Empty Promises

I still wonder how I could be related to someone so wealthy, who it wouldn't be too much for him or her to spare a few cash to help me or the family, but over the years still nothing substantial has been done, they are quick to sending you cash when its needed urgently for food or any other quick needs, but not one that you could use to Start a future for yourself. Sometimes you might go over thinking once you've seen him or her that compassion would run deep in them and make them moved towards helping you, but then when you get there they have their own set of stories laid down that once you hear it you'll have no choice but to have a little patience, the patience isn't the issues, the issue is that few days to after you've gone you will hear of another amazing thing they have spent on. You can only feel denied but truthfully it isn't your money.

Well, the bitter truth remains that no one owes you anything, you can't feel entitled to anything that isn't yours, what you can fully argue for is that thing you undoubtedly work for, being related by blood isn't a yardstick that their money is yours, though family should be the best place to seek financial assistance, because they should priorities you before any outsider, but the cases of today seems vice versa, but what do you do, do you go about hating people on how they spent their money, hating cause you weren't given as much as you needed, well you shouldn't and just strive to own your own.

Not only to rich family members, although its kind of painful, especially when your parents did a lot for them while they were capable, and now that its only right to reciprocate, they decided not to play back, well yet we move, what can we do, go steal it, burn down the houses, rain curses on them from morning till night? All these doesn't solve it a bit because that's not what you want and they would bounce back leaving you to deal with your conscience or penalized if caught, so just chill and move. No one truly owes you anything.

The fact that today we can see many irresponsible parents abandoning their kids to survive on their own should make us know that while we all felt entitled to a good life from our parents, it was more of a show of love from them to us rather than a must do, they could have easily aborted or abandon and yet be doing just fine afterwards, so in every sense they worth our thank you rather than those straining demands.

Has anyone promised to love you regardless, hey baby I'll spend the rest of my life with you, no one can stop us, its me and you against the world, and yet a little while form thence its a heart break, and you feel like your trust is yet broken, another failed promise. As much as you care for yourself and want good things for yourself, are you aware that everyone else's want good things for their selves also. I'm not a fan for divorce because its expected that one uses the time of friendship and dating and courtship to fully determine if you really want to spend your life with another, cause that moment of getting married or even adding kids to the equation, my dear its for better or worst it's already a sworn oath, a sworn oath before the biggest and greatest authority that is God himself, so both of y'all better sit down and find a way around it and stop breaking out of marriages like you're in a high school relationship.

Now that I've established my stand against divorce (just my opinion though), let's return to the failed promises of dating and those young lovebirds heart break, so when you're dating and you suddenly ain't feeling it anymore or you see yourself falling strongly for another and these said emotions are negatively affecting the existing one, do you stay and make your partner suffer your lack of attention or even anger from the irregular annoyance you've start feeling, no if you love him or her you just have to release them in love and make them find peace in a better soul ready to give it and you find yours too, this life isn't so hard, we often make easy things look hard, happiness is key to everyone. So treat your heart break such a way and if you aren't ready to let go because you still love the person then keep chasing after the person, because that's where your happiness is at the time, maybe they would return. Rather than feeling entitled to anyone's love or care, do take it as a show of kindness on their part, don't expect so much from anyone, push for yours.

Every minutes of each passing day is filled with friends betraying one another, its full of partners splitting, you see families turning away from one another, even the sworn promises still unfulfilled, and this shouldn't hurt as much as they do, and we don't necessarily need to take those actions we have taken, in this cases its hard to relax but its best to relax. And the main reason for the hurting can be traced to our sense of entitlement, but sooner or later in life, everyone would learn that no one truly owes you a dime and you should have appreciated each show of love you have been experiencing from family, friends and loved ones rather than feeling its normal. Push for your better life and get to that position so you can teach the world how to be successful and helpful at the same time. Well let me just say this for record purposes - Stop breaking promises, it hurts bad. Okay I've said it, but you know that's not really possible right. If your happiness might make another sad, what do you do?

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