Do you really want to be Happy?

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3 years ago

Happiness is NOT something we need to start praying for.

God has already answered that prayer long ago before you were even formed in your mother's womb.

Every human being is born with an amazing innate ability to pursue after their happiness.

Neither is happiness something that one should wish for because happiness does not depend on how rich you are or how much materials you possess.

Happiness is something you design on your own.

Being happy has to do with our attitude and how we tackle things in life. Happiness to me is a skill that we can learn and has to do with deciding to be happy.

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To stay happy:

  • Make the Decision to be Happy.

Choosing a happy life is, in itself, the path to living a healthy life.

Happiness is NOT prepared solely for any particular faith or religion. And religion is not a path to one's happiness.

  • Stop Comparing Yourself with People

Comparing one's self with others is the GREATEST impediment to human's happiness.

There is one thing that you’re better at being than any other person: and that is being YOU. Being YOU is the only game you can win.

  • Stop Making Efforts to Impress Others.

It takes a lot of energy trying to compete with other people or trying to impress those whose approval you seek.

  • Encourage the Practice of Gratitude.

Practising gratitude is a very important strategy to be happy. Gratitude means putting all our focus on the things you have instead of putting it on the things you lack. Gratitude is mostly about you celebrating your present life and also being thankful for the joy and gladness you are experiencing.

  • Always Look for the Goodness in Things

It is very easy to see the bad sides. Instead of seeing the bad sides, focus on the positive sides only.

  • Celebrate Yourself

You are worthy to be celebrated. You shouldn't wait until it's your birthday or when there's a holiday before you celebrate yourself. Appreciate yourself.

Build your confidence in yourself by recognizing and appreciating your greatness anytime it comes.

Congratulate yourself for your successes, no matter how small or big it is.

Use your small wins to generate strength for the upcoming ones. You will realize that it is one of the bravest ways to stay happy.

  • If it's PAST, Let it GO

This is another great hindrance to people's happiness (holding on to the past)

The past is done already! There is no amount of worrying or wasted emotions that will change the fact that the past is gone already.

So, let it go!!!

As you grow as a person, you learn to see these past events as stepping stones toward a brighter and better future.

BE HAPPY & STAY SAFE ❣

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3 years ago

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3 years ago

The last part hits me. I have this trouble I made in the past that I can't let go. It is stopping me to do things sometimes. Thank you for reminding me to let go of it. I know it's hard because the memory is always in my head. Maybe if I can let it go, I can finally breathe and go on with my life.

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3 years ago

Yes, letting go will bring relief.

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3 years ago

It’s true happiness is all around us we just need to find it in the littlest of things we do daily

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3 years ago

Exactly what the message portrays. Find happiness in everything around you.

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3 years ago

Stop making effort to impress others just be your self and be willing to learn from your flaws and gradually you will see your self happy

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3 years ago

Thanks for this contribution.

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3 years ago

Happiness is life and we should always find happiness in whatever we do

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3 years ago

You're right bro. Find happiness always

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3 years ago

Happiness is a state of being. If you can't be happy without these ephemeral needs, you wont be happy even when you have everything you think you want

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3 years ago

Exactly. Learn to be happy even when you have nothing.

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3 years ago

Happiness is the only thing you can give yourself aside from monetary stuff. If you don't make yourself happy, you would push yourself into depression.

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3 years ago

Abi now. Depression is real. One needs to be extremely careful

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3 years ago

With all you have said, I don't think one would still be unhappy instead of practicing all of these to become happy. We choose to be happy if we want to and it is left to us.

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3 years ago

Yes sis. Thanks for engaging

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