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"You build a man for another woman"

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1 month ago

Does it ring a bell? Is it familiar to you?

What if the man you love right now is not for you at all? What if you're building a man for another woman? Are you willing to let go?

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Every relationship has a cycle, at first you deeply fall hard for your partner. Anticipating the call, text and even the touch. Craving for the moment, the laughter and the place that you used to. Falling in love wasn't that hard. We can easily fall for someone as it shows pure and genuine love. The promise that we're holding, the words that we're believing and the action that speaks louder. Who wouldn't fall for that?

But after a few months or years, the euphoria of love fades. The calls and text bother you anymore, the touch isn't welcome at all. You feel yourself heating up not because you're excited but it drives you nuts. You feel annoyed when he's around. You don't want to feel his presence anymore. That's how things instantly change. Blaming each other as the unhappiness felt inside their heart and would look outside for fulfilment. Upbraiding that one has fault for being inside the relationship. You both want to end but the word "LOVE" keeps you both together.

You too grow and mature, willing to give and take each other's time. Understand the situation when one is busy enough for whatever the reason. Supporting each different goal in life. Know how to appreciate it's simple yet exciting efforts. The promise became firm day by day. Love became it's foundation as trust is building inside it's solid relationship. A scheme that you will end up together building your own happy family. As you two believe that "happily ever after" exists in your love story.

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But your world crumbles right after you too end. When he discerns that you're not the woman he wants to be neither a person he wants to grow old with. He doesn't see you as a material wife nevertheless but a plain ex girlfriend, no less. He doesn't see you as a woman who walks in the aisle wearing a white dress gown holding a bouquet of flowers. He doesn't see you as a woman whom he'll tell his vow "till death do us part".

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Your role is only to build him as man, your role is to love and trust him without knowing that you'll end up broken. The memories that keep on hunting you, the flashbacks of how happy you were before and the touch that you're longing for won't shrug off your mind. The place that reminds you of him, the sweet gestures that will make your heart flutter. The pictures that you both shared, as a smile appears to your lips but instantly turns to tears when reality snaps at you. The promise that breaks into pieces that shutters your whole self. Let the tears ease your pain, let the memories fade and give yourself time to heal. Things happen for a purpose, we might don't see what it is for now but surely we'll be able to recognize it and we can say, "Thank God for letting it happen". Love is not a mystery nor a passive experience. Love is not a destiny it's a CHOICE.

Are you willing to let go if it means losing your happiness? Or would you rather stick to him knowing everything? Would you act like a sort of martyr? Are you willing to sacrifice?

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There are some people in our lives that aren’t supposed to be there and if we can see the intent of their heart you’ll be surprised with everything… we can force a relationship it will always backfire, and I love your topic… I won’t be surprised how many ladies or men build up their partners just for someone else to jump in later and take it all…

It’s a sad truth… this is a good write up and story telling…

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1 month ago

Ang sakit naman if sakin tu mangyari. Wag naman sana huhuhu. Anyways, welcooomeeee aboaarddd.

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1 month ago

Thank you po 💓

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1 month ago

This is really a tricky one.. But at the end whats gonna be is gonna be. It may be a blessing in disguise. God might be preparing a best partner for you and when he finally reveals him to you, you might forgot about the one who broke your heart in a few days.. Personally, I believe no one is indispensable!

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1 month ago

Though love is a choice but it is very hard to let go especially when you love someone and you found out that you are just working for another person to enjoy it. There's nothing we can do to it but to move on and always remember that love is a choice and the right one will surely show up one day.

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1 month ago

True sis, though it's too hard to move on but we have too.

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1 month ago

Sakit naman kung ganon sis. Ako iwanan ko agad agad, lol!

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1 month ago

hahahahh same sis

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1 month ago

So true dear, so true. I agree with that. Slowly the zing fades. I mean how on earth this care & affection dry up?

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1 month ago

Maybe because it's not they think TRUE LOVE is.

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1 month ago

lisuda pud ug in.ana oy may pag wala nalang🤧

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1 month ago

Kung maka predict lang ta na ma ing.ana ang mahitabo may pag wala nalang jud. 😔

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1 month ago

mao gani chelle para dili sakit ba ahahah

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