Do These Things Because Life is Short
I just realized that life is too short to hold on those things that had passed by. What has done, is already done. Yesterday will always be yesterday. Either it's happy or sad. What matters the most is NOW.
There are things in life that we had taken so much for granted and we never knew that one day, it will brought so much value more than we ever expect it would be. Every passing hours will become a moment one day. Not everyone will realize it not until the time has come that they had realize the time passed them by.
We should learn to appreciate every single thing we have right now because we will never know until when will these things would lasts.
**Value Every Places You Visit**
For every places you had visit, take time to take valuable pictures and create beautiful memories that would lasts in your memory and heart. Live and savor the moment. Leave some beautiful footprints. They say, you never live not until you travel the world and that explains everything. Being into different places gives you the feeling of life existence and appreciation of how huge the world we are living in.
**Value Every People Who Truly Loves You**
Value those people who truly loves you and sincere with you. They are rare. Life is too short and you will not know, you will never find people like them. Not everyone will find someone like them. Appreciate and thank them for being part of your life.
**Learn To Forgive The People Who Have Hurt You**
Sometimes in life, there are people that would really hurt us. Sometimes it takes time to erase the pain they had given to us, it's okay to feel the pain but it is not okay to live with it all your life. We should learn to forgive, for only in forgiveness we will give our heart a freedom and peace. A heart with anger and unforgiveness is so short-lived, it makes our life full of burden and pain but once you learned to forgive, even the person is not worth forgiving you had really given your heart a wings and oxygen to breathe peacefully and had thrown the stones that is putting weigh inside.
**Focus On Creating Memories and Less On Money**
We know a lot of people are working so hard to build their dreams and buy the things they want to achieve. It is not bad to work hard for money to buy what you want but if you had put your life so much to it and you neglect to create memories to the people around you, then you are missing a lot of things in life. You will realized in the end that you had lose so much time to experience the things that you ought to feel. People who created so much memories are the happiest people in the world.
**Do Not Think Too Much About What The People Are Saying About You**
Some people will always have something bad to tell about you, even you had done the good thing. But the good news is, you don't have to put your life thinking about it. It's not like their opinions and judgments would matter years from now. Just think about it being part of life and it will only passed by.
You are the one who can make your life meaningful. You are the one who is building the memories and you have to cherish it. Live the present and savor every living moments in life. Take photos of important events and put footprints that will make you smile years from now. You are the storyteller of your own journey. If you want to learn new things, then go learn it. If you want to build your passions then go build it. No one is stopping you by, it's your own life and live it to the fullest. You don't have to compete and pressure yourself towards life standards, be your own beautiful. Believe in every little things you can do and live your life as if it was your last moment.
Do Not Risk Your Sleep
We all know how much important a sleep in our life is. But do you focus and pay attention on how much time you sleep and the time routine for your sleeping?
Not everyone care whether they have sleep or not but it's very alarming if you keep doing it all the time. When it comes to sleep, everyone doesn't listen and think about its importance. It doesn't mean that you feel like you are strong for not getting enough sleep means it is good for you. The side effects and future results are waiting on the future. It can affect your well being. If eating and exercising is important, so as the sleep.
**Productivity**
If you keep on messing on your sleep schedule, you can not build a productive day. You cannot force your body to become productive the way you want it. Human body is not a machine, it needs rest. Sleep has a great link to your brain. If you are telling that you are an adult and sleeping early is too childish or it's only for children then you are very wrong. If you don't sleep on proper time or you don't have enough hours to sleep, it will bring chaos into your body, mental and overall.
**Immune System**
Like I have said, our body is not a machine where you can just repair and bring it back to the normal. It has cells that helps you protected from all kind of diseases, so what if these cells are not being taken care of? Then you are most likely to get flus and sickness easily. This will lessen your ability to become productive and your time to finish a deadline if ever you have a lot of things to pass. Instead of cramming too much on submissions, take a proper sleep first and do not risk your immune system.
**Stress Levels**
By not sleeping properly, you are increasing your stress levels. Not only physically but mentally as well. When you don't sleep properly, your body will then give you stress hormones as a result. Sometimes it can even keep you awake because of the cortisol hormones released.
It's understandable that not all the time we can have the proper sleeping time espescially when we are busy in our work, school, family and other factors that can influence your sleep. Almost everyone chose to sacrifice and exchange their sleep just to cope on the deadlines. But not sleeping enough can make your body restless and tired. Sleep is like the battery of our life, we need it or recharge for another day. Sleep affects not only your body but also your mental including your spiritual being.
If you keep tolerating yourself to sleep late then you are making yourself susceptible to getting obesity. You eat too much and sleep late then you are most likely to become obese. You are weakening your heart, making it hard to deliver the blood that it needs to distribute throughout the whole body. You are destroying and changing your hormones. You are affecting your mental thinking and the ability to decide in life. You are making yourself susceptible to sleep paralysis, wherein your mind is awake already but your body is still asleep. You are making your bones weak and it can even affect your skin which will make you age earlier.
My purpose of this article is to remind everyone to the importance of proper sleeping because some people find it cool and strong to sleep late but not me. Sleep is one of biggest blocks in our life that we need to fulfill. This is where we get the strength, the energy and the courage including motivation to go in with our daily life. Imagine having enough sleep and waking up with a smile because your body is well recharge and you can't wait to start another day.
Is It Reality Or Illusion?
How do you separate reality from illusion and illusion from reality?
***Albert Einstein once said that reality is merely an illusion.*** Wherein he believes that we will only die alone and the lifespan we created is only an illusion. The reality that we are feeling right now is only because of our senses. And that is how our imagination puts life to our senses.
We humans sometimes create our own illusions and exert some effort to make it true, perhaps make it into a reality. They said reality is seeing what you already have right now and not changing a thing about it while illusion is a matter of dissatisfaction and changing the whole situation according on how you want to see it. Until you gain approval, a feeling of endless satisfaction and bliss.
Have you once think that maybe what you are doing is only an illusion? That it doesn't make sense in the end? That it was only created by your playful mind or mind of others?
Some people even think whether **existence** is an **illusion or reality**. We can say it is reality because we are breathing and alive but it only become illusion once you start thinking that your existence has a meaningful meaning behind it or that you were born for a purpose.
Reality can be easily defined according to our five senses, what we see, what we touch, what we taste, what we hear and what we can smell. If something pass all the requirements from our five senses then it can be determine as a reality.
*How about you? Are you stucked in an illusion life? Our thoughts can create an illusion and it could be the world you created for yourself or the world you created to either build you up or break you down.*
They say reality can be created. The question is how it can be a reality when it was a product of your imagination which is from your illusion? Not because we see it doesn't mean it's the reality. It's really hard to tell the border between your illusion and your reality.
Reality is an illusion. If our reality is an illusion, then why do we have to work so hard to achieve something in life? They say, we perceived our life based on how we want it and that sums up the idea of reality being an illusion only.
Let me start with sharing my own illusion. I always wanted and imagined to become a famous and rich person where I will be in the Forbes magazine. I'll built my different mansion in different countries and the world will gonna be amaze with me. I can even go into another Galaxy of the world and be the one to tell the world what can be found there. I am the one who can go to another dimension and tell people that all the magical and supernatural are happening there. Although they seems so unreal but they are my illusion. They satisfy me and I create them because I want to think of them.
Now, let's go to reality. I know one day we will die and we are all passing by. Death is real and death is part our existence in this world. A knife can make you bleed. We need oxygen to breathe. We need to eat food to support our body. We won't be born naturally and physically if we don't pass from our mother's womb. We need our eyes to see our surroundings physically. These are one of the reality and it depends on you whether you will accept it as a reality in life.
Sometimes it's better to create **illusions** out of your **imagination** when you want your life to become something different. You are the one who create it and you are also the one who can removed it. **Reality** is based on what is **happening** in from of us and what we are **seeing** naturally. It's hard to tell whether what you are experiencing is an illusion or a reality. Some people like to call their **illusion as a reality** because it is the only thing that makes them happy this they are stucked with their illusions. Some people chose to call **reality as an illusion** when they don't want to accept that something is being called as a reality.
The Dark Side of Social Media
How often do you open and check your social media? Does it take a big toll in your daily life?
I bet no one can live without checking their social media at least for once, to see their friends and family updates. To become connected globally and across the world. To communicate and share some life updates with everyone. But sometimes too much of social media is harming your health. When you felt uncomfortable from what you have read or from what you have seen, it can affect your thoughts. Bullying and judgment starts in the social media. Anyone can harm the person they want to because it is so easy to hide and fight through the space between your keyboards and through the virtual screen online.
Social media has brought a lot of envy to everyone. Some flexing their good life and how stable they are in their current situation. The clothes they have brought online, the cars they have learned to drive, the mansions they have started to build, how happy they are with their relationship. Sometimes all these factors are bringing some envy and insecurities to people who often checked social media a lot in a day or someone who spends the day scrolling in social media.
**Social media gives you depression**
If you spend your whole day scrolling in social media, you are most likely to get depressed. People who prefer spending time outdoors are happier than people who spend more than a day in their social media. Your mental health isn't much likely to be healthier espescially when you get used of seeing toxic post from different platforms in social media and sometimes they can shape the way you think.
You wanna know why it happens? I have stated in the first paragraph of my article that it can give you envy whether you deny it or not. Sometimes comparing yourself happens once you start opening your social media and it could be because they have more than likes and appreciation rather than yours and you feel like you are less of a person compared to them.
**Bullying happens in social media**
Have you heard of **keyboard warriors**? These people tend to attack random people in social media because they are confident that they won't be hurt and they are feel free to say whatever they want to say.
Sometimes they create fake photos and account just to fool someone and it could be by asking money or giving some horrible threats to someone. Sometimes a lot of people pretend to be someone and used it as a way to ruin someone's profile or spread hoax.
**Social media is full of fake news**
Whether you agree or not, social media is surrounded with a lot of fake news. If you don't read and check well, the chances is you are one of the people that are fooled by many. In social media, it is so easy to spread fake news just by creating a post despite no evidence and someone or everyone might start believing then.
Sometimes it's the **influential** or **famous** people are the one responsible for spreading fake news, just because they are known by many doesn't mean everything they are sharing or saying is absolutely **true**.
**Social media portrays false images and realization**
Have you seen a lot of skinny and fit girls in social media? Huge and perky boobs taking the toll of your newsfeed? Sometimes people used this images just to body shame someone for not having the same figure. You don't really have to look like them, it doesn't mean the society adores those figures then you also have to do your best just to look like them. It will only create a borderless of **insecurity**.
**Those are only false images and realization. Being fat is okay, as long as you are not hurting anybody then there's nothing you have to change but to love yourself for who you are. Having acne is pretty, you don't have to be clear skin just to gain people approval and remember that life is short. Having a belly fat is not bad, you are a real human and not a Barbie doll expected to have plain tummy all the time. Having underarm hairs is not dirty, humans are hairy being and there's nothing wrong with having it, it's not like you are the only one having it.**
Social Media is a great instrument to get closer to your love ones but as the time passes by, it turns into something dark. Something you cannot explain and it feels like it has lose its own purpose, to communicate and spread love to the important people in your life.
Perks of Watching Horror Movies
Are you a fan of Horror Movies? When is the last time you have watched tons of scary and terrifying movies?
Some people find it enjoyable to watch horror movies espescially when they are with friends, families or group of people. At least, you are not the only one who will get terrified and shocked. However, not everyone loves to watch horror movies when they're alone espescially when it's in the dark.
How many Horror movies can you renamed and mentioned? Perhaps you know someone who loves horror as much as anyone else or more than anyone else wants to?
To tell you, there are a lot of Horror movie genre that might suit to your or might you don't want to give a try. One of the famous genres are **Psychological horror**, **Sci-fic horror**, **Gothic Horror**, **Supernatural horror**, **Zombie apocalypse horror** or even **Love and Horror movie**. You chose what's best for you and your family or friends.
Horror movies is not all about scaring and giving you fears when you try to go in a bathroom or when you're about to sleep. In fact, there are benefits from watching them but if horror movies are not really your type espescially when you're alone and you're having a binge watching then it's okay if you ignore this perks.
**First, Horror movies can improve your mental ability.**
We heard a tons of brain activity that can sharpen your mind. What if horror movies are the key? Some experts found that watching horror movies can actually increase your level of Adrenaline and it release neurotransmitters signal to your brain. It can also improve your logical thinking, your mind become activated once intense scene starts to happen. Your brain start thinking for possible solutions and clues.
**Second, Horror movies can remove anxiety and keep stress away.**
Nothing is more fun than watching horror movies with friends and families while seeing their reactions and scary faces. Screaming and cuddling together as intense sense starts to happen. Well this is a great bonding to the important people in your life but not when you are alone in the corner, watching horror movie and imagining someone else was there. Well, that's sounds scary at all.
**Third, Horror movies can give you ideas on how to survive in different possible scenarios.**
It's true. Horror movies can give you hacks and tricks about adapting in different cases and scenarios say for example being lost in the wilderness or being trapped somewhere.
**Fourth, Horror movies can activate your problem-solving skills in life.**
Horror movie is not about scaring and putting fear in our hearts but it can also teach us how to deal and face our real fears in life. It activated our mind response in different tough situations and how to find better ways to deal and solve it.
**But just what I have mentioned since the start of my article, horror movies is not for everyone especially when it is disturbing. So you really have to consider to check the content and the background of the movie. It can lead into insomnia and your brain and mind cannot stop thinking about it then the movie might give you intense feeling which is normal but it should not disturb your mental thinking. It's best to watch in the morning so that your mind can still distracted from different things. Maybe you don't like gore scenes where there are people getting butchered and killed then you have to look for something else, maybe you would like to watch something about ghost who has left unfinished business in the world.**
It's normal to feel intense fear while watching a horror movie, hearts racing, feeling your muscles tightens, hands and feet coldness and all the goosebumps. Just make sure you are spending quality time with your family at least this ain't a total scary after all. It's a one great way to spend time with your love ones without getting bored at the screen. Take your time and chose what's the best horror movie that you and your family or friends would like to watch together and don't forget to bring some popcorns to make it more fun and enjoyable.
Does Our Dreams Put Meaning Into Our Real Life?
Ever since we were born, we have plenty of dreams that we cannot remember anymore. Some are weird, some are funny, some are sad, some are such a nightmare to believe and so it goes on.
We remember little information from our dreams when we wake up and as days passes by you won't be remembering them anymore. The truth is, it is hard to recall what we dreamed last night, it is like a virtual scene you are trying to revive.
Some people used their dreams as **signs and symbol** in life. Dream is like the one that tells them what might happen or what might be the best decision they can invest in their life. Even me, I want to know what my dreams really mean or why do I even dream this kind of dream when I haven't think about it. Scientist cannot even give meaning to what our dream means so it remain as a mystery. They might happen and they might not. Some are too scary to happen in life while some are too good be true.
Our dreams comes from our ***thoughts***. Maybe you have been thinking about eating an apple then you have dream of it. Sometimes it can make us very emotional. Just like me, when I sleep too much my dreams started to become emotional and I was like maybe I am full of drama in life. I dreamed about being drowned in the water and I interpret it by myself that maybe I am very anxious all the time.
***Dreams are weird I can say. I was riding in car then it fell down to the bridge and what I did is I ride an elevator under the bridge with a secret tunnel password and when I exit, I found people hiding. Too really weird and I kind feel of that I am in a movie where the scene and the things are fantastic and unbelievable.***
***I also have a dream of flooding and landslide, it kind of scare me. The dream scare me a little because the dream is so specific. It shows landslides and flooding. Our house was being swept away by landslide and we are force to evacuate. When we get out already, a lot of people are hiding in a big building. And there a villain, speaking in the microphone about how she will rule every one of us. At that point, my dream plot changes. Yes, that's why I can say dreams are weird because anytime the plot changes.***
***Another strange dream of mine, an army tried to invade our community. That time, we were in elementary school and everyone hides under the table. There was a big event and everyone was scare of arm mens showing full forces. After a while, they had released us. So at least this dream looks a little realistic and yet my heart is beating fast because of this. I don't want this to happen. May it remain only a nightmare that won't happen.***
Honestly, I have a lot of very beautiful dream plot in my mind but sad to say I cannot put them into my dreams. Because if only I can put all my dreams into sleep then maybe I will be dreaming in my whole life. That at least you can just dream asleep about your wishes and the things you wanted to happen. At least you can just dream about a better life.
All I know is that our dream comes from our **subconscious** and they can be created based on our thoughts and how we are feeling. Sometimes they are the buildup of our anxiety, fear, depression and other emotions that can trigger us to dream about something. Some psychic put meaning to our dreams and each of the things we can see in our dreams has **symbolic meaning** either in life or in your decisions. As for me, I'm not fully satisfied based on their dream interpretation because there's no enough proof for this but I cannot judge spiritual people from the world of scientific people. Eacg has their own beliefs so they have the right to believe what they ought to believe.
How about you? How much do you remember most of your dreams? Are some of them memorable? Does they depict meaning towards your whole life? Did some of them come actually happen in life?
Things I Do To Keep My Anxiety Away
I just want to share one of the things that I do whenever I am feeling anxious, espescially when I am piled up with lots of things to do. Like often, I *procrastinate*. I do really hate that word ever since I discovered it but glad that I'm not the only one and it seems that everyone is trying to beat it.
You know the feeling you wanted to be productive but procrastination was there to stop you from all your goals and motivation. Such a killer of productivity.
I have discovered that when I woke up without having schedules about what to do makes me just left hanging all day. I will always be like what should I do now until the day was over and there the anxiety comes. I am getting anxious about meeting schedules and often blame myself for being too confident enough of not caring about the time.
So here are the few things that I do whenever I am feeling discouraged because of my anxiety.
**I Listened to My Favorite Songs.**
I read a lot about how healing music is. So before I start doing something a day, I first listened to my favorite songs. I find it very helpful in being productive because you are left with a good mindset, perspectives and goals. I realized that when you start a day with a heavy thought and mind you will end up building a lot of anxieties. So all in all, I find music healing and beneficial. You can organized your playlist from the time you wake up until the time you fell asleep. Start a good day routine by your favorite playlist!
**I Make A List of The Things I do**
I am a forgetful person. I tend to forget the things I need to do so and I will just be wasting my time in my cellphone and then I will regret later that I had wasted those few minutes and seconds of my life. A planner is really helpful so I organized them in my notes so that I will know where to start and where to finished. At least you will know that you have done the important thing in a day and you will sleep with no worries about what you missed.
**My Cats Are My Motivation**
Do you have lovely pets? Make them as your happy thoughts and motivation. I do that everyday. I hugged my cat and then I pinched its cheek. Honestly, I find my cats stress relieving to all the anxieties. Like they just dont do anything a day but just sleep and eat. Yeah a typical cat life. Sometimes my cat sits on my laps and I find it very cute. Really, it's a big joy for me already to have my cats being sweet to me.
**I Take The Time To Pray**
I am not a very religious person but doesn't mean I don't believe in God. Of course I do and I take the time to pray. They say prayers are the best healing and you just have to build patience. When you are feeling down, don't hesitate to pray and open up everything to God. I am not a very religious person but I pray.
So whatever makes you comfortable just go with it. When you don't take actions about being anxious it will only become worse so it is better to find things that will distract you from your anxiety. Something that can give you joyx, excitement and calm. Do not let yourself drained by the negativities you are feeling. May this piece of advice that I have written help you become productive throughout the day. Since we are all different in our own ways, what might be working to me won't work to you. But it doesn't matter, what matter is that you keep yourself in a proper mental balance. It is essential and important to keep going espescially when you have lot of goals, do not let anxiety ruin it for you. Just No. Stand up and build something that can distract you from that anxiety.
Thanks To Everyone Who Cheered Me Up
I just want to say thank you for the people who cheered me up. I really appreciate it and it motivate me to keep going. I just have to be optimistic about it and not to lose confidence and hope. I have to tell myself that it's not the end way yet. There are still chances and hopes.
I told myself that I have to be patient, you know you don't get everything by just simply telling you want to get it. For what reason well I don't know. As for now, I just have to set my goals in learning how to write well. At least in that way I won't be thinking that I'm wasting my time or I am undervalued. Still a big thanks for this platform to honed my skills in writing although I am not that confident enough on how I write but I will follow those people who doesn't seems to know the word "**giving up**."
Thanks for the kind words @carisdaneym You are my cuterewarder and I really appreciate it so much. Thank you for taking the time in giving me sponsorship as well as tips. Your words are heart-warming and because of that I decided to keep writing.
Thanks @Ruffa for the genuine words. Actually, you inspired me to keep going on after I have read that someone after months of not getting tips already has been getting tips now and I told to myself that maybe I need to be more patient and it will all be worth it in the end. I really really wish for that.
Also thanks to @immaryandmerry for telling me that my article doesn't suck and bad at all. You are right. The bot is unpredictable and it's hard to say what it's criteria even we have followed the things that the bot posted already. I really hope so that the time will come that the random rewarder will give me rewards.
As for now, what I am scared of is being marked as spam, so as you noticed I don't reply to comments because I have started to develop a phobia of being marked spam. Also another thing, I noticed somebody or someone is downvoting my articles which made me fret. I don't know why they are doing that. I know my articles ain't that good but at least do not downvote it because it makes me frustrated and sometimes it tells me that "***c'mon what the hell are you doing here, go stop writing you're not making sense***."
That's what I really feel about when someone downvote my articles. But as you see, I'm trying my best to not make my articles boring. I don't know if having a boring article is an enough reason to downvote someone, what if that person is trying to develop its writing skills. But if you downvote an article that is obviously "**Plagiarized**" well at least for that it makes sense to me as why you downvoted an article.
Wish we can see who are likes and dislikes our articles here at least for that they will use the purpose of those two button honestly.
Well so much for that. If you are reading my article form the top to the bottom then thanks to you. I don't know if it's fun to read tho but at least what I am proud to say is that I'm not like the other users here who obviously posted plagiarized articles. I wish the real downvoters will downvote those kind of things and not those things that people tries to develop in writing. Hope what I write makes sense. If you understand my point well thank you then but if you don't know what I am trying to say well I am sorry for not explaining well.
For now I don't know what topics I should write about but I will try to expand my mind and put efforts here because those things that are full of efforts are the ones that are paying the worth right? For now, I've been reading some articles here to know how to be noticed by the bot. But some articles seems suspicious. Even they get huge tips but still it is not enough to hide that there are articles that obviously plagiarized well I cannot judge one article only. But when I look at everything it seems like my doubts are true but well I don't know 'coz they're getting tips. So it's really a confusing platform but overall still a good platform for real writers.
Are My Articles Bad?
I don't know why I am not getting tips from the random rewarder here. I have 100% read what the rules are and what the random rewarder posted as an article. In fact, I keep reading and reading it to know why I am not getting a tip from this bot.
I honestly write articles the best I can. I am not complaining but sometimes it gives me pain and frustration when I did my best to write authentic articles and I am still not getting appreciated for the hardwork I put to it.
But they say, never give up. Maybe the bot will notice you and give you a reward for all the patience you have and the hardwork. I want to be optimistic and that is why that even I am not getting tips anymore, I still keep on writing in a hope that the random rewarder bot will notice me.
If that happen, I will be very happy. I can now join those people who has 1 BCH Goals. They said that nothing is impossible if you dream and work hard for it. And that is why I keep writing articles here, doing my passion in writing at the same point earning BCH and become a holder of it just like the others too.
But sometimes, I cannot stop questioning myself if my articles are bad. As you can see from the title, I entitled it as "**Are My Articles Bad**?", Because as I have noticed a lot of people are getting a lot of tips here and me myself was thinking what should I do to become like them.
I did my best to write articles that are not copied from Googles and put my mind and heart for it. I set aside my depression, anxiety, studies and focus myself to it. They adviced me to keep writing and writing and I do so.
You know I need to cheered myself up and I have to keep telling myself over and over again that not everything I think is correct.
Even though like that, I will still do my best to write articles and I will do my best to make them better. I am not perfect and maybe my articles suck but sometimes I wish I was appreciated. It's no doubt to me, even in real life no one appreciates me so that won't make a big difference from here. That was life and I guess that is how life defines me but it's okay, I need to keep going on. I hate being a cry-baby and not able to stand by myself when everyone does.
Sometimes I asks if what's wrong with me. When my anxiety attack happens, I felt like losing my mind. I only have myself and I have to stand. But that is the thing that I can never do because I am coward.
I'm sorry for telling out my frustrations in life but it just the way I can express them because in real life, I can not tell people around me because they don't understand. And it become worse when I have realized that my articles are not even getting tips from the bot. I am not complaining but rather I am down. I don't know but my mind is a whole messed up now but I have to remind or even slap myself all the time to never give up.
I'm sorry if my articles are not that good enough. But please I have one thing to asks from you, please don't downvote it. I am getting more depressed. It's not even getting tips and it's getting downvotes and unlike. It actually gives me anxiety because I can just ask, why it all happen. I am sure of myself that they are not plagiarized but just a thumbs like is enough. Just a little thumbs up for my article will boost me a little. I'm sorry but I guess this is the emotional article I have written here and I hate to show my weaknesses. I hope one day everything will be okay. I hope I will get a little appreciation that will cheered me up. Again, sorry if they are not making sense but look, I am trying my hardest here. I wish for my hardwork and effort to get paid off no matter how little it is.
Am I Introvert Or Extrovert?
I had this question in my mind always. In fact, everyone ask me whether I'm an introvert type or extrovert type of person. But I cannot tell. I like making friends at the same point I chose who my friends are. They might be saying that maybe I'm an ambivert, a combination of both introvert and extrovert personality.
But they would ask me, which one weighs the most in my personality. Is it the introvert vibe or the extrovert vibe. Well I cannot tell. My personality changes all the time and it can be affected by the surroundings, people, place, situations and a lot of things.
**First**, let's talk about my **introvert** **side**. I like being productive alone. I mean I like doing things by myself alone because for me, it challenge me to do my best at the same point to try what's new. I don't based my perspective on what someone tells me. That's why I keep trying and trying until I find where I am comfortable of. I am not also a fan of huge parties. I don't know but I feel like I cannot hang along with party people making fun and dancing. I well always be sitting in the corner because that's the best I can do. I know I look so weird and killjoy when doing that but what else can I do, I cannot relate and join along with party. So that sums up my thought that this strongly represents my introvert side. This is like, oh why do you have to be like that self. Go join them and make fun too. Life is short and stop being like that.
Funny as it sounds but I told myself those things but this self of mine never listens to the inner voice I am making noise of. When there is also a singing or dancing thing, I don't feel like joining and participating because I am awkward of it. I have a part of myself that wantd to but there is this kind of weird thought in my mind saying that maybe they would laugh me. But wait, don't call me paranoid for that, it's just that I'm not comfortable on my own so bare with me.
**Now**, let's talk about my **extrovert side**. I am not ashamed of making questions to strangers I don't know. Espescially if I want to clarify something then that stranger must get ready for my question. But don't worry, it's not a kind of questions that will annoy somebody. How could I give a good impression if I keep asking questions that will annoy somebody. Of course I wouldn't like that to happen. That wouldn't help me gain friends.
I am a kind of person who likes to joke. So I speak in a joke most of the time, in a way that could sounds funny. I ain't trying hard it is just that I like to make people laugh. Also, when there is misunderstandings in the class with our teacher and I am in a group where they are afraid to ask then I volunteer to do it. I mean how can we make the task of they are afraid of asking and the chances is that we will not be following the instructions. So I took the crown to ask teachers and it's not scary nor shame to do that.
*As you read, I have more of introvert traits rather than extrovert. They are putting the huge weigh and they are winning. Being an introvert is not bad at all. Sometimes you learned to keep your mouth shut and not interrupt anyone. That is simply how introvert chose to live their lives.*
I wish I can be fully an ambivert. The balance between introvert and extrovert but as for now, introvert is much greater than the extrovert side so I cannot declare myself as an ambivert. But to tell you, I'm trying my best to friendly and interactive. It's so easy to interact and talk in internet but the real challenge is how you talk and interact with the people personally. How you approached them, how you talk to them, how much vibes you can give to them and so the list goes.
Buying My Favorite Book
I just want to share the book that I have finally bought online. It was a very special book to me, I know the other people find it very corny or something cheesy but I find this book very beautiful.
It was a classical book written by the Colombian author and writer **Gabriel Garcia Marquez.** I never heard about him not until in my class, we were assigned to report about ***Latin American Literature***. In that time, I didn't know anyone's work from Latin America and we still have more weeks to prepare for our report in the class.
I browsed different writers in Latin America and the others were too difficult for me to understand and study, since they were classical books. They were with political thoughts and movement, social struggle and a lot of things that I wasn't ready to prepare yet. At first, I found a novel from Paulo Coelho titled "The Alchemist."
The problem is that I find this book to deep and difficult. I was thinking about alchemy, what this book talk about. I read about summary but it's not that easy for me to understand. Sorry, I'm not that smart enough to read this book so I don't give it a shot. What I did is that I keep on scrollinh different novels from writers in Latin America until I landed on Gabriel Garcia Marquez works.
I found Gabriel Garcia Marquez best and most awarded book selling of all time is "100 Years of Solitude" or in "100 Años de Soledad," since Gabriel was a Latin American writer and his novels were originally written in Spanish but due to high demand it was republished in English language.
So I give this story a shot. I think it was nice at all. When I look about its genre, I was confused. It was magical realism, high fantasy and epic fiction. I don't know what magical realism is and that even I searched about I still don't get it. So what I did, I read about the summary and to my surprised, it was very long and difficult for me to understand as well. It was about a family of generation whom I think has powers and nothing more I know about the book.
I think it's a no for me. To my surprised, I saw a book recommendation of Gabriel Garcia Marquez below, "Love In The Time Of Cholera," "El Amor En Los Tiempo Del Colera." It was also originally written in Spanish and was translated into English language.
I found out that the novel has a movie so I watched the Thriller in the YouTube and there, I understand the novel more. It was romantic yet patient novel.
Florentino wait for his first love Fermina Daza inside 51 years, nine months and four days.
This book teaches us that love is kind, love is patient. And because the book resonates in me, I have finally bought it and I'm so happy to own it.
This book is romantic yet it is painful at the same time. Florentino and Fermina met in their younger years and they exchanged letters daily. They fell in love and cannot live without each other but their love stopped after Fermina's father moved her into a different place far from Florentino since Fermina is from a wealthy class and Florentino is just a poor telegram boy. Fermina's father told her that in that young age, "**love is just an illusion",** In those many years that Fermina separated from Florentino a cholera pandemic spread and there, Fermina met a doctor, Dr. juvenal Urbino whom later she married until they get older but Florentino never lose hope, he wait inside 51 years, nine months and four days and when Fermina's husband died, he them again confessed his love for Fermina.
Anxiety Is A Real Experience
Today, I'll be writing about **Anxiety**. Everyone has it but not everyone are willing to open up or even talk about it.
*Anxiety is a feeling of so much fear about something or about the future, nervousness even towards the people around you. Sometimes anxiety is a constant worry about life and everything*.
I also experienced so much anxiety in life. **First**, about planning the future. I am still young but the thought about your future at this age is pretty horrible.
****Everyone are told that they must study and get a very nice degree in college so that they won't end up poor*******.*** But as to me, I don't know if college thing was meant for me. The truth is my parents cannot afford to send me to college and the thought about people thinking about "quality education will lead you into a better job and eternal good future" frightens everything inside of me.
I told myself that it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter whether they have finished studying in a privileged school that leads them into promotion but what matters is that I keep building and looking ways to become a better person. I pray to God and tell him that he will give the path and signs. I know I won't be nothing in life and they may succeed first but it does not matter whether mine is delayed, **what matters is the process behind of it.**
The **second** thing that is giving me anxiety is about being that introvert. Like, I cannot even dance and sing in front of people because I have this feeling of being scared that they would laugh at me. I don't really know why it always appear in my mind that way. Those two are just basic in life and yet I'm making them the most big deal in life.
These anxieties I am feeling were never been shared to other people. I don't share them because I don't want people to generalized me of who I am as a person. I actually like making jokes so instead, I want them to focus on this kind of personality instead. God made me introverted but I am still thankful he made a little bit funny person so at least I won't look like a strange and weird at all.
Honestly, despite me being anxious all the time I was still able to make my friends laugh. I don't know but I like making people laugh and I don't care they call me that corny because to me my jokes are funnier.
Making jokes and creating jokes are my escape from anxiety. This is true. When I started making joke of something, my anxiety slowly disappearing and that is why I prefer to make joke all the time. I don't make jokes about mocking people or making fun of someone. I think that was wrong and a way different anymore. I make joke based on experience and about things in life. Sometimes I always laugh, it was effective because it disappears my Anxiety. If you are thinking about laughing for no reason and laughing alone, well it's not what I mean.
What I mean is that I like laughing together with my friends and family whenever there is a joke. I do like jokes. I may be anxious person but at least I have a healthy connection with jokes. They are the one who made me feel better about anxiety. When there is a joke, an anxiety goes away. God is fair enough, he made me anxious but at the same point he made me funny so I think it was balmaced in my life.
If you are feeling like very anxious every minute or you cannot control it, don't forget to seek advices and help from professional. There are many types of anxiety and they can recognize and help you from this.
This is what I can adviced to the people whose anxiety is getting worse day by day. It is not a shame to admit that you are experiencing anxiety. Those people who are not aware of this or thinking you are not normal are actually the people ain't normal. Anxiety is part of life and anxiety should be treated as early so that it won't messed around your life.
You Should Start Meditating Now
**Meditation** or **meditating** is important to maintain the balance in our life. Just like exercising to the body, we also need meditation to exercise our mind as well. Meditation is not all about having empty mind during those hours, it's about learning how to breathe peacefully. In order to achieve it, you need to learn the **concentration**.
In this time, you need to **let go** of what is worrying you or **erase** the things that is giving you a lot of **stress**. It won't take you longer, meditation is only done for minutes so it won't be a burden in your jobs or busy life instead it will make things go smooth. When meditating, you have to stop your mind from thinking anything else and if you are an overthinker, well you have to encourage yourself to stop thinking about those constant things for a while. Focus on your **breathing** and listen to you heartbeat **peacefully**.
Meditation is never been a waste of time instead it keeps you away from thinking heavy. Meditation is also called as **relaxation** by the other people and it offers you a lot of healing benefits not only to your mind but also to your inner soul. ***It can lower your blood pressure***. If you are stressed and is always mad then the chances is that it can rise your blood pressure and in order to cope with it, you need to slow down and calm down. ***Meditation can lessen your anxiety.*** It is very true in any aspect of life because meditation allows you to change and let go of the the thoughts that is giving you stress. ***Meditation offers you relaxation*** that can make you feel a whole lot better about yourself and about the world around you. Most of all, meditation relieved stress. People meditate to remove the stress and you too can benefit from doing it as well.
When you are ***feeling pain*** or ***feeling tired***, meditation can help you to cope from these. Sometimes pain is felt based on how we think about it. Being mindfulness and breathing properly in a peaceful place will help relieve the burden that is giving you stress. If you ***cannot sleep properly*** and you are experiencing ***insomnia*** then meditation can help you bring back your proper sleeping pattern. Sometimes we cannot sleep properly due to our constant thought and they keep us awake all night but when you meditate, you are slowly letting go of these which is better because you have nothing too much to think about when sleeping. If you ***tend to forget*** things easily then meditation can help you achieve keen memory. Remembering important things need concentration and when meditating you also need concentration as well. If these are done properly, you can learned to managed your mind of the things you need to remember about. If you are having ***short attention span*** then meditating can help you with this. Meditating requires intense focus and once you learned to practice this, you can also learned to apply this to your short attention span.
Never forget that when you meditate, it should be in a ***peaceful and quite area.*** Meditating in a messy and noisy place won't help you.
*It could be in the beach, it could be under the tree or anywhere you prefer to that won't disturb you. First, you have to relax. If you are having a fast heart beat then take a moment to calm it down before starting to meditate. If these won't work for you, you can meditate through walking in the beach side and watching the waves of the sea or feeling the tiny particles of the sand.*
Meditation is often practiced in **Buddhism** and **Hinduism**. Meditation is to keep your mind at **peace** and achieve **inner calm** spiritually and emotionally. It helps you to control your emotions, improve concentration and most of all to remove stress. This is often called traditional but this works in so many people across the world.
Do You Know About The Benefits of Collagen?
Have you heard about collagen or do you have any little idea about it?
**Collagen** is beneficial to our joints, heart, guts, brain and most of of all to our skin. In fact, collagen is the most protein that is found in our body. This does its job by sending signal to our cells in order to heal the damages and provides function to our bones and organs.
Sadly, when we get older our collagen **decrease**. This effect can be seen as how our skin seems to show aging and the nutrients are cannot be absorb properly anymore. In order to fight this decrease, some people are taking **collagen supplements** in order to replenish the lose collagen as we get older. Not only it is found in supplements but even in skincare as well.
**Collagen For The Skin**
Collagen is proven to **hydrate** our skin. It has the ability to **minimize fine lines** in our skin and the ability to **reduce stretch marks** in our body. Studies also found that it can also promote hair growth. Collagen is found as the best natural **anti-aging**. Taking more enough collagen will keep your skin hydrated. Studies found that taking collagen makes our gut absorbs it easily and sends it through joints towards our skin.
**Collagen For The Brain**
Studies found that collagen has the ability to fight **Alzheimer's disease**. This is because of the nutrient **Amyloid-beta** that can protect our neurons from getting Alzheimer's disease. Our neurons in the brain are also rich in collagen and that is why we need more in order to keep it functioning.
**Collagen For The Heart**
Collagen is proven to lessen **cholesterol** and keeps our heart away from **heart disease**. It is because collagen can prevent the build up of plague in arteries. If the **plague** happens, our heart cannot pump blood anymore to supply our organs which can lead into heart attack and stroke.
**Collagen For The Gut**
Research found that taking collagen supplement while having **irritable bowel syndrome** can make the situation better. It is because collagen can help in repairing the damage intestinal lining.
**Collagen For Joint And Knee**
There is always a time in our life where we experienced **sudden joint pain.** It is found that collagen can provide a relief for this. It can reduced the pain and can slow down joint deterioration as we get older.
**Collagen For The Back**
I know a lot of you may be suffering from **back pain** due to your job or what causes it is. It is found that a 1,200 milligrams of collagen can help and support back pain after taking the supplement daily.
**What Are the Foods Rich In Collagen?**
*Bone broth is a rich source of collagen and it is mostly found in the chicken, beef and the broths from the bones of other animals. It can also be found in the eggs. The white of an egg are amino acids that are rich in collagen. Fresh citrus are also source of collagen. It has higher level of Vitamin C that helps in production of collagen in our body. Broccoli, who is know for a lot of its Vitamin C is another source of collagen as well. Don't also forget to eat leafy greens as they are filled with vitamin c as well that can help boost collagen in our body. Nuts on the other hand, is also rich in collagen as well as it is filled with so much protein including zinc.*
Collagen is essential for our body to supply our **body tissues structure**, **toughness**, **rigidity** and **texture**. It also make our skin elastic. When collagen decreases, our body seems to show fine lines including wrinkles. There will also be wearing of joints and experiencing joint pains. Collagen is overall beneficial to our life, not only in our skin but in our whole body as well.
How Does It Feels Like To Be Sexy?
What do you call **sexy**? How do you define the word being "**sexy**."
Social Media defines how it feels like to be **sexy** and what sexiness is. The society tell us about the meaning of being sexy. Sometimes it matters about what we wear and how people see it while we are wearing of it. They say being sexy means you are able to **aroused desire**. People say that beauty is defined by the **pleasing senses** in our sight wh up while being sexy can caused a feeling of **excitement**.
***What comes to your mind when you hear the word sexy?***
Do you think about about a very **small waist size**? **A larger hips**? **A fully perky boobs** and **huge butt**? Having a **thin body** to wear swimsuit and **revealing clothes**? These are all how being sexy was seen in the society and in the social media. When you don't have these, you are less sexy or never been sexy at all. Sometimes people are using **body-shaming** to insult someone and show that they are having a good body compared to that.
*Do you think that you need more time to spend in the gym working out and building a good body shape? Eating low amount of foods to have good shape and lose weight or to have a good belly?*
These are all what the human mind think about the ideal sexy. It requires a lot of standards to become sexy in the eyes of people. But to tell you, being sexy does not only depend on how you look in your physical appearance or in the outside.
**How to become sexy?**
Be **confident**. That's the main key to see yourself in a positive way. Everything around the world depends on how you start thinking. When you start thinking that way, the world also goes that way. Be confident the way you act, talk and most of all the way you think. Never mind the way people look at you. If you are confident on your own, how the other sees you doesn't matter anymore.
Have some **self-care**. When others doesn't see your value, be the one to see it and appreciate it. Take care of yourself physically, mentally and psychologically. Remember that a right person will love you for who you are and once they see the beauty in you, they also see the sexy version of yourself. Sexy and sexual are different. You can be sexy by being confident and knowing where you stand. **Sexiness is a personality traits** that comes from the confidence. It's more beautiful to present yourself the way you want it and not because of how the society tells you. In the end, it's not the about the sexiness that matters but how you become the best version of yourself.
***Sexy confidence is a self-assurance in yourself to be who you are, and not try too hard to be something else. It also means knowing when to say that you are wrong, and the way you do it.***
Yes, they can make you feel less attractive compared to others. They can give low self-confidence and esteem. But you don't really have to become like them. Just wear the clothes you want to wear and there's nothing wrong of it as long as you're confident of it. Also, don't forget to add ***smile*** because a smile makes you a thousand more attractive. Be confident on your own and people will appreciate the confidence you have stored and earned. You are ***attractive*** and ***unique*** just like the others. You are sexy and beautiful like them regardless your shape. Have some confidence to speak and this will add more attractiveness and sexiness within you. Stop following the definitions of sexy according to society. Remember that life is short and be your own best version you ever seen. Others may not see you beautiful the way you see yourself but always remember this, be confident with your skin.
Different Beauty Standards Across The World
How do you define beauty? How do you see someone's beauty physically? They say beauty is subjective and it depends on the eye of the beholder. One can be the prettiest in the eye of one person and also one can be the ugliest in the eye of one person as well.
The truth is that there is different **standards** of **beauty** in this world and across the world. When we try to look at the physical appearance, there is no specific way to tell someone is beautiful and you expect the world to agree with you because most probably, the others doesn't see it the way you do. So many cultures around the world who has different **perceptions of beauty** and you cannot judge them nor they can judge you as to how you define beauty in this world.
Now, let's take a look of different beauty standards and perceptions of different countries and why this is beautiful to them.
**Korean Beauty**
Korean likes to be **porcelain** in skin. Having a pale and flawless skin is beautiful. Having an enhanced eyes to look larger and a small **chin** is beautiful. Double **eyelids** are beautiful because it makes your eyes appear rounder and bigger. Now, to enhance this quality Koreans have done a lot of surgeries that actually change their looks!
If you do not know, South Korea is known and famous for it's high quality **cosmetic surgery.** Some people would spend a huge amount of money just to go with the trend and become satisfied with their appearance. One of the most well done surgery is their eyelids to make their appears bigger and rounder.
**American Beauty**
Americans like to have smoky eyes with intense lips and contour appearance. Contrary to Koreans who stay out of shade to have a pale skin, Americans like their skin to appear **tanning** whenever they go out. They like to have a full lips and most of all **bigger breast** and **butt** with very **thin waist**. They also like to wear heavy make-up. An overly groomed brows are beautiful and wearing more revealing clothes will make a person more beautiful.
**East African Beauty**
Africans like to stretch their earlobe and wear **beaded earrings**. They sometimes wear stones, bones and wood. Not only it make them beautiful but for them it is seen as a symbol of wisdom and respect. Sometimes they used more huge piercings to elaborate more the earlobes. They like putting a lot of jewelries to their bodies. **Piercings**, **colorful** **bracelets** and **necklace**. Having more beads will make a woman more beautiful. Sometimes they are worn in cartilage.
**Latin American Beauty**
Latinas doesn't want to gain so much meat on their bones. They like to emphasize the curvy forms. Sometimes they undergone breasts augmentations. Just like in America, they also like to have lifted and big butts.
**French Beauty**
French people are different, for them the purpose of wearing make-up is to make yourself a little bit more beautiful but not to alter you whole appearance and change it into not you anymore. They believe in the **AU-Naturel** where you don't have to change your appearance and be confident in showing your **bare face** to the world.
Always remember that you are beautiful in your own ways and you just to have to look and appreciate it. Everyone is unique and everyone has different standards of beauty so learn to appreciate yours. We are all beautiful creatures in this world. Be unique and learn to appreciate yourself that you are special too. Be confident in your own beauty and you will find who you are. There's no need to hide and change it, you are beautiful in your own ways.
Do You Know What Are Psychics?
Are you a psychic? Do you know anyone who you think has psychic abilities?
**Psychic** ability is the ability to be able to read people's mind without them telling you what's on their mind. They can also **predict** the **future** that we cannot see and determine. Although, not people may believe in psychic abilities but some people seems to show the ability of being a psychic.
Some may claimed themselves as psychic and fool people. This will lead people to believe that psychic is nothing but a **fake trickery**. Even though there are people who seems to fool people, there are few people who can be really called as psychic in this world.
***How do other people see the Psychics?***
People or non believer of psychic tells that psychic doesn't consider relevant and critical information. They only view the world in their own **subjective perspectives**.
But despite that, there are still people who are genuine in reading cards and foretelling the future. They give the best advice that they can. The sad reality is that there are many **skeptics** and **stereotyping** happening with the psychics all around the world. It left people wondering how and why in these world they can predict the future if only God can do it?
*Some people who just consulted to psychics claimed that almost what they predicted are accurate. Their spiritual questions and life path were told.*
Psychics are sometimes called as the **medium**. If you haven't heard of it, they are sometimes famous in the movies. These kind of psychic often bases on scientific odds in order to predict something. This is an old way of prediction. They are also called as fortune-teller. They are sensitive to the world and aware of what's happening around them.
***Do you know that dogs are thought to have pyschic abilities? This is because dog barks for no reason even no one was there. Dogs are thought to see spirits that we human who has no six sense cannot see within our bare two eyes.***
*How do you know if you are a psychic one or someone is a real psychic, well here are the signs you can look for;*
**You're empathetic**
You are able to feel the *suffering* and *emotions* of other people. You are able to absorb and feel it as if it's your own emotions without asking the other people how they are feeling with. You are aware of what the other people are feeling. Being an empathetic means you have very strong emotions all the time. You get sad for no apparent reason whenever you start to look someone's eyes or see them, you feel what their soul is feeling. You are able to drained what the other people feel. You need to be brave to handle this as you will meet more in life who has different emotions all the time and you, the empath one will feel it all.
**Experiencing a lot of Deja Vu**
You have these feeling that you are familiar with a lot of people even though you haven't seen them yet. You are familiar with with *people* and *places* that you haven't been before. Sometimes your dreams are vivid and appearing in real life. Your visions are more than real and true. Sometimes you will see your vision when you appear on a historic or old place that reminds you of an old times. Sometimes spirit who has on the other side of world tends to send you messages and a bridge to connect to their love ones who are still living.
**Strong Intuition**
You have the strong gut feeling or intuition about *people* and *events*. A direction seems to tell you that there must be something going on here. Psychic people has strong intuition all the time. You are aware of any possible dangers in any situation and thus it can keep you safe all the time. Sometimes even the negative energies people are bringing makes you aware of and this will give you an idea to avoid them as soon as possible.
Being a psychic means you have a strong **senses** and **perceptions** compared to the normal people. It means you can see things that are not physically there. Being able to experience strange event such as astral projections. Being a psychic is difficult, people need your **affirmations** and **assurance**. Pyschic people are often empathetic and telepathic in so many ways that some people may call it as a supernatural ability in life.
You Are What You Think Of Yourself
How do you see yourself? What do you think of yourself? Each of us has different perspectives in this world. Each of us sees the world different.
You see and feel the world based on how you think about it. **Just because you see that way does not mean the others see that in that way as well.** We are all unique given with different abilities and skills in life. Sometimes, how you see yourself also become how other see you as well.
The **success** and **contentment** also depends with yourself on how you see and think about it. The beauty of everything depends on how you see it as well. The *filters* and *senses* are found inside your perspectives. One of most important thing you can see, is yourself.
***The way you see something is also the way how it matters to yourself.*** Sometimes when you see something too much or you feel like it's not good or hurting your senses it would start to matter to you because it has something to do on how you see it. Everything that we see and think about start to become connected simply because we think about them in the same way. Sometimes it leads to generalization which sometimes we thought right but we actually not.
If you don't know about **Self-concept**, it's a matter of your self experience, images of yourself towards your view, and the things you heard about the other people towards yourself.
Think about it. When someone keeps on telling you that you are ***weak***, you will keep on thinking and thinking about it until you believed about it in your whole life. You will get to easily believed that what the other people say are true and it affects your own ***perspectives*** towards yourself and even to the whole world. When you start believing something, it start to become true towards yourself.
*Have some time to reflect. Have some time to think whether what they say matter. Does it matter? Is it valuable? Do you have to live believing that? The answer is No. You don't have to let them say what you want to hear, it's how you see yourself that matters the most. Learn to change the wrong perspectives you have and do not stick to it forever. It will do no good to you and even to the people you surround.*
Instead of thinking about how others see you, why don't you just focus on the things you can do. Develop them and be the best version of yourself that you never imagined you could be. What are your potentials? Use them to contribute to this world and as a weapon to become a useful individual in the society. What about your passions? Start to hone and develop them and there you will find enjoyment doing your hobby.
I need to end this with a saying, **"Not you think about yourself is true,**" Sometimes in life we are stucked in a wrong mindset. We need that deep inner confidence that we don't need to ask from the other people. We don't need to ask permission from them to do so. It's you, yourself who can do it and bring a great change. Stop the self-doubt and be something bigger than ever. Do not be afraid to sail the huge winds for they will bring you to your final destination. Do not let the thoughts of the other people make you doubt your whole existence. Yes, we are not perfect and sometimes we fail to do the things that other people want us to prove for them but think about it, it doesn't matter whether they are satisfied with you or not. You are the one who is in control of your life and not them. But if you allow them to be the master of your life then you are also allowing them to corrupt your mind.
***You are the one who own your story and do not let the other decide how it would turn out to be. Create your own beautiful stories in life and stop all the ugly thing you believed about yourself. It won't help you to have a better life. No one is worse and we can be better individuals. Don't be too hard to yourself and do not think just because someone see you that way then you will start seeing yourself that way too. Live a life with a beautiful perspective and mindset***.
Do You Trust Your Intuition?
Do you believe in your intuition? Do you wonder why you have that instinct?
**Gut instinct or intuition** is a feeling that you know something might happen. Sometimes you might feel weird movements. They say trust your intuition because they send you signal to keep you away from bad things. Maybe it will appear when you are lost and your intuition tells you this might be the correct way. In our daily life we have endless though not only about ourselves but even thoughts to the world. ***From the saying of older people, listen to your Intuition because it is truly the best for you.***
Sometimes our intuition tests how much we **trust** ourselves. This is given to us naturally to have awareness of something. Sometimes they are the star that tells the right path. But we humans are full of uncertainty and that is why we don't fully trust our intuition. There is always a doubt in everything we do. Sometimes we need evidence because to us, intuition is not always enough. Always remember our intuition is there to give us aware of the things around us.
Some people think that their **intuition** is not that **accurate** enough. Maybe a website they are visiting who lacks a lot of needed info. But just like the website, we can find ways to upgrade it for a better experience. If you are wondering how you can make use of your intuition then there are some quite few tactics that if you worked so hard will paid off.
The first key to have a better intuition is through **meditation**. Meditating gives you time to rethink and listen to your inner spirit. This is a important step to make your intuition sharp than ever. Just meditate. People also find that their intuition become active once they become creative. There are so many ways to become creative if you don't know how to start one. If you like ***painting*** then go start painting and open up your senses. If you like ***writing*** then go start writing and open your mind. These are just one of the basic thing that if you do makes you creative and thus sharpens your intuition to think.
When our intuition starts, we always have these two things. ***"This feels so right,"*** or***"No, this isn't true."***
You might think, how intuition can be the sense of knowing and right decision. The truth is our intuition is always there, always. Sometimes our intuition can lead us to tough debate within ourselves. Like a question **Yes** or **No.**
**Do you know that Science has evidence about our intuition?**
*Studies found that the intuitive part of the human brain knows the right answer long before the more analytic part.*
If you have heard about, **Your intuition is always correct!** Yes that could be true. The truth is every person has intuition but not everyone listens to it.
*Intuition is the way the subconscious mind communicates with the conscious mind. The feeling that tells you it's real is actually real. We human are blessed to have this ability, to feel intuition towards things.*
There people whose intuition are exceptions, we call them ***'highly intuitive'*** people. They always get a close touch to thei intuitions and for most of the time they listen to it. Often, people call them with **sixth sense abilities.** It is a great power of listening to your deep level. Listening to yourself and no other than. Allowing to open your heart with consequences. A sensory and emotional experience. It is a kind of ability that we all can develop through times, only if you let yourself to.
**Listen to your inner voice**. If you take the time to believe that your intuition is valid just like everything else and a different from opinion then it will be visible and concrete to you to achieve this ability that not everyone is paying attention now. Once our intuition starts to speak in our inner sense then we need to start listening.
I Want To Reach My Dreams In Life Someday
We all have dreams to reach in life. Each of them give us meaning everyday when we wake up. They are the one who give us motivation everyday not to give up in life because if we do, we won't reach them and it would be impossible to get near to our dreams.
Since I am new here, I want to share my dreams and aspirations in life. Life is always unpredictable so sometimes I think if my dreams are real or they are surreal. No matter what, they are still dreams and nothing is wrong with dreaming. As they have said, ***It is free to dream****.*
Some people are still on their way to discovering their dreams in life. Sometimes they are our hobbies that we call *dream*. They say a dream is what makes a person happiest and motivated in life. It's pretty true. Your dream house, your dream job, your dream places. All of them are beautiful to think.
***So here are my dreams in life that I hope I can achieve in God's perfect timing and right time.***
**I Want To Travel The World**
Yes, I really want to travel the world someday. I know how costly traveling is and sometimes I think it will only be a "*dream*." But they say nothing is impossible if you believe in your dreams so I am holding on that I can do it.
I have read a quote that,
***You will never felt alive not until you travel the world.***
For me, it's real. Going into different beautiful places is amazing and nice. You will get a lot of beautiful memories and adventures that cannot be paid by money. I hope one day I would be able to do it and of course with my family. I wouldn't be traveling alone without them and I know it cost so much. I hope that time I have enough of everything to travel the world. So many beautiful places I wanna see someday with my two eyes.
**I Want to Help Homeless People and Create Charity**
Yes, I am not that millionaire but I want to spend my life helping the less unfortunate people in life. We are all passing by and the best thing you can do is to help the other people. We are given both hands, each to help the other people. I want to give support to the people who are unfortunate in life and bring change to their lives.
***It's beautiful to help people and no wonder why people that are helping always has the brightest smile, because their hearts are full with love*****.** We are all the same in this world, we only bleed the same color of blood so there is no reason not to help anyone who really need our help. The world is beautiful and helping is beautiful. This is the thing that I want to do and spend in my life because in doing it, I feel that I am not helping people but I am also creating a better world for everyone.
**I Want To Start My Own Business**
Yes, this is true for me. I want to start my own business someday. I know I am not knowledgeable enough about this but everything can be learn. I want to start ***coffee shop*** business someday with books in the corner. I love that style and I love the way it is. I love the idea people reading books while taking favourite coffee in the morning or in the rainy season is the best. For me, it's relaxing and full of happiness. To unwind and have a peace of mind. It's a kind of meditation to build your own coffee shop someday.
And last but not the least, I want a peaceful mind leaving in a cozy house filled with beautiful garden. I see a lot of people wanting to live in a beautiful and big city. Yes, for me they are beautiful but their attraction doesn't lasts that much to me. I prefer a simple life in the farm feeding cute animals and feeling a fresh breeze. That is what my dreams are. If you are thinking that I am going to mention having car and mansions even the latest iPhone, well you are wrong about that. All I want is a simple yet productive life in this world.
*A beautiful life to remember.*
@Mathilde
