Silence Is Golden

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Hi friends.

We can be friends for many reasons but we can continue to be friends when you are not playing the roles of an observer. While taking cognizance of everything and the individual around you, talking only when it matters, tends to earn you respect. When an individual gets to a place, as a novice, he/she would have to watch the environment to see what entails there. Jumping into the gun without finding a pedestal to lay on could be dangerous.

When a fowl arrives newly, it stands with one leg.

Silence is a great virtue. Yes, it is. When you keep quiet, it doesn't mean you are a fool. It doesn't.

Silence Breeds Patience

When an individual keeps silent, it helps them to be patient, waiting for the appropriate time to launch a sensible contribution to an agenda. It is worthy of vouch when we keep silent and watch events unfold while keeping a close tab to know how to gain the opportunities that lie in it.

During arguments, a lot of people do not get patient. They want to pour out their heart, to be heard, and make themselves relevant. You don't have to win all arguments. You also do not need to join in on any appearance of argument.

Silence Breeds Calmness

Calm people do not like noisy environments. They want to be able to think, reflect and measure their height in terms of progress. Most calm people are often wise. They do not take hasty decisions because it is in their nature to take one step before another.

Just like a writer, an artist, or a mathematician, silence helps them to be productive. Unfortunately, we live in a world where noise and lousiness have taken over space and there is no more piece for someone to reason except you create one by imagining it.

Silence is golden.

What you say now will be used against you at the law court.

However, while we keep silent or get to say our opinion, it is paramount ro be reasonable. The law does inflict injuries on people who use words without wisdom.

Silence Leads To Awareness

While we keep silent and watch, we tend to grasp the information that could lead to breaking through in aspects we least expected.

It is no more news that when an individual is needed to take up a managerial, a top-level managerial position, mostly only people who can keep their mouths are usually appointed. This is so because of the high secrecy that exists among officers of that cadre.

Individuals who talk too frequently tend to lose their respect very easily. We should keep our words in our mind, process it before we say it. The mind is like the central processing, where our words should be weighed before the mouth utters it.

A blind king needed his eyes back, he wants to see how his beautiful daughter would be handed in marriage to the man of her dreams. As predicted by one of the palace soothsayers, he would be as to see again. But the medicine to cure his kindness is in a cave infested by three old hags.

The King vouched to divide his property into two equal parts and give one to the man who will invade the cave and bring back the medicine for his sight.

As the hunt began, some very worthy men thought they would get it by their might through fighting the hags. They failed because the hags were too powerful to be defeated.

A farmer, whose land and children had been taken away by the market chief for inability to repay his debt decide to make a try. Everyone knew that before he ventured in the mission, it is an already failed attempt. Being a silent man, one who rarely talks but would be listening to even children. He started the journey and arrived at the cave. As he tiptoed to the base of the cave, he heard the three hags discussing the unsafe future of their only eyes, the poor farmer stood still and waited for the hags to go hide the goblet.

While they were done hiding it, the poor farmer walk easily to where ot was hidden, picked it up silently and returned to the village.

He was rewarded as promised by the king and that changed his entire identity. That's the reward for silence.

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This post says so much about me. Sometimes I feel like I'm too silent. But going through this Post makes me feel I'm on the right path😊 And you just had to end this with an awesome story that proves it all

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3 years ago

Keep being silent reasonably, only to speak when the right times comes. You know, silent is a powerful tool. You don't have to buttress all your words on one matter. Speak like your dropping a bombshell.

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3 years ago

I truly agree with the things that you have said about silence. Indeed, it has a lot of advantages. Knowing when to be silent and speak up is power. And I love what you have said about we don't need to always win every argument.

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3 years ago

There is always a time, a right time to speak. A wise man would speak after a long silence and that one time earns him respect and solve the matter at hand having listened to every other person while being silent.

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3 years ago

This is so true. Not all who are silent are fools. They are way more clever than those who talk a lot. You will never know what they could say or do. That is why I don't understand sometimes why people judge silent people as weak individuals even they're not.

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3 years ago

Silent people aren't weak, they only just converse the strength in their words to a more profits me time. Thanks for your wonderful contributions.

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3 years ago

Silence is powerful and a lot of people don't see it as a necessity because they believe that when you are silent, such a person is a fool.

I have understood it to be the best way you can learn a lot when amid people during a discussion, not everyone silent during a discussion doesn't have something to contribute, some are learning and picking necessary points.

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3 years ago

Wow. That's powerful. Some people do have enough evidence or fact about a discussion but would just keep it while picking more wisdom from what others would relate.

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3 years ago

Silence is a virtue that everyone should possess, an adage goes thus: "An empty container make the loudest noise"

Being silent does mean one should not talk when needed but it will help you to think in other for you to make a reasonable information.

What will one Gain form talking and talking, you'll talk till you'll voice out what you're not supposed to say and what we say is contagious, before you know it will cover a whole lot of places and you won't be able to reverse what you'll say already.

That's why we must be careful before we talk, if at all we want to talk, we should not hesitate to purse for 5 secs before talking, and if we don't have any relevant thing to say , silent should be the next option.

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3 years ago

Rightly said. He who keeps his mouth keeps his trouble away.

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3 years ago

People tend to criminalise me for being the silent type. I guess they don't just understand it

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3 years ago

Just be who you are and keep winning through the power of silence. Everyone does not need to understand, a wise man will know better.

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