True love is loving yourself.

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April 16th, 2022

Without you loving yourself, you can't truly love someone else because if you don't love yourself first and if you don't know who you are and who you want to become, then how can you know what kind of person will genuinely make you laugh and make your heart ache but in a good way.

When you truly love yourself you don't need anyone to complete you, because no one will ever be able to complete you like your best friend and someone you can hit the town with. No one will be able to put a smile on your face like the way your dog's breath feels when it hits your face when he's excited to see you.

Also, no one will compliment you like the person staring back at yourself in the mirror when they say "you're beautiful." True love is loving yourself.

True love can't be seen through other people's eyes in how they see us. True love comes from how we love ourselves, because if you love yourself, the person you love will see that too.

True love is loving yourself as much as you want to be loved by someone else.

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Things can get complicated in life, sometimes we get lost in things we are chasing and forget what is most important. We forget that we are the one who whether family, friend or lover will be there for us the most.

No matter what happens in life either good or bad, true love is always there for you, life can get cold and even though you might feel alone out there, no one is ever truly alone because there is always someone for you to turn to and that person might just be you.

The funniest things we do when trying to impress a crush or someone we like, is to wear a new outfit, or not eat that favorite food that we love, or any other silly reason we can think of.

The biggest thing we forget when doing these things is the fact that we don't need to impress anyone else, what we should really be doing is loving ourselves just the way we are.

Because you are amazing just the way you are. If you didn't know this about yourself then take time to discover who you are, and if you don't love yourself then start by finding things that you do love about yourself.

One of the best ways to love yourself is to make positive affirmations to yourself daily. Positive affirmations basically means looking at something bad in your life and turning it into something good.

For example, if you're struggling with feeling anxious all the time and it's holding you back from doing things you want to do, turn that feeling into a positive statement "I feel anxious all the time, but I am strong enough for anything." Affirmations can really help to boost your self esteem.

And if you still have a hard time loving yourself then look around and find people that do have high self esteem and try to mimic them. They will surely have some sort of key factor in common and one way or another that same key factor will eventually lead to loving who you are and what you have.

True love can't be seen through other people's eyes in how they see us; it's a lot deeper than that. Real and true love comes from how we love ourselves. They notice how happy you are and that it's not because of them.

They see the light that the two of you bring to the room together, they see how happy you are in your own skin. That is what true love is.

We all have a love story. For most of us it starts with falling in love with someone, but the end of a love story is always the same. The end of the love story is when you fall out of love with yourself and you stop loving who you are. When you stop loving yourself, you start to see yourself through other people's eyes and what they think about you, and it becomes hard to see if your love is real or fake.

If you're reading this, I'm going to bet it's because of a special someone. A man or woman who's treated you like no one else has ever done and made you smile so much you thought something was wrong. Maybe they do things you don't expect, and they're a little different than others. Maybe they're shy, but once they open up you can't help but be happy and smile.

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To love ourselves first is the best thing to do before we love others too. How can we love others if we don't love ourselves above all? Then, it is indeed important to love ourselves after all.

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2 years ago

I love myself more than anything else. If I don't know how to love myself, I don't know to love other people around.❤️

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2 years ago

When we love ourselves the way we should be loved,seeking validation goes away and peace of mind ensues.

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Self love can be hard but it is always the best I tell you

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We are the most capable persons who can love ourselves. When we love ourselves the way we should be loved, seeking validation goes away and peace of mind ensues.

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