Adolescence

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The stage of adolescence is a stage of mystification, not only for you but additionally for the adults around you. They may not even ken how to treat you. Are you adolescent or old?

I ken you are feeling so much transmutation in yourself at this stage of your life, in your body, in your emotions, and in your dealings with others. I ken it is pellucid to you that you have to deal with so many vicissitudes. It is paramount that you surmount any challenges these transmutations pose. They verbally express, "Oh, you must be mature". Much is expected of you. You feel like everyone is waiting for the things you do, the words you verbally express and the

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expected facility

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cultivate the

aptitude and facility and achieve order in the community.

decisions you make. That is why you should be yarer, be more conscientious and be more open-minded in the many things around you. They verbalize, "That's authentically how life is."

No matter how challenging you are, you have to face them. You require to be yare and have the erudition that will avail you to be resilient as you face the challenges of adolescence.

It is paramount for you to understand that each person has expected facilities and deportments at every stage of life that must be addressed. They are needed to develop his aptitudes and facilities and achieve order in the community. It is consequential to identify the expected capabilities

and this comportment especially in the early adolescence stage.

Expected faculties and demeanors (developmental tasks) at each stage of human aging have three consequential goals.

First, they accommodate as a guide to what society expects of

every stage of life. It is consequential to understand them in order to acquire the skills that apply to them. It is consequential to do this under parental guidance and

edifiers.

Second, they accommodate as motivation or motivation for the puerile man or girl to do the

society expects him.

Third, develop the faculty to habituate oneself to incipient situations; so eschew stress or abashing reactions because he can prepare to face them. For example, a child who visually examines the way an adolescent man or girl treats the antithesis sex can facilely adjust when he or she reaches this stage.

During adolescence, there are eight expected facilities and deportments that must be developed according to Havighurst (Hurlock, 1982, p.11). They are as follows:

achieving incipient and more mature relationships with peers

accepting a convivial role congruous to the woman or man

accepting vicissitudes in the body and applying felicitous management to them

desire and acquisition of responsible gregarious demeanor

having the competency to make meticulous decisions

preparation for employment

preparation for espousement and family

having values ​​that guide good manners

Here is a description of expected facilities and actions:

Achieving incipient and more mature relationships with peers. Afore the stage of adolescence comes, a child often interacts with other children of the same gender.

For example, if you are a woman, you prefer to play with your fellow woman. For a child, having a playmate is consequential because it will edify him how to communicate. But as he grows and cerebrates, his view of his neighbor changes. His view of the relationship deepens. He is probing for people he can be with more often on a quotidian substratum, get along with many things and other activities. He calls it friends. They are the people who avail him to be accepted and to belong to a group outside his family. But it is paramount for him to understand that he has a role to play in shaping a harmonious and consummate relationship. At this point, the following steps will avail you:

Ascertain what you genuinely want. You require to be pellucid about what you optate in a relationship. For example, you optate to have a friend you can treat as if

your own brother because you are an only child. This will avail you to engender steps on how to idealize your relationship.

Show who you authentically are. From an early age, you have learned to play a variety of roles in different situations. This includes interaction. In the early stages of your adolescence, you do everything you can to get other people your age to accept you. You are yare to get along with them to be included especially in a group.

But you may forget who you genuinely are. Do not be ignominious to show them your true identity. Learn to express your opposition to things that are not good. Accepting your friends in this aspect of your personality designates accepting the authentic you without pretending.

Keep communication open. Sharing your feelings, desires, plans,

fears, pleasures etc. are essential towards a full-fledged relationship. Communication is more paramount when there is nothing to obnubilate from each other.

For example, even if you ken that it would be offensive for your friend to let him ken your negative visual examinations about his demeanor, it is only right that you tell him so that he has a chance to transmute it.

Accept the neighbor and his or her true identity. Interaction is unconditional. It is consequential to accept a person as he or she genuinely is. It does not avail if you consummately transmute the person as you optate. For example, you cannot force your friend to be identically tantamount in your cerebrations, actions, and notions at all times. You withal don't relish that 18 people are endeavoring to be someone they are not genuinely. An amity profuse of pretense will not last. And even more, your friend will not be gratified to ken that you can not accept his true identity.

Maintain mutual trust. Without mutual trust, the substructure of the relationship is impuissant. If we maintain confide in each other, we will be able to surmount any communication tests. Just do not be too habituated with each other.

This denotes that not everything you are sensitive to (such as an experience that has a negative impact on you) should be shared. This information may be utilized at your own jeopardy. There is a verbalization "Familiarity breeds contempt."

Play and have frolic. There is nothing better than that

to be a child. Sometimes in our solemnness in life, we forget the value of playing infrequently and having fun with friends. In this way, we forget a plethora of worries, fears, doubts and insecurity.

Dote yourself. If you do not learn to dote yourself, you will not learn to value other people. It will be arduous for you to accept other people's impotencies if you are not able to accept your own impuissances. If you are not blissful with many things about yourself, there is nothing that other people can do to make you blissful. So it is paramount to commence by genuinely accepting what you authentically are and by thanking God for all your mystical enchantments.

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This is a hard stage in a life time

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3 years ago

You have presented the situations of adolescence very clearly. Good job. Carry on.

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Amazing story

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Thank you

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Adolescence is the impulsive stage tend to do things without exact consideration that is why parents should be kin in watching their children during this stage to assess them well.

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