Signs that you should end your Relationship

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Today's topic is about being in a relationship. I hope this article clarifies things for you. 

I acknowledge that love necessitates forgiveness and acceptance of each other's faults. That's how we know a normal relationship should work but it's not. Because when you're in love, it's as if you've been blinded by it. As a result, you would try to force the relationship, despite the fact that doing so would actually worsen the situation. That ought not to be the case. When relationships simply don't work anymore, there comes a point when you should end the relationship and try to move on.

In order to ascertain if it is time to break up with a partner, you should look for these signals in yourself.

  • When you are suffering any type of abuse in your relationship (emotional or physical), this is a strong indication that you should stop the relationship and give yourself a break.

  • If you can't talk to your partner about anything sensitive without getting into a fight, it's a notable hint that you should leave. Consistent fights are indications of deep-seated problems between you and your partner, and they might indicate that things will likely become very detrimental. In this case, you might as well cut the rope with your partner.

  • When your lover looks uncaring about your poor self-esteem. In a healthy relationship, you support and encourage one another. If you feel your self-esteem is being compromised rather than enhanced, you should quit the relationship.

  • You should consider ending your relationship if you keep expressing your wishes, needs, and hopes and feel like you're talking to a stone wall. It only means that you're no longer heard or appreciated. 

  • When it comes to spending time with one another, it should be a pleasure rather than a task. If your partner avoids spending time with you and instead prefers to spend time with their friends, you should inquire as to why. However, you should also try to respect his time for his friends. But if he constantly avoids spending time with you, it may be time to consider leaving him. 

  • When you ever feel unworthy or you are not good enough.  Or when you wish you were taller, skinnier, smarter, etc. to make him/her like you more? If that's the case, it's a sign that you're in the wrong relationship. 

You enter a relationship thinking that it would make you happy rather than drive you crazy. Your partner shouldn’t do anything to endanger the relationship. So, the first time you're mistreated, take it as an experience. An experience which should leave a lesson to both of you. However, the second time you are mistreated, it's time for you to make a decision whether to stay in the relationship or to end it.

You only have one life to live. Maintain your integrity. It's heartbreaking to think about what life will be like when you quit in a relationship, but it's much worse to consider sticking with someone who doesn't appreciate you as much as you deserve to be cherished in the first place.


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These are also an indications of what we call a narcissistic partner. They abuse a woman if every way they can it might be physical, emotional, psychological. So it would create an emotional trauma to a woman. It's women's' month. We should know our value and worth. Happy women's' month. God bless

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2 years ago

These are really strong indications of unhealthy and abusive relationship. We need to sacrifice everything in love but we should not sacrifice our own heart, our own soul for the sake of someone who does not even love us whole heartedly. If someone loves you truely then she/he never ever will try to understimate you, control you. I think it is much much better to stay single than commited into an unhealthy and abusive relationship.

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2 years ago

A relationship where there is no respect or support and there are only insults, misunderstandings and problems, is not a healthy relationship, even if you love that person very much and always forgive him/her, you must think first of yourself, your health and your self-esteem, we cannot be with a person who hurts us. Life is only one and we must live it as much as possible, if we are only going to be next to a person who only treats us badly, we are not really living.

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2 years ago

I can't relate since I haven't entered into a relationship yet. But thank you for sharing these particular things you've mentioned.

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