regarding how we will meet each other as well how our life style will be .. But this nothing become true. Because we were not adult that time but when we start to be mature enough with reality and life then we start to thought that this will not going to be happen ever . Infect, this relationship help me on some ways and destroy my time too ..
Such as due to my this relationship i was not able to study time to time which makes my graduation result from school bad than i expected as well teacher expected . Also i faced the health problem due to relationship stress and different kind of thought pressure . While good site is about she help me to improve my english writing and speaking . Because every day more than 12 hours we have talked with each other and often talked on phone call more than 1 hours continuously . This makes me grateful to her still . My english is not good still but she help me to learn the basic thing already .
Now the point is love does not mean you need to get the girl or boy you love in your life .. Because when ever you will try to get your love in your love then you will destroy your life from all the way . Such as if i wanted to get my ex in my life then my life would be more worst than now i am . Love is just a feeling and you need to respect this feeling for the person . Such as i love my ex still and if she ask help from me anyhow then i will not stay without doing something . Because our relationship got break up does not mean our love got vanish too . If you forget about your love after break up then be sure you did not love her or him at all . Because the feeling of love never gone . In love always a thing you should remember that do not force your self . But keep love how it going on with you .
In my area, two month back one young couple get married as they fall under relationship from one years almost and later they claim their self that they will go away from their parents if not their parents do not held their marriage with each other . So later parents held the marriage as they did not have anything to do anymore. But the worst thing happen next is for some reason they both drink poison. This mean they are not yet proper adult to get married as well this do not mean if you guys in relationship then you need to get married as you may not for her or him in some case.
Anyway, now a days people love each other in wrong way just because they do not let each other to what they want to do . But love true meaning is you must love those thing what your love like to do and you can not go against her or him too about do not do this thing or that thing . If you like to do this then this is not called love actually too . Because if you both get married too then still after marriage life you will both have this kind of problem . And you should know that relationship life before marry and after marry is totally different as boys changed lot after marry. Also some one said to us here that " Love has no past tense but it is always present tense". This is because if you love some one then you can not forget them till you do not die and if you forget them before die then you should know that that was not your love for him or her. But that was relationship and there has lot of different between love and relationship as like i have said above.
At last, we all should know that what is love and it's effects . Because love has both positive and negative effects but if you only look for it negative effects then you will just end up with destroy your life by waste time which you need in different thing . But if you able to take the positive thing of love then be sure no one will be as more happy as you will be in life..
Again, love some one does not mean you need to make him or her your life partner . Love her with blind eyes rather than bad eyes!
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