8/11/21
On Saturday on the Nigerian BCH forum, I noticed that the group was silent and decided to start a conversation. Before that time, I was going through my Instagram when I saw a clip. See it below👇
Immediately after I took the screenshot of the post I sent it to the group.
After which I got various reactions, @Gaftekloriginal @Jumper-01
Some ladies prefer going for the handsome and less financially stable guy
Some said they would go for the ugly looking guy and make him handsome with his money.
The last set of people said they would go for the ugly one and his money, then later cheat on him with the handsome dude.
Some said it's wrong for ladies to choose money/handsomeness, they should love the man for who he is.
It was an intense discussion that made me remember the story of my friend. I shared it on the group as well.👇👇👇
You know what, a friend of mine had a date with a guy she met online, she got there first. Immediately she saw the guy in real life, she knew this was not what she bargained for.
My friend japa through the back door
After sharing this, @Princessbusayo said she would write on such an experience she had. She did that today, you can read it via this link.
I told her I was going to share my own experience as well and here is it:
I met a cute looking guy on Facebook, we started talking and exchanging photos.
I found out some things about him while we were chatting...
He is an internet entrepreneur
He had some businesses, he has a car and some properties
He lives in another city
He gave me his number, which I found strange because he says he has no phone, that his phone just got spoiled and he hasn't gotten a new one.
The strange thing, that I didn't take note of was the fact that when I looked up his email address, it was connected with another email address saying "Bachad Reach", I asked the guy if this was the name of his business but he told me it was a charity organisation...
Special thanks to my wonderful sponsors, I'm open to more sponsorship.
He told me he would be having his birthday party celebration on a weekend and invited me. He said it was an all-white party, I decided to go with one of my friends(Toyin)
Toyin who came to the party to see my cute Facebook guy was carrying a black bag that her boyfriend had given her.
On getting to the party, my cute Facebook guy turned out to be tout-looking, he had lots of piercing around his ears and a very big matchet scar on his face. (I was even scared of his sight)
Immediately I saw him I knew this was not what I had bargained for. I immediately told Toyin under my breath that I was going to leave before the party ends.
I do not know what happened or how it happened, but during the party, the bag Toyin carried was left unattended and I discovered at the end of the party that it was missing.
Unbeknownst to me, my Cute Facebook guy but tout looking guy in real life allegedly picked the bag up and left with it.
The bag contained some documents and money collected by our group members. The money was meant to pay for Toyin's school fees, clothes, food and our transport fare.
I tried calling his number immediately, but it was switched off. I went online, only to realise he has blocked me from all his accounts.
Hours after the party, we were still on the road, because we had to trek a long distance before we got to the road, we begged people on the road for money to pay our transport fare back to school.
When we arrived in the school hostel the next morning tired and very dirty, one of my hostel mates asked if I had come back with anything useful from my night away.
I told her about my problem and she told me not to think too much about it, as she replied.
"You didn't get what you ordered for"
I said "Yes"
Since then, no matter how handsome anyone I meet online is, I made it a point of duty not to visit them.
I ordered a handsome young man but got a tout-looking Thief.
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What a bad experience. Most of the time if it seems too good surely it isn't. Sorry for your friend who lost her bag and its contents.