Man can be purchased: Partiality

May 7th, 2022.

What if I told you that a man can be purchased?

In some cases, he can. If you have money to spare, you might be able to make him do what you want. But why would you dispose your hard earned money on a man who does not deserve it?

When you get to know a person, you learn about his or her philosophies and thoughts about life. But at the end of the day, we are all hungry for attention, in one way or another.

We were asked to come for sanitation in my CDS last Saturday. I couldn't go due to some unforeseen circumstances. I wasn't the only one that missed it though.

On getting to the local government for clearance this month, I and the others were looked down on, abused and sent out.

While we were there begging, a guy came in, they chatted with him, asked why he wasn't around and cleared him.

I then went inside and kept begging, others came in too. Then I remembered my Friend who wasn't around yet. I called him, he came, went close to one of the bosses, spoke to her and wham!!!, we were cleared.

I don't pray I experience such again though. But I'm still surprised at the rate of partiality there, because we all came for the same mission, why would some people be sidelined?

True love is often denied because there is not enough attention. And if it comes to financial stuff, men will go as far as selling their soul to get it.

Not only for love, many will go extra miles for their counterparts once they are financially settled.

So how can you become successful in accomplishing your goals?

The secret is so simple and here it is:

At one point in life, we needed to feel accepted. That feeling allowed us to grow up and learn how to interact with other humans. The same acceptance that molded our personalities has been internalized until this day.

That is why most of us would do almost anything to stay accepted by the people around us—even if it means selling out our principles and good judgment.

The extent of partiality is something most people overlook while they judge a character and their actions. People who are loyal to one side, in one situation may be loyal to the opposite side in the next. These sort of character changes are the ones that make people sway, making what had been a good investment seem less appealing and vice versa.

This is not a new phenomenon, it has been happening since ages; governments have been overthrown, businesses have lost their ground because of the loyalty divide. But this is also not a loss of anything because as trust is formed, it eventually evolves into more trust. In the end, the positive outcome overpowers the negative outcome.

A little partiality goes a long way.

It keeps the world up to date on what's going on, who's doing what and who's supporting whom. The only difference between being a bystander and being a sensationalist is the quality of your information.

A man is partial to anything in every aspect of life. He is partial to a woman who he is seeing over the woman who loves him. He is partial to a place to stay over his own house and he is partial to the person he listens in bed over the actual person talking to him.

There are, on the other hand, some areas where a man cannot be partial. If you really love yourself, you cannot be partial to anything except yourself. This is what makes us love ourselves so much.

When it comes to partiality, it is the same. You may have the best of intentions when you are partial but it may end up costing you your life.