Goals bring stress!

People trends to have goal and trends to fight to achieve it but do not they know how hard effect this can put on them? This is true that we set up goals just to have a peace full life in our lives days but really we got those peace by achieve our goals? Did you asked about this to your self ever ? If so then i am sure you got confused are keep blaming your self why you waste your time by having goals in life without understanding the meaning of peace yet. Peace refers actually different meaning. Infect having a healthy life and getting food daily three time is mean you are having enough peace .. But we do not understand this so that we desire to have good house , cars and much money on bank as well thinking having those think can lead us to be have a peace life. Infect we are wrong in this case too.. Having much and having higher desire always bring stress as well destruction . But this does not mean that we should not have any goals. Goals has both positive sign and negative sign so that we need to choice the positive one only to be have peace life!

Usually we set up a goal to done the activity properly in time according to the planning because goals is the only way how we can remind our activity as well planning . This can be a positive effects of goals. Suppose this month you gonna accumulate around 0.5 BCH and this is your goals for this month . To reach the target you will usually be under a planning such as every day you gonna create new article here and keep active on noise cash upto 5 hours daily to accumulate as much as BCH as you can.. I am just taking read and noise cash as example . This is what called positive planning under a soft running activity and the people who can run it properly without any mistake might be reached the goals.

But if some one forced their self to accumulate the goals then this goals goes under negative site. Because this will bring stress to your life only and you can not do proper activity too which is worth to other . Such as tomorrow you have no topic to write but you still want to write one topic any how and keep pressure on your self how you can do it.. You scroll here or there to find out a title to have an idea. But this is not good for yourself anymore as it impact on our self .. Some time i often work till late night around 4am here just to done the activity though i feel slept , boring but i still want to done my target or goals which negative impact i faced of later.

This is just normal explanation but if you think deep then you can see there has lot of thing which is illegal just happen because of goals .. LOl, this should be called desire rather than goal.. Because goals is just goals in our life which we just can dream while work to achieve it but if some one fight for it to get then this do not remain goals anymore. Also you need to know that when ever you set up goals then your mind can not think other thing running beside you or you can not catch those thing due to your goal which mean you are losing your creativity just to get the goal. This is kinda look like our childhood study when we do not wanted to eat food but our parents forced a lot to feed us though we were full or no mood to ate. Again when we grew up then parents forced us to be doctor or engineer or bla bla bla but this also killed our emotion and thinking mind to do something different .. I passed my high school life and i entered college with science department due to my goal was study hard while get a good job. But lol, this makes my life same as hell but there were days when we studied upto 17 hours and slept less than only 6 hours which killed our thinking mind or the mind to do something unique. This is what let me demotivated most of the time when i lived in hostel for study. But then i realized this is not actually called goals but this called desire which makes our life hell from inside .

Still i am not saying having goals is bad but we should achieve it in appreciate way so that we will faced no negativity but work with having fresh mind. Too much goals or desire some time makes people mad too . Such as here on of my brother's uncle got mad due to heavy study he did 🤷‍♂️ just to achieve the goals 🤦‍♂️. LOl, some time to achieve our goals we may do cheating too which is illegal fully. Some student do cheating in exam just to do good result which is just their goals but they do not understand how bad impact this will be effect on their self in future and if they understand this then they might did not involve in cheating while feel the goals.. This example for all of us. We may work hard now to achieve goals but there will be a days when we will have money rather than having peace. And if i do not have any goals but has planning to do something which is enough for m life to lead in future then i will be success as well be happy all the time with what i did in my life. I will be free to think what i want to be and how i can suit the activity with me rather than choice one one opportunity for me and fight for it like mad does.

Anyway, this is all just my random thought but do not take it seriously as i even do not know what i write.. Infect this is called also free life without any goals.. Set up goals to write a meaning full article also kinda having stress because you need to do much research then about it . But if you write article according to your mind want then you will be much relax but later can learn new thing while explain it on new article . I still remember when some of my friends study hard whole day but we go out side and have relax mind .. But at the end of the day he felt stress about life while we did not though he studied hard and gonna have good job life too .. This means he is not happy with his goals of success but we are due to have no goals!

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