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Should I be careful about making FRIENDS?
***"Sometimes maybe you saw a group of friends having fun,thinking how they enjoy their friendship,and you would like to find that kind of friends too*****."** We all need **FRIENDS.** People we can be with.When we want to enjoy and we can lean on, when we have a problem.We can be with in sadness and happiness, hardship and comfort. Maybe now you have found such a friend that you adores the most. You both like having conversation. You have the same principles and beliefs. And you think you are a good friends. But sometimes,the reality was you are already falling into bad deeds.Because you are influenced by them, in speech and behavior.Affecting your family and other people around you.
So how we can avoid this to happen? ***Here are some ways to find a good friend...*** **Learn the behavior, outside and inside the house.** It is good for you to know his behavior and how to approach with those around him. This will help you to know if a person has good manners. **Find out his past lives and experience.** It is good to know her/his life, so that you know how she or he grew up as a child ,how he was disciplined by parents,and changes in her behavior and interests in life. **Find out what she usually does every day.** It is good for you to know what he does everyday, his social activities.People who was usually with him,what are they doing when they were around.The places they usually go.This could help you to know on how he act on other people. ***Everything has its limits, do not let yourself be influence towards the evil deeds of becoming your friend.*** ***"Remember that bad friends, will drive you to disaster and troubles in life."*** *Read.Like.Comment.* *Subscribe@Pluma*
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I have a lot of awful and terrible friends, and also have some good friend too
Yes, people are different in some many ways
Thanks for this, having or making friends is not a bad Idea But we should be careful of the kind of friends we move with, some are good to us positively while some are of the other side. If we notice any rascal movement with our friends, is better we let them go because bad company corrupts good manners.
Well said my friend,
We are all social beings, and as such we cannot live without friends. Having real friends is the greatest wealth in life. As some research says, true friendships are most often acquired by the end of school. Later, as we grow up, it becomes more and more difficult for someone to become our true friend, and as we grow up, we become less tolerant of some things in other people.
Yeah,real life after school and real people
just right that
Wrote a beautiful article that is very useful and valuable for real life. In fact, people need the love and affection of the family to continue. But when you leave the house, the person you belong to is your friend. A friend is very important for a person. Because what you can't share with your family can be shared with a friend. Then you feel refreshed. Depression goes away. But of course he needs good friends and honest friends. Because a bad friend will never give good advice, will never support anything good, will always try to find his interests, will always try to give bad advice even without good advice and will try to engage in bad deeds. So we should carefully select close before making friends. It is recommended to have the qualities of a friend for friend.
A good thoughts of comparison, thanks for this valuable comment
Thank you so much dear for upvote my comment.😍😊
I have few friends that I can count on. So maybe that's enough. Atleast we really know each other well, we're all friends through ups and downs and nothing can stop us to see each even this pandemic😂. Well they're all my precious friends, I'll do what it takes to help them. I hope their readings this too. They're all soft hearted and kind people.😆
Youre so lucky having that kind of friends,
Yes absolutely true my friend.
The roots of friendship run deep. And that's really fascinating seeing their bonds. Some of us are closer than our friends rather than our family. Some of us feels more open and free whenever they are with their friends. They can be who they are. So it's like having a relationship but with different bond. But it can be of different cases. One of it is the toxic relationship. You just think what would you gain from your friend/s. You just go with them but deep inside you're already fed off. Here comes the entry of our other friends- our best friends since birth - our family and God. Talk to them and everything will go accordingly. And soon enough, you will find your true friendship.
Right, having a freedom when you are being with them
just choose to be your friend. the one you know will not be taken in the wrong path.
Youre right, the path with danger.
Yes dear. Sometimes we have to be careful when we choose who our friends are. There are some friends showing good affection to us and some are not. Some are showing good but uttering bad story about us on others. They will just going to backstab us. When days are dark friends are few. Choose those friends that are really with you no matter what the situation is.
It's good to have friends and also it is good if we know their backgrounds as all..it's is a matter of balancing whether you want to influence or be influenced. If you sense that a friend you like have some minor behavior issues you can simply adjust and take time to change his/her bad attitude into good one, advise that it is a bad behavior. because if they truly are a friend of yours and they value you as one then what they will take your advise to heart. because what you suggest might be a reason that you could be the closest friend forever
right, it was upon the person on how to handle the situation and not being influenced to bad doings
it will also goes with the saying "Tell me who your friends are and I tell you who you are"
right.Thats a good saying ,
as we have friend we also accept who they are including their deifferences but it is up to us if we blend on the same characteristics like them or we influenced them with what we thought is right and pleasing for everyone
Youre right, we get the good and remove the bad deeds and persons
ahuh..in order for us to be happy
A friend in need is a friend indeed. We should be careful of choosing our friends. We should be around people who are doing good things and working hard towards their goals.
So true, having friends with good perpective in life and having hardwork to gain success.
Having good friends who love and support you for who you are is really important..and it doesn't matter if they are just one or two as long they are true to you and they are taking you to good things. _Goodmorning_◇pluma ❤
Yeah few but like gold to be treasured, have a great day
Always remember that no one has the right to be your friend.
Do you think so,I will remember that.
Friends are everywhere. But true friends are rare. True friends that always be there thru good times and bad times. A friend you can lean on. A friend will help you to find the right path. And will not harm you. So we better careful in choosing our friends.
I agree that finding real friends are difficult.We cannot just choose anyone.We should always consider the positive attitudes they posses as well as the family where they belong.We should also know if they will be good or bad influence to us.If they will become bad influence,we better stop the friendship because it will just ruin or it may lead you to the wrong way.In finding Friends ,we should not just look for our similarities that we have but also the characteristics that will help us to become a better individual.Always remember that finding the real one is not easy so we must be a keen observer.Thank you for sharing this article.Through this we are able to express our ideas regarding making friends.😍
finding true or should I say a best friend with good behaviour is a difficult one and if you find a bad one ,that will affect your personality, that is why there is a saying"show me your friend and I will show you who you are" but finding a good friend depends on if you are also good because you can't be bad and expect well behaved people to hang out with you