Life is a choice
Do your peers influence you well? If not, how can they prevent you from making your life better? If they are good influences, how can they help you achieve your dreams?
You know, there is one way for us to know what our future is. How? Through our circle of friends.
If you spend most of your time with people who don’t have any goals and dreams; there was nothing else to do but hang out for the rest of their lives, probably your life will be the same.
If your peers are addicted to vices, you will likely be tempted to do the same. When you join the story of your gossiping neighbors, gossip will probably also be your favorite pastime. I really believe in the old saying, “Birds of the same feather flock together.” The influence of the people around us is really great. So let’s choose the people we should accompany.
So, how do we choose the right people for us? First thing we need to do is to. . .
Evaluate our relationship. Are those you always with in the office able to CONTRIBUTE to the good in life or are you just negating what you are given? Your friend for 10 years, does he INSPIRE you to handle your finances properly or does he drag you until you sink into debt?Your BFF, is he HELPING you to see your problem objectively or is he still fueling so that your anger at the world grows?
If someone's influence on you is purely negative, they are DEFINITELY not the right person in your life. We all need to. .
Be with a person with similar values. If we want our lives to have a good destination, we need to spend time with RESPONSIBLE people. “It doesn't matter when you are out-of-place in the circle of friends who are not a good influence, as long as the important thing is to STAND and PRACTICE your right principles. I believe that being “successful” but ignoring values is still not a REAL success.
At the same time, we have to. . .
Seek someone better than us. But of course before that, we have to ACKNOWLEDGE that even though we already know something in life, we can still learn a lot. If we don't become TEACHABLE, we will just stay where we are for life. We need to enjoy the company of people who are better than us, because they will truly help us for our ADVANCEMENT and IMPROVEMENT.
Life is too short to waste our time. If we want to have something in life, we must be careful of those who can influence us. Because the people around us are the MAJOR FACTOR for the direction we are going. Let us not allow our wrong choice of partner to hinder our dreams that we want to achieve.
Choose what is right. Turn your head straight forward to the things that makes you grow and become more fulfilled.
Have a great day everyone especially to #rusty. Love...love...love!