My Husband's Addiction
How would you deal with your partners addiction?How will you adjust after knowing what he is addicted to?How will you handle situations and consequences you may both face with this addiction?
Cigarettes:
"Cigarette smoking is dangerous to your health".This is too common and can be seen on the packaging of cigar itself.The big question is....If this is dangerous to our health then why can't they stop the production of this?A lot of smokers suffer from lung illnesses that can also cause death.Worst happens to second hand smoke and these are the persons who doesn't smoke but inhale the smoke of the cigarette.
Gambling:
Some says it is just their pass time.They start from small time gambling until it becomes an addiction.Famous now aside from casino is Online Sabong(Cockpit fight).It was so terrifying to see others prioritize it over their personal needs,worst they save money for gambling and failed to provide for their families needs.
Womanizing:
Oh why can't they be contented with one.Is it that hard for them to be satisfied?In this era honestly even women have affairs too.How can they take it to their conscience to be unfaithful to their partners?What benefit do they get from it?May it be lust or something else still it is wrong to have an affair.
Alcohol/Liquor:
Hard is good for health if taken in moderation,Wine is heart friendly too.But to become alcoholic is a different thing.This addiction destroys the liver and causes other health problems if not controlled or handled properly.
Illegal Drugs:
Worst addiction a person can have.This will totally destroy someones life.And our country is still having a hard time to be drug free.
These are just some of the bad addiction person's can have.This might lead to psychological problems that requires professional and medical help.
Good thing I am not into any of this.My addiction is earning money haha.I am preparing for something and that includes my kids future.And about the title "My Husband's Addiction". Nah!This is not that serious because my husband is not into anything illegal, gambling, alcohol,cigar and never he thought of having an affair haha. Womanizing is a mortal sin.
Should I consider myself blessed for having a man who is righteous?He is not perfect though because he sometimes commit mistakes too.I am just one lucky wife who doesn't worry about a husband coming home drunk,or pennyless due to gambling haha.No scent of cigar because he hates it too.No other scent of women perfume because he has work-home,home-work routine.
So what is my husband's Addiction?
I just want to flex here how proud I am for having a responsible husband and father who prioritize us.Providing our needs and as much as he can pamper us with our wants.He is addicted on loving us and making love with me LOL. There is a big difference between plain S*X and love making hihi.I admire my husband for he knows how to limit himself in terms of dealing with his male friends.I am not stopping him if he wants to drink alcohol as long as in moderation, knowing he easily gets tipsy,a glass or two is enough for him haha.
For those who's partners are in to addiction as long as you can help your partner please do.Sometimes all they need is someone who will accompany them,guide them and help them get thru their addiction.If you need to seek psychological advice and do counseling then do so.Leaving them behind is not a solution,help them and pray for them instead.
So what opinions do you have with these addictions ?I would love to hear/read from you guys.This is quite a short article but I hope I somehow entertain you fellas.
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Oh just an additional Addiction is shopping.My God being Shopaholic is something I don't want to experience even if I'll come to a point that I can afford to.I'd rather save my extra money for my daughter's educational plan and prepare a good future for them.I am contented with my 500 monthly budget on Shopee/Lazada checking out my kids necessities hihi.
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Nakapgsulat na rin ako ng addiction ni hubby. Maswerte ka sa hubby mo sis. Anyway Yung si hubby ko naman Yung smoking niya any di pa niya natigil napagod na ako kakasabi sa kanya. Nakakastress din isipin na habang ako hanap ng hanap ng extra income while working siya naman nagsusunog ng pera daily.