Most people are also afraid of marriage for fear of divorce. And that's why divorce is a big issue in the world. Divorce can make life miserable. Divorce is not just two lives, It separates the two families. All your relationships with this marriage end. Even good moral relationships that have no guilt. People who have felt the separation of their relationship, such people give birth (family planning) late so that the lives of the children will not be ruined by the separation.
When a tree is uprooted, it falls down with its fruit.
If a person decides to separate before having a child, he still accepts it, but after having a child, this decision becomes very difficult for him. After having children, parents should think more about children instead of themselves.
There are many reasons for separation. Sometimes the separation is only from the man and sometimes only from the woman. But if the decision to separate is made by both. It means, So the limit of tolerance of both is over.
Lack of endurance
Most of the people in the world endure adversity, But when husbands and wives get involved in domestic disputes on a daily basis And as they fight back and forth, their endurance diminishes. It is very important for them to keep calm after every problem. Because the trouble will come and go away, But the bitterness created by the quarrel will grow inside them. if they put it on their inner permanently, it could have an effect on something else. And when they begin to accumulate a great deal of bitterness, they turn into a whirlwind. And that storm could ever get out, And when the tolerance limit is gone, there will be nothing left in the relationship, then all that is left in their minds is that we will not be together anymore. And that very moment the alarm goes on. When the thought of separation comes to them, they erase all the good memories from their minds. Except that they are in a very difficult situation right now and If they keep going that way, the problems will increase.
Maybe it's their selfish thinking that separates them from each other.
I think It is a failure after which very few people are able to regain success.
Grief and anxiety after divorce
Often, even after a divorce, a person does not remain completely calm. Divorce not only breaks the relationship but also can break the person from inside.
Most people in the world look at divorced people with strange eyes. The strange style of looking makes a person more anxious.
Maybe the Men come far out of their failures early because maybe they are stronger or they don't feel much grief.
Problems are also increasing for most women. Because a woman is weak on the inside, but after making a strong decision, she begins to feel strong. But some people don't want to see a woman strong. Often questions are raised that make a woman weak. The love with which she decorated the beautiful house. people always reminds her, the beauty of that house and that love. But when she wants to forget everything and move on. She wants to erase all the marks on which she was in trouble.
But sometimes she regrets that she made the wrong decision in a hurry. She should have endured more.
That anxiety was still acceptable, but now it is even more difficult to bear the world alone. The world begins to look at her with narrow-mindedness or sympathy.
People who consider themselves weak after divorce may not be able to achieve further success but those who strengthen themselves after their divorce will be able to achieve further success.
When it comes to separation, both should decide with their heart and not with their mind
Most people make an emotional decision but regret it all their life. Such people must make a decision by thinking from the heart and not from the mind. Please Don't let a wrong decision ruin your life.
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A good article has so much truth, it is a pity that most people make a mistake in their life and do not know what they want. Thank you for sharing this article with us