Anger is the absolute enemy of human life

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Just as there are qualities within a human being, there are also weak-minded transmitters. The place of origin of all these is the nafs. The number of Ripu i.e. enemies that are deadly harmful to human beings is usually six. The second of these Shararipur is anger. Anger is also called anger, rage, etc. When the coup is manifested, it turns into a coupon.

When anger awakens in the human mood or in the psyche like a blazing fire in the form of fire, at that moment the person loses the right knowledge and becomes disoriented and causes an event which is not desirable at all.

Satan is the open enemy of man. This devil is active in trying to control the human nafs all the time. Satan infects the nafs of a weak-minded person with Ripu in such a way that when Ripu is persuaded, that nafs cannot restrain or restrain it. When anger awakens excessively, then there is nothing to say about conscience, then conscience becomes inactive.

Excessive anger or rage instantly paralyzes the conscience. The consequences of the recklessness that result from anger lead to deadly reactions that lead to unrest, anarchy, and extreme aggression. There are words in the moment satisfied, momentally angry, angry-satisfied moment by moment. Such people cannot be steadfast.

Some may even look for similarities between anger and pride. It is important to note that arrogance is usually caused by neglect, disrespect, insignificance, indifference, neglect, neglect, inattention or denial of a loved one, loved one or friend, and in these cases anger or emotional turmoil, grief, emotion can be transmitted. And when this anger reaches its peak, it turns into a protest. Depending on the situation, this demonstration can be multidimensional, such as: demonstration of instinct, demonstration of mind, etc.

The Arabic word for anger is gadab, which is pronounced gadab under the Persian influence. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said about how harmful and deadly Gadab or anger is: Innal Gadaba Lausidul Imana Kama Yusidus Sabiru Al Asala-Surely anger destroys faith like Sabir destroys honey. (Bayhaqi). Sabir is a kind of bitter fruit much like Makal, it is called Dhalu in Hindi.

Anger destroys faith Ñ how vile it is in this statement. Angry people do things that in many cases cause their faith to be ruined.

Elegant, sophisticated people cannot have the horror of anger. Once in a wrestling match. When Hazrat Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) knocked down the enemy, the enemy spat in his face. Immediately Asadullah Ghalib Hazrat Ali Karmallahu Wazhahu left the enemy in spite of his anger thinking that the spit of the enemy had made him angry, so now hitting the enemy would mean killing the enemy with personal aggression.

In the Qur'an, Irshad has instructed to deal with any tense situation by keeping the mood calm: You will hear many painful things. If you are patient and cautious, it will be a matter of determination. (Surah Al-Imran: verse 18).

It is to be noted that to stand up against injustice, evil, untruth and indecency, to speak out against misdeeds, oppression, torture, oppression, etc., to take well-organized and coordinated measures to eliminate family or social disorder and disobedience, but not under direct anger. That anger does not turn into the horrors of Roshanal, but it is a way of reform. Anger has both good and bad sides, but anger for reform is a tool to protect people or society from the possibility of harm. He does not fall under the spell of anger and wrath.

In most cases, the anger contained in Ripur is unwholesome and evil. There is a saying in English: Itrshabha bhadhasarasu rang ঃyab tdarah drv lambharasab fabsarahayambhapu- broken family is the basis of guilt in immaturity. The definition of a broken family is multiple. We know that the microstructure of the world is the family that consists of parents and children. In a family where the parents are always angry and quarrelsome, a kind of unrest is transmitted to the children of the family which puts them in a great situation. No matter how rich such a family may be, it does not bring any happiness because of the anger between the parents.

It has been observed that in most cases, the unrest between the parents causes a breakdown in the family which is difficult to resolve. There is a saying that the happiness of the family is due to the woman. As true as this statement is, it is also true that only good relationship between husband and wife can build a truly happy family. In a family where there is always a quarrel between the parents, the foundation of the family becomes so shaky that day by day the children of that family fall prey to guilt at an early age. As they get older, they become great and fall into the clutches of crime. At one stage they get involved in big crimes, they become the garbage of social life. In this case, the reason behind the involvement of children from both rich and poor families is anger or rage. The children of the rich or the middle class step on the path of crime mainly from family unrest and the children of the poor or proletariat come on this path due to anger with hunger and poverty.

In the Qur'an, Irshad has highlighted the qualities and identity of the pious: those who spend (in charity) while they are rich and those who are poor, and those who restrain their anger and are forgiving towards people. (Surah Al Imran: verse 134).

Instructing the beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) to follow the incomparable example of Allaah, Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): (Surah Ahzab: verse 21).

When we review the life style of the beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), we see that he always had a smile. His face made Mubarak smile so much that everyone would come to him and be attracted to him. Hazrat Anas Radi Allahu Ta'ala Anhu is one of the leading Companions among those who have narrated the largest number of Hadiths. He said: I have been in the service of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) for ten years, he has never uttered an oof to me (annoying, ignoring, contemptuous, angry, hateful). (Bukhari Sharif, Muslim Sharif).

The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Innaal gadaba minash shaytani wa inna shaitana khulika minannari Ñ wa innama yutfaunnaru bil ma-i fa iza gadiba ahadukum falayatawadda-shantayan agay. So if any of you is angry, let him perform ablution immediately. (Abu Dawood Sharif). It is clear from this hadith that if anger arises in someone, if he performs ablution immediately, his anger will subside.

There is a hadith narrated from the eminent Companion Hazrat Abu Jarr Ghiffari Radi Allahu Ta'ala Anhu that the beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: When one of you gets angry while standing, let him sit down. Even then, if his anger does not subside, he should lie down (Tirmidhi Sharif).

This makes it clear that when anger arises, if one changes one's position immediately, anger falls.

It is narrated in the hadith that whoever protects his tongue, Allaah will hide his faults, and whoever restrains his anger, Allaah will keep the torment away from him on the Day of Resurrection, and whoever seeks forgiveness from Allaah for his sins, Allaah will forgive his sins. Give. (Mishkat Sharif).

It is also narrated in the hadith that Hadrat Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) asked the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him): O Messenger of Allah! Is there any work that can save people from the wrath of Allah Ta'ala? The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Do not be angry. (Mishkat Sharif.)

It is narrated on the authority of Abu Hurairah that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: There is no heroism in wrestling, the real heroism is in restraint of anger. (Bukhari Sharif, Muslim Sharif).

Every human being is angry. Anger is a normal feeling. However, his expression often becomes abnormal. Many are a little angry again. But excess anger is not good at all. This creates a situation that is harmful to oneself or others. So it is important to control anger. Experts say there are many ways to reduce anger. Here are 10 ways anyone can get angry. Let's see what the experts say.

1.Try to keep the mind as calm as possible, you can count from one to ten in reverse, then the brain can be kept a little busy on the other side. It helps reduce anger.

2. Don't talk or act in anger all of a sudden, take time, if necessary, stop talking to that person for a while or divert your mind from the cause of anger.

3. When you calm down, point out the reasons for your anger to him, then the other person's head will cool down, he will understand you better.

4. Can exercise regularly. This also reduces the tendency to anger. You can take a short walk to reduce your anger.

5. When you are angry, flexibility will not work naturally in you, and so you can suddenly say something that can cause trouble to others, so it is better not to say anything when you are angry.

6.There is a solution to any problem. It can be found out by thinking a little cold head. Try that.

7.The more you calculate yourself, the more angry you will be, so if you accept the matter immediately, the problem will be reduced a lot.

8.Many people smoke to reduce their anger. He also did other intoxicants. But anger is not a good way. The mind became more scattered.

9. A little laughter can be used to reduce anger or tension, it lightens the mind.

10. The best way is to meditate regularly. It also controls anger along with other benefits to the body.

Lack of anger seems to be a sign of cowardice, but in fact excessive anger is also a sign of self-exaltation. Between these two conditions is humility. Self-control breeds humility.

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Anger can create illness.

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3 years ago

So true and mind also being sick that time.

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3 years ago

Anger must be controlled in order for better human relationships. There are different tactics in order to control salve of anger and uncontrolled physical force in that moment. Meditation, relax music, doing mind games, and other such fitness will reduce levels of stress and anger triggers.

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3 years ago

Great advice. However, many people who are angry think that if he does not control or express his anger, he will lose. The result is a devastating outburst of anger. But we must also remember that anger destroys everything.

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3 years ago

Anger definitely destroys everything, and must be in that condition to someone can prevent violence.

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