Before you say I do.

Single ready for marry please listen to me very careful.

It is always important and essential to know how prepared you are before starting a relationship nor be in a relationship with someone. Your preparetion will prevent you from failing, when you eventually start the journey of relationship or marriage. I understand that you have been single for a very long time and be curving to have a partner too, but you still need to prepare yourself before you say I do. Relationship isn't players or unserious people, it is meant for those who are mature and ready to go. It is also meant for those who are ready to always put their partners into consideration and not meant for cheaters and selfish people. Before saying I do or start any relationship at all, there are some questions u need to ask yourself to know if you are ready or not. Ask yourself "AM I READY FOR ANY RELATIONSHIP"

Many people (singles) have made wrong decision by starting a relationship that are not ready for, and that is why you see most people having like 5_6 ex's. Why? Because they just start the journey of relationship without asking themselves, if they are ready or not. These are the reasons why you see some people having heartbreaks 💔. If you are still confused 🤔 and have no answer to your questions, then don't put yourself into trouble by starting any relationship, because it's obvious that you are not ready yet.

THESE ARE THE QUESTIONS WE NEED TO ASK BEFORE STARTING ANY RELATIONSHIP.

READINESS

Before you even think of starting a relationship, if you are ready to give all your best to that relationship. Are you ready to intercede in terms of praying and fasting when tribulations comes?. Because everything is not lovely and dovey ooooooo! Ecclesiastes 4:10 it says, for if they fall one will lift up his fellow,but wow to him that is alone when he falls, for he has no one to help him. Are u ready to introduce him/her to those that are important to you.

EX'S

Ask yourself if you are truly over with your ex's before thinking 🤔 of starting a new relationship. Some relationship break 💔 because of issues of ex's boyfriend and girlfriend, while some will claim that they are done with their ex's and still call and chat them up, as if they are still together...... Am not saying that you should create an enimty with them , but please minimize how you relate with them, u need to create some distance from them so that you will not regret it later by been heartbroken again. If you are done with any relationship let you past be your past and let bygone be bygone, you must let go so that your relationship won't have any problem. 2 corinthians 5:17 " therefore if any man is in christ, he is a new creature; and old things has passed away; behold all things become new.

RELATIONSHIP

Ask yourself the kind of relationship you want to have next. Is it the one full of immorality or the one that glorify God? Is it the one that will make you maintain sexual purity or the one that will make you regret. So ask yourself this question before you can even consider whether you are interested in the relationship or not. Think twice before you make any decision in relationship nor marriage, to avoid heartbreak 💔.

INTEREST

Ask yourself if you have interest with the person you are having eye 👁️👁️ on. Ask yourself if both of you have any feelings for each other. U need to ask yourself if you also feel something in return for him/her or you just want to consider him/her because both of you have been friends for a long time, and they have been distributing for for relationship. At times some did not know what they want in relationship, and that is why they end up in an abusive relationship. You must know what you want and desires in any relationship that you keep, ask yourself how do you feel when ever your partner is around you, happy 😊 or sad 😢? Do u feel relaxed and secured? Can you also list out the things you don't like about him/her, because it will help you to make your own choice to avoid some mistakes.

PURPOSE ALIGNMENT

After concluding that you are ready, check the place of your purpose with that person you want to consider for a relationship with, you need to discover his/her purpose or still living a purposeless life. They they have discovered their purpose, which means that both of them are in the same journey of life and love 💕. Because you can't be traveling to abuja and enter lagos bus 🚌 it is impossible. You need to be careful if your partner is in the same journey with you, and also you need to check your purpose alignment so that you won't come to to this earth 🌎 unfulfilled.

SELF SYSTEM

Most single have fallen prey to this when it comes to relationship. You don't start a relationship with someone who's believe is different from you own, because it will be so difficult to achieve anything in that particular relationship. Because you as a believer is not is not expected to consider an unbeliever for a relationship nor marriage at all..... What do you expect in such a relationship, or do you think 🤔 that he/her will be on the same page with you, that is nonsense if you think anything like that because you are not going to benefit anything from it, at times most of them will drain you both spiritually and physically and left you with nothing.

So my beloved friends we need to be more careful and wise while taking or making any decisions in life, especially in terms of marriage, relationship to avoid heartbreak 💔💔💔💔💔💔.

Thank you all and may the God almighty bless you all, I love 💕 u all.🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰