Develop these habits to be a successful couple

Marriage is an important chapter in the life of every woman and man. Marriage is a social recognition through which a woman and a man start a new chapter in life together. There are many changes in the life before marriage and in the daily life after.

The question is how to keep up with these changes to become a successful couple?

There are usually some discrepancies between the habits and tastes of a man and the tastes and habits of a woman. Women are under the control of their father, elder brother, uncle, uncle or any other man before marriage but they do not control him completely as a husband wants to control his wife.

For example, a daughter spends much of her life under her father. At this time he does not face any problem. Most fathers readily accept all the whims and demands of their daughter. The girls usually do not complain, get angry or stubborn towards the father even if he rules a bit.

The father gets the help of his wife in raising his child i.e. daughter i.e. all the needs of the father but the mother meets. As a result, the child's relationship with the father means that the father does not expect anything from his daughter, he just wants to give. As a result, the father became an ideal man for his daughter. And since then a girl has been hoping or dreaming that her husband will be a man like her father.

But when she gets married, she takes over her husband's responsibilities. During this time he has to make many changes in his tastes, habits and lifestyle. The faster one can adapt to the new life, the faster one's married life will be filled with happiness and peace.

The way Dad cared to solve problems; Your spouse may not give priority to your problem or your likes and dislikes or opinions. So in some cases you have to adapt or patiently explain to him what you expect from him.

Dad didn't expect anything from you, just went through. And wanted to teach you but your husband will expect a lot from you that you have to meet. Your home was like a school for you and your husband's house was like a workplace. Performance should be shown in the husband's house especially in taking care of the husband. And a boy who has seen his mother since childhood how much his mother cares for him.

And when he gets married, he expects his wife to care, caress and love like a mother. But the wisdom of the mother can never get a wife. Because the mother knows her son's habits, tastes which a wife takes a long time to know or understand.

On the other hand, the mother usually gets almost everything she needs from her father. That's why having a mother-child relationship is not something to be taken lightly. That is why mother has become a very dear personality to every child.

But since the wife expects everything from her husband, the husband also expects everything from his wife.

In any case, both the husband and the wife have to have the mentality of giving concessions. Then a good relationship will develop between each other.

The mentality or thoughts of two people will never be the same. So in order to live together, both of them have to agree on some issues and continue to cooperate with each other. Let us know some important information or tips that will help you to be successful in married life.

Give priority to his opinion

The first problem in married life is with this opinion. Your spouse's opinion should be given equal importance as well as your own. The two sides need to come up with a solution through discussion before making any important decision. Your own opinion cannot be unreasonably imposed. But there must be a major decision maker or leader. And in this case, the husband will fulfill this important responsibility. However, the husband must take his wife's opinion. But he will take the decision. Yes, in some cases the wife will take the lead, such as cooking, tidying the house, raising children, family chores. However, she must understand her husband's mind and do everything accordingly.

Introduce yourself in beautiful clothes:

When we go out of the house a lot of the time we get out neatly tidy; But I don't do much makeup for my wife or husband. You should also appear nicely in front of the person you love. This will increase the love for each other.

Be careful not to neglect the person you love:

Negligence is one of the reasons for the breakdown of any relationship. So take care of your own man. Express your love for her through your actions. Learn to love every day. Love your life partner every day just like you have to water the flower pot inside your house every day or the tree will die one day. Then the tree of love will grow day by day.

Be outspoken

If there is any doubt or difficulty in understanding, one should refrain from saying such things. There should be no privacy between husband and wife. When talking, you need to tell your spouse that you love or respect him or her. Speak the truth and never lie.

Be faithful

There is no substitute for loyalty. If you are assured of loyalty, he will also be faithful to you. None of us want to be deceived by a loved one. So be faithful to him for your own sake.

Doubt is a very harmful thing. Suspicion damages the relationship. So if you have any doubts about anything, you should ask and find out. But it must be said politely. And it is not right to doubt too much. And all issues must be discussed openly, nothing can be hidden from each other.

It is not right that you should be treated sweetly all the time in married life, when there will be no argument or quarrel. It is normal to have arguments or quarrels. But all these issues cannot be allowed to linger. No matter what happened before the married life of the husband or wife, the cost cannot be paid. Don't talk old when arguing.

We listen very carefully to the words of others but do not give importance to the words of our own spouse. And when your life partner realizes that you are not giving him importance, then mutual suspicion will increase. So listen carefully to what your life partner says, it will reduce depression.

Spend time together

Husbands have no choice but to spend time together to maintain a good relationship with their wives. The more time a husband and wife spend together, the better their relationship will be. On the other hand, if the opposite is the case, the suspicion will increase; So the family has to give time. Husband and wife must have their own bedroom to spend time alone, to open their minds. And every wife wants to spend time alone with her husband. So even if it is difficult, at least you have to make a small room for yourself before marriage. However, it is not possible to have a separate bed. This will increase the distance.

Because if the physical distance increases, the mental distance can also increase.

There will always be some problems, they have to be accepted.

Dangers, disasters and other unpleasant things are an integral part of our lives. There must be these disliked things. These will never end; When to increase or when to decrease. So we have to take these issues normally and try to solve the problem.

Finding out some good aspects of each other

You may not like many things in your life partner. Even then, he has some good qualities, find them and reveal them, that is, face some reputation, you will see what a happy atmosphere it will be.

You have to practice forgiving

None of us are wrong. It is normal to make mistakes. And forgive the mistake from the heart without keeping it in your head. This will increase respect and love for each other.

You have to make a habit of greeting each other, thanking each other, saying Allah Hafez, Fi Amanillah, etc.

We respect or greet different men or women but do not greet or thank our spouses. But the rightful owner of the salutation is his life partner.

Solve your own problems

It's not uncommon for problems to come up in life. But you have to try to solve this problem yourself. Problems or quarrels cannot be told to your friends, siblings or young people. The problem will continue to grow without being solved. However, if you hide the problem, if it is likely to get bigger, then you have to tell your loved ones. Such as one's own mother, father or a relative who can help solve the problem in a slow way. But it is better to hide it or try to solve it yourself.

Give priority to your spouse

Anyone never can be more loyal or faithful than one's own spouse. And if your spouse somehow understands that there is someone dearer or more faithful in your life, then you will never be happy in your married life. If someone stays like that before marriage, you can't have a relationship with him after marriage.

Let's try to develop these habits in our married life. I wish you all the best - Allah Hafez.

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