To give birth is the most precious moment in every mom's life. But to give birth is also a risk for both the mother and the child. That's why Mothers are also heroes because they give all of their power, strength, and courage to deliver the child safely.
Pregnancy is the most miracle that has happened to a women's life because not all women are blessed to bear a child of their own.
Bearing a child for 9 months is not easy as 123 push. It is month-to-month progress that you need to check and to be extra careful about everything.
The first trimester, 1-3 months are the most exhausted and risky months for a pregnant woman. You need to endure all of the morning sicknesses for 3 months until birth (but not all pregnant women experience morning sickness), the weird cravings, the sleepy mood every minute and hours, and the mood swings.
Morning sicknesses:
Nausea
Vomiting
Weird cravings
Sleepy every second, minute, and hour
Mood swings
Almost all pregnant women experience those things. But when the labor begins to start this is the moment that you can realize how painful it was. At that moment you can realize all you have done wrong to your mother because at any moment you will become a mother too.
There are two types of how you deliver the baby, in normal delivery or via cesarean section.
Normal Delivery
Refers to childbirth through the vagina without any medical intervention. It is also known as a vaginal birth.
Cesarean Section
Cesarean section, also known as C-section, or cesarean delivery, is the surgical procedure by which one or more babies are delivered through an incision in the mother's abdomen, often performed because vaginal delivery would put the baby or mother at risk. Wikipedia
This process towards motherhood has a big impact on a women's body, from pregnancy to birth but it does not end there.
Because after birth the real battle begins. Sleepless nights, breastfeeding any time, caring for your newborn baby, and doing household chores and repeat.
You don't have enough time to take care of yourself especially when you are a hands-on mom to your baby. Also, postpartum is not easy to deal with, emotionally, mentally, and physically.
Some of the moms gain weight especially those who fully breastfeed their babies.
That many people around her, cannot understand the reason for her body changes. The postpartum body needs time to heal before you work it out to come back as it is before.
They easily judge and bully somebody if the person gained too much weight than before. They love to body shame people around them especially those moms that recently give birth.
Stop Mom Shaming
To gain weight is not a crime to judge on. Respect everyone around you, support those moms out there to back in shape not to brag them down.
Let's support each other and help each other to recover.
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Moral Lesson:
And also, becoming a mom is the best feeling than the feeling of being sexy.
Thank you for reading!! ❤❤❤
Check check check! If they think gaining weight is unhealthy, damn I am trying to be healthy for 2 people.